Today at work

[putter65]

ROFL!! You mean your head was near her groin/private/lady parts/****** area. I could use other words but I don't want to offend the ladies here and be virtually smacked.

I would have made jokes too. I don't think they are pulling a joke on you, sounds like they are just taking an interest in you. Either woman B is interested in you or both A & B like your friendship.

Yes lol

I knew what Woman A was laughing at. She was stood about 10 yards away and it must have been funny to look at.

Yes I think they like me as a friend. But that's it.

 

[Sci-Fi]

Hey there is nothing wrong with that. Maybe Woman B will warm up to you more and realize there might be more to the two of you. You just never know. Gotta keep all your options open. Just not fake woman...

 

[putter65]

Hey there is nothing wrong with that. Maybe Woman B will warm up to you more and realize there might be more to the two of you. You just never know. Gotta keep all your options open. Just not fake woman...

Thanks.

What worked with fake holiday woman didn't with Woman B.

I sent fake holiday woman a text and said 'we will have to meet up sometime' - she replied 'definately' - I did that four months ago and got a date with her then.

Woman B just didn't respond to my 'we will have to goto cinema sometime'

 

[Sci-Fi]

You could turn your life into one of those young adult shows, make tons of money then have all the honeys you want.

 

[Lonely in BC]

She's using you. She's going to keep on using you until you put a stop to it. I know it may seem nice to have that companionship but it's not good for you.

She sent a text today, just everyday chit, chat.

Woman B is single by the way, she was talking about it. I said 'didn't know you was single' - she didn't answer though.

Daft thing happened today with Woman B.

We was both working on the chill section, she was stood on a stool and I was crouched down next to her. Woman A saw us and starting giggling. I said 'she's finding something funny' - Woman B had a embarrassed smile on her face. Woman A was laughing because my head was level and close to Woman B's upper legs / middle area.

I know they have talked about what has been happening. Both of them asked me how I was getting on with fake holiday woman. I replied we were just friends.

Could be a joke they are pulling on me.

So maybe it looked kind of like this?

 

[Ak5]

^ LMFAO!

 

[putter65]

She's using you. She's going to keep on using you until you put a stop to it. I know it may seem nice to have that companionship but it's not good for you.

She sent a text today, just everyday chit, chat.

Woman B is single by the way, she was talking about it. I said 'didn't know you was single' - she didn't answer though.

Daft thing happened today with Woman B.

We was both working on the chill section, she was stood on a stool and I was crouched down next to her. Woman A saw us and starting giggling. I said 'she's finding something funny' - Woman B had a embarrassed smile on her face. Woman A was laughing because my head was level and close to Woman B's upper legs / middle area.

I know they have talked about what has been happening. Both of them asked me how I was getting on with fake holiday woman. I replied we were just friends.

Could be a joke they are pulling on me.

So maybe it looked kind of like this?

lol

 

[putter65]

She's using you. She's going to keep on using you until you put a stop to it. I know it may seem nice to have that companionship but it's not good for you.

She sent a text today, just everyday chit, chat.

Woman B is single by the way, she was talking about it. I said 'didn't know you was single' - she didn't answer though.

Daft thing happened today with Woman B.

We was both working on the chill section, she was stood on a stool and I was crouched down next to her. Woman A saw us and starting giggling. I said 'she's finding something funny' - Woman B had a embarrassed smile on her face. Woman A was laughing because my head was level and close to Woman B's upper legs / middle area.

I know they have talked about what has been happening. Both of them asked me how I was getting on with fake holiday woman. I replied we were just friends.

Could be a joke they are pulling on me.

So maybe it looked kind of like this?

lol

I have a plan to ask fake holiday woman to the cinema next week. I will ask on Wednesday to see if she can make Saturday. A no lose situation because I don't care that much.

 

[Sci-Fi]

Gah! Dude...what are you doing to yourself? Are you really not putting too much effort into fake holiday woman? Would hate to see her wipe her feet all over you again. It really sounds like she doesn't know what she wants in life and needs to get herself on track.

 

[putter65]

Gah! Dude...what are you doing to yourself? Are you really not putting too much effort into fake holiday woman? Would hate to see her wipe her feet all over you again. It really sounds like she doesn't know what she wants in life and needs to get herself on track.

I just seem to need someone to focus on. And there is nobody else. Woman B is a total dead end. Fake does make an effort, sending the odd text etc and she did agree to see me last Saturday. I've sent a text today but she hasn't answered yet.

I have a boring job, boring life and it's something to think about, plan, look forward to.

