The Ugly One...

[CenotaphGirl]

Oh, I see it a little differently.
Like she intentionally used the poor sap for her own purposes, and them threw him away when she was done with him.

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Never a good sign when she makes him hold her purse.
Even worse that he allowed it.

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I suppose this is her new life post divorce.

I dont understand how she used him, he chose her, he went out there and literally chose her. Or am I presuming too much?

 

[Unsigned]

I dont understand how she used him, he chose her, he went out there and literally chose her. Or am I presuming too much?

You are presuming WAAAAY too much.
Look at her, then look at him.
A guy like that is very easily manipulated by a girl who looks like her, especially with her sad stories about life in No. Korea.
Just my take on it. She played him like a guitar.

 

[TheRealCallie]

The issue is Callie as much as Ardour doesnt want a granny messaging him he also wants her to message, because if no one messages in a mans mind they arent even good enough for that. Thats how much they internalise rejection and feel isolated from women. We complain of men of low to no quality messaging which is a privilege because we aren't treated like men, we at least get that, they get nothing, like 0 i cant even begin to imagine it.

I would rather get 0, honestly. After the millionth message asking if you want to hook up, some start feeling like that's all they are good for. Might as well charge and make some money at that rate.

Dare say you're still more likely to happen across a guy who's okay with your kids than an older virgin male here is of finding a sane partner. Doesn't seem like a long time looking yet either.

Well yeah, partly because I'm not as picky as you (again, you want what you want, there's nothing wrong with that) and also because I don't go into things thinking negatively.

 

[ardour]

Yeah its interesting, makes you wonder why these men cant keep a woman, it kind of throws the “no one gives me a chance” excuse out the window

Er.. what? Those women never wanted the relationship in the first place. It's not their fault they can't keep something that never existed going. Although three years of fake affection might seem preferable to nothing at all.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Er.. what? Those women never wanted the relationship in the first place. It's not their fault they can't keep something that never existed going. Although three years of fake affection might seem preferable to nothing at all.

They never wanted it, so why are they in it? Im confused here ? These men are purposely getting women they know want to say no but cant?

 

[Unsigned]

They never wanted it, so why are they in it?

To use the man for her own purposes and throw him away when done.

These men are purposely getting women they know want to say no but cant?

Because we are desperately lonely and biologically need a female to want and need us.
Logic can go out the window.
I've been there, but thank God I was always able to keep my senses and never got married. Because I was still sane enough to see that the ones that wanted me to marry them ONLY wanted to use me for their purposes.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

To use the man for her own purposes and throw him away when done.


Because we are desperately lonely and biologically need a female to want and need us.
Logic can go out the window.
I've been there, but thank God I was always able to keep my senses and never got married. Because I was still sane enough to see that the ones that wanted me to marry them ONLY wanted to use me for their purposes.

Hmm and what did you want them for?

 

[Unsigned]

Hmm and what did you want them for?

All three were former escorts who latched onto me and left the business.
I didn't really "want" them per se. They just sort of picked me.
I enjoyed their company, but I felt sorry for them and began to take care of them (years apart, not at the same time).

The first one was American (Latina) and wanted to get married, I suppose, to impress her family who were immigrants. She made it clear in no uncertain terms that she was with me because I was a fit/trim 40 y/o Caucasian with a 6 figure income.

The second and third were both Korean and absolutely wanted Green Cards.

What would I want if I did get married?
A loyal, faithful, dutiful, deferential, young beautiful wife for cooking, cleaning and sex, and to take out to restaurants, weekend getaways and nice vacations. The traditional marriage as was known in the US prior to the 1960s. That is what I would want.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

All three were former escorts who latched onto me and left the business.
I didn't really "want" them per se. They just sort of picked me.
I enjoyed their company, but I felt sorry for them and began to take care of them (years apart, not at the same time).

The first one was American (Latina) and wanted to get married, I suppose, to impress her family who were immigrants. She made it clear in no uncertain terms that she was with me because I was a fit/trim 40 y/o Caucasian with a 6 figure income.

The second and third were both Korean and absolutely wanted Green Cards.

What would I want if I did get married?
A loyal, faithful, dutiful, deferential, young beautiful wife for cooking, cleaning and sex, and to take out to restaurants, weekend getaways and nice vacations. The traditional marriage as was known in the US prior to the 1960s. That is what I would want.

This is interesting to me, is it an issue that a woman is only with you because of your appearance ?

 

[Unsigned]

This is interesting to me, is it an issue that a woman is only with you because of your appearance ?

It was not my physical appearance (ie being handsome) so much as her wanting to impress her family that she could get a college educated, relatively successful American guy who wasn't a fat slob or something. I would never have married her. I felt bad for her and took care of her for a couple of years, but it was very clear to me that she was an alimony/child support bomb ready to explode my life.

I am lonely, desperate at times, but not stupid.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

It was not my physical appearance (ie being handsome) so much as her wanting to impress her family that she could get a college educated, relatively successful American guy who wasn't a fat slob or something. I would never have married her. I felt bad for her and took care of her for a couple of years, but it was very clear to me that she was an alimony/child support bomb ready to explode my life.

I am lonely, desperate at times, but not stupid.

How interesting, do you think deep down you would have been happy being married to a former escort even if she wasn’t going to use you ?

 

[ardour]

Oh, I see it a little differently.
Like she intentionally used the poor sap for her own purposes, and them threw him away when she was done with him.

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Never a good sign when she makes him hold her purse.
Even worse that he allowed it.

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I suppose this is her new life post divorce.

You might ask why that man (top) did it to himself. What was he thinking? Didn't decades alone teach him anything about his place in society?

The icing on a sh*t cake, her new boyfriend looks like an actual loser.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

You might ask why that man (top) did it to himself. What was he thinking? Was his brain not attached to his spinal cord? Emotional breakdown? Didn't decades alone teach him anything about his place in society?

The icing on a sh*t cake, her new boyfriend looks like an actual loser.

These men think women abroad are gods gift thats why then they find out women are women and wonder why they cant keep any woman from anywhere

 

[Unsigned]

How interesting, do you think deep down you would have been happy being married to a former escort even if she wasn’t going to use you ?

I could be happy married to a former escort (my body count is probably as high or higher) IF she was completely 100% faithful to me and a traditional wife like from the 1950s.

Which most likely does not exist.
And certainly that girl was not.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I could be happy married to a former escort (my body count is probably as high or higher) IF she was completely 100% faithful to me and a traditional wife like from the 1950s.

Which most likely does not exist.
And certainly that girl was not.

Thats such a unique perspective, never heard a man say that before, very interesting, would you be faithful too?

 

[Unsigned]

Thats such a unique perspective, never heard a man say that before, very interesting, would you be faithful too?

If she was faithful to me, absolutely.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

If she was faithful to me, absolutely.

Hmmm im sold, I like it! I wont interrogate ya any further

 

[MysteriousTelephone]

As someone who is referred to as “The Ugly One” of my friends, I can relate.

My friends themselves don’t call me that, they’re super nice, but other people do comment on it. Whereas my friends are all happily in relationships, I’m just the single one who can’t get anything together.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

As someone who is referred to as “The Ugly One” of my friends, I can relate.

My friends themselves don’t call me that, they’re super nice, but other people do comment on it. Whereas my friends are all happily in relationships, I’m just the single one who can’t get anything together.

Do you feel like the ugly one or just the one who is unlucky in love?

 

[MysteriousTelephone]

Do you feel like the ugly one or just the one who is unlucky in love?

I don’t feel like the ugly one, I feel somewhere in the ballpark of normal, however the single women of the world tend to disagree.