Xpendable said:
Every girl who says her partner is not attractive... are you?
Because we pretty much form couples with very similar looks-value. 95% of couples match their attractiveness level.
I'm sure there are several people here who will tell you I am.
Saulgoodmanfan said:
TheRealCallie said:
Saulgoodmanfan said:
nibbysaurus said:
That's probably because different people have different tastes
Yes for the user who was honest about her tastes that's great. But the user who claims looks dont matter, that's not taste, that's enforcing their opinion with little evidence.
I assume I'm one of those you are talking about. Why the hell do you need evidence of what I am attracted to? My husband is shorter than me. I have dated many guys shorter than me. My husband is not exactly the best looking guy ever and neither are several of the guys I've dated.
I am attracted to PERSONALITY. I don't give a flying **** if you are hot as hell if you are also an arrogant ***. Same applies to the reverse. I dontd care what you look like if you treat me well. Attraction isn't always based on looks.
It's funny though how someone who says they want a tall guy is "honest" without offering evidence, yet I'm a liar because I don't offer evidence. Hypocritical much?
Sorry if I made you mad, which I didnt mean to. Not trying to start a heated argument. I didn't mean you either as I barely know you as I am a new user. What I am saying is NajobHuslam claims that there is no correlation between. Appearance and getting a girl. Some people like appearance so that claim is false. If she or he was saying they didnt prefer appearance than that would be fine.
Also I'm not trying to say anyone is dishonest. I know there are people who do not judge appearance out there. That's good. I dislike an appearance based society. That's a shallow world I do not want to live in.
But what they said isn't entirely untrue...a little generalized maybe, but not exactly untrue. Throughout history there have even been high profile couple with the girl taller (example....Nicole Kidman and...well, anyone. lol)
They said getting a girl and HEIGHT, which isn't exactly "appearance" in the sense you are conveying.
The poster never said women don't base their decisions on that, just that those that do are shallow, which is also true. The same for men who only date women with big ****s or women that are a certain size or women who are shorter than them.
Yes, it is their personal preference and that's their right, but it does make them a little shallow if they disregard everyone who doesn't fit their perfect little mold.
And really, there only correlation of anything is from stupid studies done by stupid websites that aren't entirely presenting all the facts. Society tells people what they SHOULD like, what they SHOULD be attracted to. And people fall in line, because OMG, WE HAVE TO DO WHAT SOCIETY SAYS, WE CAN'T BE DIFFERENT!
Lots of people go against society, more people should. All this "league" ******** is really annoying. NO ONE is too good for anyone else and those that think they are....well, you should probably stay away from them anyway.
Just my opinion, of course.
Oh and I wasn't mad, just simply disagreeing with you. But hey, I'm just an illogical (apparently ugly) *****, so what do I know.
lol