jaguarundi said:
TheSkaFish said:
Thinking my brother gave me great job searching advice last night, by reminding me of the strengths I do have that would make me a good hire, and by showing me how to look at the jobs I'm looking for differently. Hoping I can find a way to apply it and get something soon.
Good! I think myself that getting a job should be a priority for you, before find Ms Right. If you are working I am sure that your self-worth will be increased, as well as which you won't have as much time to waste thinking about
'that' girl and her new man....
Keep at it!
Honestly I think that's part of what drove her away. I didn't have money, so I appeared to not be in control of my life. That's a show of low masculinity. I can understand how she'd feel that a man who has no income is not a strong, exciting man who would make her swoon. Also, no money meant that I couldn't go out, and thus did not have any new stories to discuss. Sitting around at home surfing the net all day does not exactly make me look like a Mick Jagger. She did say she wanted more stories from me, and several times asked what I was thinking, to which I more or less had to say, "nothing".
I still hope she breaks up with him though once I transform, though. I don't just mean once I've gotten a job. I mean, once I've completely transformed. I already exercise regularly and have been doing so for a while now, and I'll take up my passions again once I'm not constantly worrying about money. I'll make myself into a highly desirable person, to anyone. She's going to see that I'm a hot rod, and suddenly the rust-bucket she's settled for won't look so good anymore...
