OK, it's over (I think).
We found out what happened, the fire started in the kitchen, Naydeen grabbed her youngest child and ran to a nieghbors house, she give the the baby to the nieghbor and ran back for the oldest boy,(5 years old) she went in the front of the burning house while a nieghbor ran to the back, he rescued the older boy but she was searching for him and was overcome by smoke, the man dragged her from the house but she died before help could get there. (CPR wasn't well known in 1964)
My daughter said that she was still looking for the boy and that's why she was still there and why I felt she was searching for something.
She had an idea, if we could prove that the boy was alive maybe she could pass over. (Or what ever ghosts do). So we found the oldest boy and he still lives in the area, we ask for a picture of both brothers and planned to leave it in the bedroom. To my surprise he wanted to bring the picture himself, so we met him at the house. We entered the bedroom that I first felt her, Rob (the son) became very quiet and pale, he whispered that she was there, he stood totally still, the tempature dropped 20 degrees and our new EMF meters needle was jumping wildly. Rob jumped and said something had touched him and then it became very quiet, the meter fell to zero, and like that, she was gone.
It's been almost 2 weeks now and the owners said the house is quiet and nothing else has happened. We left the picture in the bed room.
I think she found what she was searching for.
I was a little upset that we didn't get any hard evidence and by the way, I listened to the Ipod and it was kinda spooky but I'm not convinced it was my name she was saying. It kinda sounded like it but it could have been any number of things.
Rob is now the newest member of our little group.
I would like to think I helped her in some way but I'll never know.
Was it a ghost? I can't say, but it's funny that it stopped when it did.