DakotaDesert said:
So you are in the same situation. How do you manage that? What do you get over the disappointment and the sadness?
One time after another it hurts less and less but it is still painfull. And the feeling that I will never be happy ever again with a man makes things worst.
Well, I never really get over the disappointment and sadness, but I've learned to deal with it. I'm very fortunate that I have two beautiful daughters from my marriage. I'm focusing pretty intently on their well-being and just being a mom.
At some point, thought I know I have to start living for myself, but not just yet. I'm really not in the mood for ******** from men, and yes, I do have a bad attitude just thinking about relationships. In order for me to get over this very bad attitude about the men who like me, I need to expend some effort.
Right now though, I'd much rather spend the time with my kids, so I've come to accept being alone. y roughest times are when the kids are at the father's house. That's when I tend to fall apart. :/
DakotaDesert said:
I think that being with someone more miserable than them makes them feel better. It is psychologically proven that the misery of some people makes some other people feeling happier.
You could very well be right.