What are you thinking right now?

[ahsatan]

LOL

 

[TheSkaFish]

^ Me with Mercedes.

Ooh, gonna have to disagree. Muscle cars or go home!

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hahaha love that puppy pounce! it's hard to find something cuter than wrestling puppies.

 

[Siku]

Some advice for some newer members or the insane amount of people who only read this forum in the shadows and are afraid to speak up.

If you're a sensitive person with a very real troubled past. Don't let people's advice who clearly cannot relate to you, bother you. And do yourself a favor and steer clear from here. You won't get much help and surely just more misunderstanding and more non-acceptance. You're just better off PM'ing people you can relate with and continue to stay quiet.

Good luck. I'm taking my leave as I realize a large part of my hurt and issues lately are all related to this place. Not entirely myself. I need to stop hating myself. And you should too.

 

[Just Games]

Some advice for some newer members or the insane amount of people who only read this forum in the shadows and are afraid to speak up.

If you're a sensitive person with a very real troubled past. Don't let people's advice who clearly cannot relate to you, bother you. And do yourself a favor and steer clear from here. You won't get much help and surely just more misunderstanding and more non-acceptance. You're just better off PM'ing people you can relate with and continue to stay quiet.

Good luck. I'm taking my leave as I realize a large part of my hurt and issues lately are all related to this place. Not entirely myself. I need to stop hating myself. And you should too.

Siku....all I can say is you really helped me with my son and motivated me to involve myself more with initiating activities with him instead of leaving him to it...which is hopefully going to help with his self esteem.I'm hoping you'll stay or at least come back soon because to me your a vital part of this place and its great to have different perspectives on problems whether  by pm' s or on the forum ,which we really should be encouraging because depression season is on the way.Anyway all the best to you hope your here to help any new people.

 

[MissBehave]

I do get the leave, yet I’ll miss you here on ALL Siku.  
Such nice words to read Just Games.

 

[TheRealCallie]

If you're a sensitive person with a very real troubled past. Don't let people's advice who clearly cannot relate to you, bother you. And do yourself a favor and steer clear from here. You won't get much help and surely just more misunderstanding and more non-acceptance. You're just better off PM'ing people you can relate with and continue to stay quiet.

I have to disagree with this.  Primarily because we are all a bunch of strangers to each other.  We know little to no information about what people have and have not been through in their lives or what they do and don't understand. 
People see what they want to see, often ignoring vital facts that show a person may actually understand because, most often, they don't like what is being said to them.  Because it's not all "Oh, you're so right." or "Oh, poor you"
Take the xploe person, for example.  He stated a few times that he had issues in the past with loneliness, depression and trouble getting girls, yet because he's trying to be a life coach and gave advice most here didn't like, he was labeled as a scammer, just trying to get people's money.  Doesn't matter that he stated many times that he was here to get more experience giving advice.  People here attack first and don't bother to question later.  Simply because, omg, someone gave advice I would never consider because...well, quite frankly, it's likely because they are so stuck in their depression/loneliness/whatever other issues to even consider there might be another way.  That maybe, there might actually be a way to get out of their rut and be happy/content and not lonely.

Plain and simple, you (generalized you) rarely, if ever, know what another person has been through.  You (again generalized) form your own judgments from nothing, yet turn around and complain about people doing the exact same thing to you. 

So yeah, people should post on the forum so they get more options and not just from those who are going to agree and coddle them. 

Just my opinion. You may now commence attacking me for it.

 

[MissBehave]

Pain of past or future tends to mold the view we have of this world and the people that live in it. 
I think it’s important to pride ourselves in trying not to judge or come to rash conclusions, yet everyone does it from time to time. Some less, some more. Keeping that clear picture of a person can be extremely difficult when it triggers something in us, it can be our own problems that shine through, our experience of how the world or others have treated us, our need to fit in or just not bothering to see past that initial greeting. 
I’m very sure that all of us has viewed someone wrongly, jumped to conclusions without knowing or most of all failed in feeling their soul as a human being that has lived and experienced. 
We can never act perfectly in every situation but we can try. 