I don't think it can do any harm asking her to the cinema, is she says 'no' I will go and see the film by myself. I have asked two other women out since xmas (little messages on facebook) and neither showed any interest.

 

[putter65]

Gah! Dude...what are you doing to yourself? Are you really not putting too much effort into fake holiday woman? Would hate to see her wipe her feet all over you again. It really sounds like she doesn't know what she wants in life and needs to get herself on track.

I just seem to need someone to focus on. And there is nobody else. Woman B is a total dead end. Fake does make an effort, sending the odd text etc and she did agree to see me last Saturday. I've sent a text today but she hasn't answered yet.

I have a boring job, boring life and it's something to think about, plan, look forward to.

I don't think it can do any harm asking her to the cinema, is she says 'no' I will go and see the film by myself. I have asked two other women out since xmas (little messages on facebook) and neither showed any interest.

Worked with Woman B today. She is a nice woman. I would enjoy spending time with her. She is probably 100 times better company than fake woman. Seems a shame she isn't interested.

Can't really talk to Woman A about it. I have 2 nicknames for her; The Volcano and Hurricane Annie; she would probably bite my head off !

I don't think I can be bold with Woman B either. Because I work with her.

 

[putter65]

Gah! Dude...what are you doing to yourself? Are you really not putting too much effort into fake holiday woman? Would hate to see her wipe her feet all over you again. It really sounds like she doesn't know what she wants in life and needs to get herself on track.

I just seem to need someone to focus on. And there is nobody else. Woman B is a total dead end. Fake does make an effort, sending the odd text etc and she did agree to see me last Saturday. I've sent a text today but she hasn't answered yet.

I have a boring job, boring life and it's something to think about, plan, look forward to.

I don't think it can do any harm asking her to the cinema, is she says 'no' I will go and see the film by myself. I have asked two other women out since xmas (little messages on facebook) and neither showed any interest.

Worked with Woman B today. She is a nice woman. I would enjoy spending time with her. She is probably 100 times better company than fake woman. Seems a shame she isn't interested.

Can't really talk to Woman A about it. I have 2 nicknames for her; The Volcano and Hurricane Annie; she would probably bite my head off !

I don't think I can be bold with Woman B either. Because I work with her.

It says on her facebook she is with her ex fella in some pub. She is obviously not single. Woman A is a disgrace in my opinon.

 

[Anten]

i thought woman B confirmed that she was single.

 

[putter65]

i thought woman B confirmed that she was single.

She did say somerthing on Wednesday. Maybe one of these types who are single for a few days and start to complain about it. And then they get a date at the weekend. eg normal people.

Lucky escape for me. I'll forget about it now !

 

[TheSolitaryMan]

Yeah I know girls who have broken up with their boyfriend's but are still in constant contact with them. You really never know if the relationship is really over or not.

This actually really irritates me! It's one of the big reasons I'm not asking anyone out right now: because all the girls that seem into me have dubious relationship statuses.

I mean, none of them are in relationships as far as I can tell, but none of them are obviously "single" either.

It's so frustrating and I think it seems to be getting more prevalent in modern society. I always try to make my relationship status obvious so that I don't cause anyone any pain or confusion, unfortunately this doesn't seem to be something people think about universally

It was the talk of our workplace for a year. The boss's wife accused them of having an affair so she had to leave. She denied it saying it was all lies. They started back up again about a month later. The boss would leave in the morning, say he was off out. The supervisor would walk into the warehouse and say 'he's off for his ******* !'

I lol'd, but really...that is awful. I don't get why people do that, they must be such sad little individuals.

What kind of a man does that to his wife? I guess I'm just old fashioned, but I think people that have repeated remorseless affairs like that are selfish, shallow idiots who don't appreciate what they already have.

Anyway, back to you. Perhaps you can do a sort of summary post? 15 pages of Woman A, B, C-->Z is getting very confusing! o_0

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Also Putter, this probably sounds really stupid, but could I just suggest that you sort of shift your priorities a bit?

I mean like, forget "dating" (I actually dislike that term quite a bit :\ ) and just become good friends with a group of women and see what happens?

A lot of the loneliness issues you're experiencing seem to be from sort of looking at lots of different women as potential partners just because they seem to be single.

Your friend (was it A?) seems to pick up on this, since she keeps linking you people to go out with.

What you need to do is just get to know a bunch of women really well (and thus build up good friendships with them) and then decide yourself if you like tehm afterwards.

That's my opinion anyway

 

[putter65]

Yeah I know girls who have broken up with their boyfriend's but are still in constant contact with them. You really never know if the relationship is really over or not.

