I sent her a PM (a while ago) talking about why men might feel insecure about being with women who are smarter than them. That question itself is not important anymore, since the subject is now something else.
Here is what she replied to me:
I believe though that the guy's value in the relationship would be one of provider and strength.
!!! Sounds like something you can hear from a white supremacist.
I never said I had to think I was smarter than the man. Only that I would like for my intelligence to not be dismissed. I have no time for a man who has to pretend I'm dumb to be secure. That man would be too weak for me.
Okay, obviously it's natural for her to feel annoyed/frustrated when she has to pretend to be stupider than she really is. But the point is, which words does she use to express her frustration? She doesn't say "I'm tired of it", or "it hurts me". Instead she says that such a man is simply
too weak for her.
. He is not bad because he dismisses her intelligence (or otherwise insults her), he is bad because he is
weak. He is not enough to match her level of social dominance. She only wants to be of someone of equal
worth to herself. That means, weak people don't have worth.
I thought at first that she was hurt by being thought of as stupider (or having to pretend that she is), that it makes her feel bad about herself. I thought she was sad and lonely and hurting. But no, actually she just hates weak people. It's simply a matter of wasting her time... so many worthless weaklings around to deal with.
Being weak psychologically... is the same as being sick, poor, old, homeless. It's a form of misery. So she applies a kind of selection to people. Anyone who is suffering must be in that state because they deserve it. They haven't been strong enough to avoid suffering. If they are weak and insecure, it's because they are inferior, defective. She will only mate with a good specimen of the human race. No inheritable diseases, good teeth, healthy social life, good income, proper skull shape, no missing limbs, etc, etc. Eugenical selection.
This person scares me.