Virgins

[Guest]

I'm studying law and i'll probably be jurist in a compagny. Sometimes, i think that being a waiter is more interesting. I know that many people have ****** jobs. LIke those who stand all day, checking bags at the entrance of supermarkets. It's normaly a student job but for some people it's the whole life job. It's true that i can't complain, i'll normally have a good income. But i was poor till few years ago, when my older brother and sisters started to work. So i learned how to live without money. And as i've got no social life, except holidays once a year, internet and buying cigarettes, i don't spend much money. I often think of starting a new life abroad (in fact in london) but i don't have the guts (and my degrees are useless there).

My advice for those who are a bit younger : don't hope to find THE girl. Princess charming doesn't exist. The more you wait, the more you'll start to look for an exceptional girl. It's not because you're still virgin that can be too demanding. That's my big mistake. Before my mental illness, i had the opportunity to have girlfriends. I remember a very cute girl who was 19 when i was 24. She was running after me but i found that i was too old for her (she wasn't mentally mature enough for me). I don't tell you how i regret now.

My other advice is that you have to try to find fulfillment. I mean that in addition to your usual hobbies (music, movies...) you should have several activities. For instance, i learned how to play several musical instruments, i even wrote songs when i was in a band, i was interested in philosophy and politics, i practiced several sports (a very important point, i tried to sculpt my body. You don't have to go in a club, push ups are enough. I told you, i was poor lol). The result : i felt attractive and interesting. I was ready to chat with any cute girl. I can tell you that it works ans it's not expensive.

Sorry for the long comment. See ya

 

[snow]

I'm not one, but I was for a long time. I was lucky to have lost it to someone that I loved at the time. Now I'm all on my own again....

You don't have to go in a club, push ups are enough. I told you, i was poor lol). The result : i felt attractive and interesting. I was ready to chat with any cute girl. I can tell you that it works ans it's not expensive.

Sorry for the long comment. See ya

I'm just starting to agree with working out. At first I thought it would be pointless for me since I'm horribly slow at building muscle, but perhaps it's 90% confidence and 10% of how it actually makes you look, that makes the difference with girls.

 

[LonelyDaisy]

If it will make you feel any better Gary, I'm almost 40 and still a virgin. I'm still waiting for Mr. Right to come along.

 

[SadRabbit]

Its totally ok to be a virgin. I mean yeah sex sometimes feel good ... ( btw i am still a virgin....21 years is still too young to lose my viriginity i reckon... or lol i am just plain ugly to get laid =P) , but sex is the like a icing on the cake. After eating all the icing, you will get all sick but the fluffy cake of love n understanding in within, will make you want more. So yeah, there is more to love than sex sex sex.. =)