This actually really irritates me! It's one of the big reasons I'm not asking anyone out right now: because all the girls that seem into me have dubious relationship statuses.

I mean, none of them are in relationships as far as I can tell, but none of them are obviously "single" either.

It's so frustrating and I think it seems to be getting more prevalent in modern society. I always try to make my relationship status obvious so that I don't cause anyone any pain or confusion, unfortunately this doesn't seem to be something people think about universally

It was the talk of our workplace for a year. The boss's wife accused them of having an affair so she had to leave. She denied it saying it was all lies. They started back up again about a month later. The boss would leave in the morning, say he was off out. The supervisor would walk into the warehouse and say 'he's off for his ******* !'

I lol'd, but really...that is awful. I don't get why people do that, they must be such sad little individuals.

What kind of a man does that to his wife? I guess I'm just old fashioned, but I think people that have repeated remorseless affairs like that are selfish, shallow idiots who don't appreciate what they already have.

Anyway, back to you. Perhaps you can do a sort of summary post? 15 pages of Woman A, B, C-->Z is getting very confusing! o_0

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Also Putter, this probably sounds really stupid, but could I just suggest that you sort of shift your priorities a bit?

I mean like, forget "dating" (I actually dislike that term quite a bit :\ ) and just become good friends with a group of women and see what happens?

A lot of the loneliness issues you're experiencing seem to be from sort of looking at lots of different women as potential partners just because they seem to be single.

Your friend (was it A?) seems to pick up on this, since she keeps linking you people to go out with.

What you need to do is just get to know a bunch of women really well (and thus build up good friendships with them) and then decide yourself if you like tehm afterwards.

That's my opinion anyway

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I know what you mean, what a confusing thread !

That many women lol !

To sum up.

Woman B - I've only mentioned her because Woman A told me on two occasions to ask her out because she was single. I did send a message on facebook to Woman B and mentioned going to the cinema. She didn't make comment. I also sent a message to Woman A asking if she meant it or was she playing a joke on me. She didn't answer that either. According to her facebook, Woman B had a meal with her ex last night. I will forget about this, seems aload of bollocks, Woman A has gone down in my reckoning.

Shagging Woman - This is hard to put in a few paragraphs. I was in love with her for awhile, asked her out, she said 'no' but kept me as a 'friend', this was okay for awhile but not what I wanted. I chose to ignore all the rumours about her until I heard some concrete stuff in November. (The boss was seen visiting her house during the day after leaving work) - she wanted to get in touch a few weeks ago. In the end I had to tell her I didn't want to be friends anymore and I told her the reason why. She wasn't happy. I won't hear from her again. Glad.

Fake holiday woman - Started seeing her in October, things were only okay but she was my first girl for 15 years so it was a big deal for me. We then had the 'fake holdiay' episode. Currently we are 'friends', seen her once for a drink. She answers my texts and sends me texts. Against my better judgement, I am still interested.

Flirty woman - a co worker. People at work have told me to ask her out. I went for coffee with her on boxing day. She is bitter and negative and I don't really enjoy her company that much. I have her mobile number and we exchange the odd text. I think she is 'all talk and full of ********' , i don't think she is interested.

Ex co worker woman - Woman I really like and I dropped a 'we will have to meet up for coffee sometime ' line in one of my facebook messages. She didn't make a comment on it. I liked her for 8 or 9 years but knew she wasn't interested. Which is a shame because she is nice. She is single as well. One of those who complain about it as well.

So I am trying to make friends with women. Only fake holiday woman seems interested in meeting me.

 

[Sci-Fi]

This actually really irritates me! It's one of the big reasons I'm not asking anyone out right now: because all the girls that seem into me have dubious relationship statuses.

I mean, none of them are in relationships as far as I can tell, but none of them are obviously "single" either.

It's so frustrating and I think it seems to be getting more prevalent in modern society. I always try to make my relationship status obvious so that I don't cause anyone any pain or confusion, unfortunately this doesn't seem to be something people think about universally

Isn't that the truth. There was a former friend I had who went as far as to create a fake Facebook account of a guy she was "in a relationship with".

 

[Ak5]

Out of all this, you want my opinion?

Make a soap opera!

 

[putter65]

Out of all this, you want my opinion?

Make a soap opera!

lol

It's not that bad is it ?

My brother had 5 women on the go once a few years ago. And knowing him he was sleeping with most of them.

 

[Sci-Fi]

Not quite that bad, but it would make for entertaining TV. I mean, just look at some of the crap that passes for entertainment these days. Just pitch it to Fox, they'll air anything. LOL!