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That could probably sell, there was that 40 Year Old Virgin movie that did pretty well.
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Dude seriously, you can make big-time money.
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Yeah 
Anywho, good luck, I really don't have any advice cause I haven't dated...yet.
Anywho, good luck, I really don't have any advice cause I haven't dated...yet.
To finish this off. Woman B has a valentines message from her ex bloke on facebook. And Woman has put a 'like' to it.
I don't give a **** to be honest. I am still on good terms with Woman B.
Woman A is just a queer ******.
I don't give a **** to be honest. I am still on good terms with Woman B.
Woman A is just a queer ******.
LOL
It's rare to see people not use words as their slang term anymore.
Yeah, just roll with it for now. Enjoy the ride.
It's rare to see people not use words as their slang term anymore.
Yeah, just roll with it for now. Enjoy the ride.
LeaningIntoTheMuse
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I hate the 40 year old virgin movie. It's too close to my own life - dude, I even love the band Asia!
Putter, I would say you need to put dating on the backburner. It doesn't sound like any of these women are interested in you.
Putter, I would say you need to put dating on the backburner. It doesn't sound like any of these women are interested in you.
LeaningIntoTheMuse said:
I agree, and it's been the story of my life. Women aren't interested. It doesn't matter what they say or how they act. Or what other people say. Same old story !
The fake holiday woman was different. She did want to spend time with me. She still does. I think it's because she's from a different country. Maybe they have different values or something. She isn't perfect, far from it but at least I had an experience of having a girlfriend. Even though it didn't last long and had a ****** end.
putter65 said:
Beginning to think the fake holiday woman is a waste of time.
I've been going to cinema by myself on Friday afternoons in the last few weeks. Always enjoy it because it's quiet.
I asked fake woman on Tuesday if she wanted to meet on Saturday, thought I could go and see a film with her. There is a good one that's just come out. She replies saying she doesn't know if she's free, she might have the kids. She'll let me know later on in the week. So I wait a few days and upto now she hasn't mentioned it. I really want to see this film and I have an opportunity tommorrow afternoon because I finish work early. But I didn't want to wait for a text from her that might not happen and miss the opportunity and have to wait a week.
So I send her a text saying 'are we on for saturday, I mention the film and we could have a drink after etc' and then I say if she can't make it there is always other times etc. She hasn't replied to it yet.
It's just aload of hassle for little return. I would rather go by myself tommorrow to be honest.
Beginning to think she's a waste of time?
*sigh*
We've been trying to tell you that for awhile now. I get it though, it's just nice to have someone to spend time with. But dude these ladies are leading you around like a dog on a leash.
Go by yourself, you'll probably have much more fun.
*sigh*
We've been trying to tell you that for awhile now. I get it though, it's just nice to have someone to spend time with. But dude these ladies are leading you around like a dog on a leash.
Go by yourself, you'll probably have much more fun.
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putter65 said:
Is it the The Woman In Black by any chance? If I could, that's the one I'd see with a lady.
More than likely I'll be watching it on my own too though, hehehe
As for whether she is worth it, I think the clue is in the name. Fake Holiday Woman.
TheSolitaryMan said:putter65 said:
Is it the The Woman In Black by any chance? If I could, that's the one I'd see with a lady.
More than likely I'll be watching it on my own too though, hehehe
As for whether she is worth it, I think the clue is in the name. Fake Holiday Woman.
Yes it's the woman in black ! - it looks really good. She just sent a text, problems with kids etc. going to let me know tommorrow. I will give her another chance. I was just trying to organize my day tommorrow. So it's golf instead
Sci-Fi said:
I've offically binned off all the others Woman B etc.
Fake holiday woman has always had baby sitting problems. I don't want to wait on her to see this film and leave it too late.
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*popcorn* lol
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I agree with Sci Fi. You need to leave these women alone. They're toxic.
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Having read your experiences for a while, I believe these women from work don't seem to have a care in the world for what you're trying to do for them and yourself.
Maybe try somewhere else? Look for a woman of a different lifestyle and tastes? Don't let desperation narrow your vision and chances.
I have a vague understanding of what these women you're pursuing are like in person, or what type of woman you really desire for that matter. But women like Woman A, Woman B, and this fake woman are without a doubt leading you down a dead end road of dishonesty and emotional pain. You already realise for yourself that these women are fake and using you; so why bother with setting yourself up for one disappointment after another? I suppose the practice and valuable experience will help you later on in the future, but why spend so much of your effort on these women?
Maybe try somewhere else? Look for a woman of a different lifestyle and tastes? Don't let desperation narrow your vision and chances.
I have a vague understanding of what these women you're pursuing are like in person, or what type of woman you really desire for that matter. But women like Woman A, Woman B, and this fake woman are without a doubt leading you down a dead end road of dishonesty and emotional pain. You already realise for yourself that these women are fake and using you; so why bother with setting yourself up for one disappointment after another? I suppose the practice and valuable experience will help you later on in the future, but why spend so much of your effort on these women?
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The women at work are all nice enough. I am not close friends with any of them though. I work with them, we chat, have a laugh. They do seem to care about my welfare (all the questions they ask about my life)
I think I took whatever was said too seriously. I should have dismissed it as mickey taking / joking.
The fake holiday woman ? - I know after what happened, I shouldn't even be talking to her. But I am. You see women haven't liked me in the past, no dates, no relationships, rejections etc. She is different to everybody else, she was easy to get a date with and doesn't seem bothered about my shortcomings; eg I'm not good looking, no dating history, still live with my Dad, I am not cool.
So I am willing to give her one last shot. I am waiting for a text from her tonight. We are supposed to be going out tommorrow. If she doesn't text then I will knock it on the head and I won't bother with her again. It's as simple as that. If she sends her text and we go out, I will see how it goes.
What movie you wanting to see anyway? Just curious.
