So what do you want, RIGHT NOW?

[TheRealCallie]

I wanted it to be sincere, so bad.

Honestly I'd rather have the opposite -
I'd rather have people ignore me, or even tell me I suck,
rather than butter me up, flatter me for months, make me feel like I'm special, and we're really connecting,
just to kick the ladder out from under me when the first pseudo-intellectual tech bro comes along spouting out very basic, half-baked, bathtub-level depth "highdeas".

Anyway. I guess we'll have to wait and see.

Thanks for having my back, in any case.

Is this you jumping to conclusions prematurely, did someone play with you or did someone just "ghost" you on a dating site or the like?

If it's someone playing with you, I really hope that "wait and see" is not you going to accept them back into your life if they decide you are good enough again. You deserve more than that, Ska.

 

[TheSkaFish]

Is this you jumping to conclusions prematurely, did someone play with you or did someone just "ghost" you on a dating site or the like?

If it's someone playing with you, I really hope that "wait and see" is not you going to accept them back into your life if they decide you are good enough again. You deserve more than that, Ska.

Thanks Callie.

I don't know what the situation really is, or what I even feel right now.
It seems like I'm always exaggerating my importance to the women I meet that I think I could potentially date.

It seems she got back to me today, and I'm treading very carefully trying not to get ahead of myself.
Just play it cool.
For now I'm just trying to take things one moment at a time.
We're not dating. I'm not dating anyone at the moment. Just talking.

It would probably be best if I could build up some energy to tackle more immediate things, to take my mind off it for a while.