Shocking news [teenage]

[Frito Bandito]

thumbs up for three 6 mafia, lol

 

[The Good Citizen]

Don't want to go against the grain here but I think lines like "she's a horrible person. An evil person" and some of the other comments on here are a bit OTT. So they split up, she had sex within someone when they split up and has recently got in touch and is looking to get back together.

Look its probably best he avoids getting back together based on the 5 line description he's given but its a bit unfair on this girl to cast her as some Jezebel who is going straight to hell from what he wrote. As they guy says, he is a teenager, not sure how young and sounds pretty inexperienced, I wouldn't be setting him on the path of thinking anyone who has a fling when single is evil and by default a bitch. She probably isn't you know, just some kid who probably could do without any public condemnation or backlash from the OP based on the advice he's been given from older posters with a bit more life experience.

 

[passage]

Don't want to go against the grain here but I think lines like "she's a horrible person. An evil person" and some of the other comments on here are a bit OTT. So they split up, she had sex within someone when they split up and has recently got in touch and is looking to get back together.

Look its probably best he avoids getting back together based on the 5 line description he's given but its a bit unfair on this girl to cast her as some Jezebel who is going straight to hell from what he wrote. As they guy says, he is a teenager, not sure how young and sounds pretty inexperienced, I wouldn't be setting him on the path of thinking anyone who has a fling when single is evil and by default a bitch. She probably isn't you know, just some kid who probably could do without any public condemnation or backlash from the OP based on the advice he's been given from older posters with a bit more life experience.

In theory you are right, but realistically (I'm not 100% sure, but pretty sure) this women/girl is just looking to use the OP as an emotional tampon, while she goes out sleeping with other guys. Was it really a must for her to say "lets get back together" and then the next day say "but I just slept with someone a day ago" (probably called right after she slept with the guy, cause he was only using her for sex).

Now of course I'm really speculating, but it seems like a probable scenario to me. In any case, just the fact that she said lets get back together the same day that she lost her virginity is more than rude, its just disrespectful and shows that the OP is her backup guy. It's enough to cut off contact with this girl.

 

[TropicalStarfish]

What you need to do is buy yourself a carton of eggs...

Then give her one of the eggs and say, "this is my heart, if you can bring this back to me tommorow unbroken, it means we were meant to get back together."

Then if she brings it back broken... It's not meant to be, move on...

If she brings it back in one peice... Take it from her and say, "This is what you've done to my heart!!!" Then smash it on the ground and run away Napolean Dynamite style and don't waste your time with her anymore.

It's a win win for you either way. Good luck!

 

[annik]

Don't want to go against the grain here but I think lines like "she's a horrible person. An evil person" and some of the other comments on here are a bit OTT. So they split up, she had sex within someone when they split up and has recently got in touch and is looking to get back together.

Look its probably best he avoids getting back together based on the 5 line description he's given but its a bit unfair on this girl to cast her as some Jezebel who is going straight to hell from what he wrote. As they guy says, he is a teenager, not sure how young and sounds pretty inexperienced, I wouldn't be setting him on the path of thinking anyone who has a fling when single is evil and by default a bitch. She probably isn't you know, just some kid who probably could do without any public condemnation or backlash from the OP based on the advice he's been given from older posters with a bit more life experience.

Can I just say thank you, this is pretty much exactly what I was thinking and probably the most sense talked in this thread.

 

[geordy70]

Don't want to go against the grain here but I think lines like "she's a horrible person. An evil person" and some of the other comments on here are a bit OTT. So they split up, she had sex within someone when they split up and has recently got in touch and is looking to get back together.

Look its probably best he avoids getting back together based on the 5 line description he's given but its a bit unfair on this girl to cast her as some Jezebel who is going straight to hell from what he wrote. As they guy says, he is a teenager, not sure how young and sounds pretty inexperienced, I wouldn't be setting him on the path of thinking anyone who has a fling when single is evil and by default a bitch. She probably isn't you know, just some kid who probably could do without any public condemnation or backlash from the OP based on the advice he's been given from older posters with a bit more life experience.

One important thing to remember is that they are teenagers.
Inexperienced, unknowing, and often make stupid mistakes. While its not right to condemn anyone to a steriotype, its better to take precautions rather then fall for something that often happens (hence the reason for the steriotype).
In my opnion he doesnt have to be the hugest **** in the world and completely harass her about it, but rather be as polite as he can be with telling her that he doesnt want to be with her. It doesnt have to turn into a truamatic experience for both of them. Just cut ties and let her figure out her own life without messing up his.

 

[Astral_Punisher]

It doesn't have to turn into a traumatic experience for both of them. Just cut ties and let her figure out her own life without messing up his.

Strongly agree with this.