I agree with both of you, Siku and Callie.
It is important to shield yourself from nasty comments or helpful advise that maybe isn't right for you. It’s also important to not be afraid to face the truth but this can be dangerous. Seeing and feeling the truth of our problems, big or small, can be immensely difficult. It can go both ways, making or breaking a person but growth can only be achieved by walking through that pain. 
It is up to ourselves to decide if we are ready for it or not. We should try to respect people’s choice even if it’s the opposite road that we are on.

 

[ahsatan]

for siku 
Your a sweetheart! :shy:

 

[harper]

Thinking it's been a good Friday 13th / Harvest Moon.
Superstitions are nothing but arbitrary silliness.

 

[MissBehave]

Heartbreak is the price to pay for love

 

[Diagnosed]

Hmm!

I'm just thinking on how a person could be when she chose a moniker like "MissBehave"....

That shows a keen mind but also it could "predict" a troublesome some person anyone would miss?

I'll find her out!  :club:

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Heartbreak is the price to pay for love

Are you a heartbreaker?

 

[Diagnosed]

for siku 
Your a sweetheart! :shy:

 Oh, thanks Natasha!
I was afraid... yet I'm somewhat theist, not the way the trinitarians believed.

 

[MissBehave]

Hmm!

I'm just thinking on how a person could be when she chose a moniker like "MissBehave"....

That shows a keen mind but also it could "predict" a troublesome some person anyone would miss?

I'll find her out!  :club:

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Heartbreak is the price to pay for love

Are you a heartbreaker?

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I haven’t seen you around here before. New to this town?
The Miss is not because someone would miss me... but since I am a Miss.
So why did you choose Diagnosed?

 

[Diagnosed]

Hmm!

I'm just thinking on how a person could be when she chose a moniker like "MissBehave"....

That shows a keen mind but also it could "predict" a troublesome some person anyone would miss?

I'll find her out!  :club:

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Heartbreak is the price to pay for love

Are you a heartbreaker?

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I haven’t seen you around here before. New to this town?
The Miss is not because someone would miss me... but since I am a Miss.
So why did you choose Diagnosed?

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I'm a Diagnosed fool who knows the ppl I would MISS. It doesn't matter I knew the would use a club to hit my head.

Mass-oquism won't do.

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Maybe I'm wrong (I don't mind being right or wrong) but this site is not alone.

I recently left Twitter (I'm bored about polítics and rule

 

[MissBehave]

Hmm!

I'm just thinking on how a person could be when she chose a moniker like "MissBehave"....

That shows a keen mind but also it could "predict" a troublesome some person anyone would miss?

I'll find her out!  :club:

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Heartbreak is the price to pay for love

Are you a heartbreaker?

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I haven’t seen you around here before. New to this town?
The Miss is not because someone would miss me... but since I am a Miss.
So why did you choose Diagnosed?

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I'm a Diagnosed fool who knows the ppl I would MISS. It doesn't matter I knew the would use a club to hit my head.

Mass-oquism won't do.

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Maybe I'm wrong (I don't mind being right or wrong) but this site is not alone.

I recently left Twitter (I'm bored about polítics and rule

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Welcome!
Hope you find what you are looking for.
It’s a nice place with some nice people.

 

[TheSkaFish]

Feeling beat. I mowed 3 lawns, ran for a half hour, and walked back probably at least a mile or two from a car show. Going to sleep well tonight.

 

[ahsatan]

 

[harper]

Sounds like fun!

Who's 'Stupid'? 
The 8th Dwarf?

 

[ahsatan]

There's only seven dwarfs! lol

 

[RovoR]

Siku, if you see this, think about swapping emails with me. I don't visit daily, but if you want, find a way to get your email to my PM box. I was sad to see I missed replying in time to your PM. Plus, I like your attitude(for the most part...lol)! Either way, it was great meeting\chatting with you.