What are you thinking right now?

[ladyforsaken]

I suck.

What on earth would make you think this? Not a single person on the forum would agree.

Eh, outcomes in my life in general has led me to believe this.

And I'm sure there are some who would beg to differ on that statement lol.

 

[nibbysaurus]

After a nice long chat on Skype, I'm thinking that I couldn't possibly feel any better than I do right now. It was basically all day, and really made me happy!

I like this! Good for you. I'm glad you are feeling happy


Lady - no you really don't.

 

[haywud]

I like this! Good for you. I'm glad you are feeling happy


Lady - no you really don't.

Thanks, I had a feeling you might say something!

 

[beautiful loser]

I suck.

What on earth would make you think this? Not a single person on the forum would agree.

Eh, outcomes in my life in general has led me to believe this.

And I'm sure there are some who would beg to differ on that statement lol.

*raises hand* Just kidding, you know that, K. BTW, thanks for the PM, I'll reply soon.

 

[TheSkaFish]

I suck.

Lies!

You'd better cut that out, before you get a long nose.

Eh, outcomes in my life in general has led me to believe this.

I feel that way too pretty often, about myself. But you have to try to convince yourself otherwise.....I get into that rut a lot, but then I stop and think, I don't WANT this, I don't WANT to feel like I suck....there has to be some better way I can find. There just has to. And to think you just suck, it just can't be true.

It's hard and I'm no expert, I struggle with that every day. But keep hanging in there Lady, OK?

 

[BreakingtheGirl]

This 294847 breakup is so different from all the others. I've finally gained the "give no *****" attitude I've always wanted to have. Normally, I'd stop eating & lose weight rapidly by being depressed and not caring to live. Now, I'm eating my feelings, gaining 11 lbs in 2 wks or so that I've desperately needed and want to keep up. I'm giving all my cuddles & attention to myself and my dog. Being a shoulder to lean on/cry on for my younger cousins. All while that ****** is still texting me in hopes to worm his way back. It may or may not work. I don't care. Not as creative with my writings or anything like usual.....whatever. I've never ate my feelings before, but it feels good. Not giving a **** feels GOOD.

This is pretty much the main reason Ben and Jerry's exists.

YUP & they created the almond milk flavors with my depressed ass in mind :0)

Lol you have the funniest replies to my woes.

 

[user 130057]

Cya.

 

[JealousFool]

Light of my life <3

 

[user 115627]

Sweet, now I even got my own relax chair to chill on the balcony. Decadence, here I come...

 

[Wayfarer]

there's no obvious way forward. as always

 

[Wayfarer]

ok.. it seems I can't be near people atm. My mood is really bad. Sorry, people I annoyed.

 

[lonelyfairy]

From one incurable pain sufferer to another, you aren't alone, there are a bunch of us out there but some of us get really good at hiding it.

Make sure to do as much nice stuff as you can in life to counterbalance the bad times

I also hope your treatment pans out well, fingers crossed.

Thank you for all these supportive words.

Yeah, sometimes we need to pamper ourselves in middle of hard times.

I hope you feel better soon too. *hugs*

 

[Nicolelt]

How the hell is it only Tuesday?

 

[TheSkaFish]

But why then, am I never worth anything more than basic platonic relationships? Why am i so easily passed over by everyone while they search for someone else? Why is there never a real answer?

I ask myself this question all the time. For me, I can only guess, but I feel it's more than one reason. I think it's because I'm approaching things from the wrong angle, not being as good as I could be, mostly because of how things were growing up in school. Even though that was a long time ago now, I realize that I was still approaching girls with the same old self-image from back then - that I wasn't good enough, that I was inconveniencing girls with my presence and wasting their time, like I was a lesser person than them that couldn't possibly have anything to offer. Also I think I need to work on my confidence, personality and identity, and being more interesting. And I need to figure out how to reconcile sexual desire with my values.

I'd say do some deep introspection. Maybe it's something you're projecting subconsciously. I feel your pain on this matter, anyway.

 

[Niave]

I can't seem to focus on my school work. I've been trying to get **** done for like 2 days but I just can't seem to get going... I'm really hating social media and netflix right now because that's all I'm doing and I shouldn't be... ugh

 

[Paraiyar]

But why then, am I never worth anything more than basic platonic relationships? Why am i so easily passed over by everyone while they search for someone else? Why is there never a real answer?

I ask myself this question all the time. For me, I can only guess, but I feel it's more than one reason. I think it's because I'm approaching things from the wrong angle, not being as good as I could be, mostly because of how things were growing up in school. Even though that was a long time ago now, I realize that I was still approaching girls with the same old self-image from back then - that I wasn't good enough, that I was inconveniencing girls with my presence and wasting their time, like I was a lesser person than them that couldn't possibly have anything to offer. Also I think I need to work on my confidence, personality and identity, and being more interesting. And I need to figure out how to reconcile sexual desire with my values.

I'd say do some deep introspection. Maybe it's something you're projecting subconsciously. I feel your pain on this matter, anyway.

When you talk to girls do you actually flirt with them or just act polite/friendly?

 

[kamya]

I can only answer for me but I'd say I do.

I'm over it for now anyways until the next lonely frustrated night comes up. I'm not what they are looking for that's all. They wanna hold out for better.

I think I'm good enough or I wouldn't bother. The only things shaking my confidence are the constant reminders that I'm undesirable. If I am insecure it's because the rejection makes me second guess and question everything.

I personally feel alright with myself most of the time but the world seems to demand better. So I try to do better. If I was good enough as is then I'd have had more luck.

For now I think it's best to just stop giving attention and energy to people that aren't going to appreciate it and reciprocate. They may miss it for a little bit but they will replace it with someone else's soon enough.

 

[user 130057]

Incorrect. You can and you do.

(Nothing to do with any other post)

 

[TheRealCallie]

there's no obvious way forward. as always

When there's no obvious way forward, just pick up a sledgehammer and make yourself a way forward

 

[Wayfarer]

there's no obvious way forward. as always

When there's no obvious way forward, just pick up a sledgehammer and make yourself a way forward

XD I'll go get one lol