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Cavey said:
Cheer up, LadyF! When you lose your positivity, I start to question my entire world view. There are three inevitable things in life - death, taxes and the never ending optimism of LadyF. :D

Those people that still complain when they appear to have everything probably don't feel good about themselves in some way. I know that when I had a wife, a family and outwardly appeared like I had everything, that behind the scenes things were not a bed of roses and that I had very little self esteem and a very poor self image.

These days, I have no partner, no real friends, no proper employment and my health isn't the best, but I'm a better man with a positive self image, which is why you rarely see me complaining about my life.

Lol Cavey you just made me smile.

Yeah, I guess I can understand it why people still have things to complain about even though they have good stuff going, it's just human and not everything is perfect - plus issues within themselves.

I don't know, just for some reason today, reading the posts on the forum just makes me feel so depressed. I think we need more optimistic posts around here.. maybe.. I don't know. Shrugs.

Thanks though, Cavey. :)
 
ladyforsaken said:
I don't know why, but after browsing the forum today, I just feel like this place is seriously depressing. Seriously, like as if I'm not feeling sad enough. How is it that I have never felt like this before? Did things change around here..

On a side note, I mean some people have things going, have this and that, have good looks and have a decent life. Yet they still complain? Is it the attention they seek? What? What is it??

I need something to cheer me up today. Go away, depression. You're not getting a piece of me. Wish I had some ice cream..

Its depressing to read about someone wanting to get ice cream and not having it, when they can get it (you´re an adult, right:D ).
Go buy yourself an ice cream! You dont need our advice, you already had solution in your post!

Edit: Btw, I´m sad because this is post 333, which means I´m halfway to hell!:(
 
Mr.YellowCat said:
Its depressing to read about someone wanting to get ice cream and not having it, when they can get it (you´re an adult, right:D ).
Go buy yourself an ice cream! You dont need our advice, you already had solution in your post!

Edit: Btw, I´m sad because this is post 333, which means I´m halfway to hell!:(

Lol Mr. Yellowcat - yes I'm an adult and can probably go get some ice cream. I will.. I guess. I dunno lol.

LOL if 333 is halfway to hell then I'm probably deep deep down in the pits of it.
 
ladyforsaken said:
I think we need more optimistic posts.

I'm thinking back on May last year when I was 250lb, got out of breath crossing the street, couldn't do a single push up and barely ever left the house. I was alone, isolated, unhealthy and all I had to look forward to was an early death.

I'm also thinking how amazing it is that I am now around 180lb, can do loads of push ups, lift medium sized weights regularly, go out to eat a couple of times a week and spend the majority of my days outside and enjoying myself. I have hobbies I take part in and I try and do everything with a smile on my face.

Life is so much better than it was back then and I'm sure that if I keep it up, my life will get better still.

This optimistic message is brought to you by the letters K and V and the number 74. :p
 
ladyforsaken said:
LOL if 333 is halfway to hell then I'm probably deep deep down in the pits of it.
Hug. I know the feeling.
Here`s a virtual iceacream for you, Lady <3
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On topic: My tolerance, acceptance and forgiveness turn so often against me, that I have to reconsider my attitude.
 
Cavey said:
ladyforsaken said:
I think we need more optimistic posts.

I'm thinking back on May last year when I was 250lb, got out of breath crossing the street, couldn't do a single push up and barely ever left the house. I was alone, isolated, unhealthy and all I had to look forward to was an early death.

I'm also thinking how amazing it is that I am now around 180lb, can do loads of push ups, lift medium sized weights regularly, go out to eat a couple of times a week and spend the majority of my days outside and enjoying myself. I have hobbies I take part in and I try and do everything with a smile on my face.

Life is so much better than it was back then and I'm sure that if I keep it up, my life will get better still.

This optimistic message is brought to you by the letters K and V and the number 74. :p

That's wonderful !
So glad for you ! :)
 

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