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makes me laugh when somebody online shows a massive amount of interest in me.
And then it dwindles to nothing. I can sense when it happens. A message a day turns into one every few days and so on.
 
WildernessWildChild said:
johnny196775 said:
I want guitar buddies. :(

Craigslist? Kijiji? A note in a music/guitar store?

(group) guitar course? taking it or teaching it?


Triple Bogey said:
makes me laugh when somebody online shows a massive amount of interest in me.
And then it dwindles to nothing. I can sense when it happens. A message a day turns into one every few days and so on.

good for you that you laugh, in those situations I can't help crying…
 
johnny196775 said:
i was popular in a forum i used to use. Then i came out as gay. now the forum doesnt talk to me anymore and that just means they are ******** and im better off without them. Good riddance. do not need that ****.

yuck, really pathetic of them, good riddance indeed
 
Peaches said:
WildernessWildChild said:
johnny196775 said:
I want guitar buddies. :(

Craigslist? Kijiji? A note in a music/guitar store?

(group) guitar course? taking it or teaching it?


Triple Bogey said:
makes me laugh when somebody online shows a massive amount of interest in me.
And then it dwindles to nothing. I can sense when it happens. A message a day turns into one every few days and so on.

good for you that you laugh, in those situations I can't help crying…



nah because while it's going on (the attention) I am thinking yeah, yeah whatever it's going to 5 minutes all this friendliness before you **** off somewhere. I don't ever think it's genuine. When you can see them online (on facebook) you know they are not ill or anything like that. I have just been forgotten about.

I don't mind when somebody is friendly but they don't go overboard. That's nice. But when somebody bombards you with attention and then buggers off for no reason.
 
Triple Bogey said:
makes me laugh when somebody online shows a massive amount of interest in me.
And then it dwindles to nothing. I can sense when it happens. A message a day turns into one every few days and so on.

I hear you, Bogey. I hate that ****. It feels so promising...when someone seems like they can't get enough of you, consistently, for days, weeks, months even. It feels like you're breaking through, finally, YOU are chosen. Finally YOU are good enough. Finally you meet someone that you don't have to play macho-man games for, because they like you for you. God damn.
 
Gotta remember the Cracked article. Gotta remember not to spend all my time, energy, and thoughts hating the douche. It produces nothing, and producing nothing is what cost me her interest in the first place.

Don't talk to her if I have nothing interesting to say. Don't waste her time.

People have needs. She has needs. Find what she needs and deliver even better than what she has already. Make him obsolete. He's not the best. Not even second-best. But it won't happen without a little effort. He is all she THINKS she can have. I need to show her she could have so much more. Substance beats image any day. Better yet, don't even THINK about the douche and work on myself.

Stop projecting worst-case scenarios into the future and remember to think from a problem-solution point of view.
 
my friend the married guy apparently wants me back in his life, that is too bad, really - not even worth telling him why I don't want to see him anymore
 
I am boring. My life is boring. Loving this holiday but seeing how people can have fun and especially having fun with other people, makes me feel such a boredom.
 

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