holy crap dude,
I know you and I met each other on a dating site. And we both go to the same school. But, it's not a coincidence that I've been avoiding you all semester long. I'm only sorry I didn't directly tell you I wasn't interested until now.
It's a little much that you told your mom about us that we may be dating but it's undecided, when I only see you in the cafeteria when you come up to me. If I wanted you in my life, I'd make time for you. No, I will not make babies for you because you want a traditional relationship instead of a gay relationship.
I have guy friends, and it was completely stepping over the line to message me right after I left the cafe with my guy friend …to ask if he was my boyfriend. Your posessiveness was out of line, and completely out of sync with the number of encounters/shallow depth of the conversations we've had.
No, he's not my boyfriend. He's my friend. No I don't have a boyfriend. Okay, I need to tell you i'm not interested in you. And I"m sorry I didn't say it sooner.
Let's hope this is the end to this situation and your persistant intrusiveness….
Edit: Okay. He seems to understand. Good.