What are you thinking right now?

[Abstamyous]

I appreciate you. Thanks for still being here.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

Some people shouldn't have children or animals.

 

[Ace Face]

obviously you take the fact of being granted attention by the people here (out of the wish to have you included) as a sort of weakness - and that's actually just another among many open or disguised insults you practiced here ... I think you and your bf may get the silent treatment (no direct or indirect reply to any of your posts)

Excuse me! I hope you are not referring to me as the bf comment , I'm open and honest with my girlfriend who reads my posts, which could create issues, I have never interfered in your personal life, if it's me it's disgusting, an apology wouldn't go a miss

 

[Papagenox]

I don't qualify as a lonely person since more than one year so this place must be for nostalgia and impersonal games (especially Count to 1,000,000 will travel through spacetime like the Pioneer plaque)

and my apologies to everyone I may have offended ... this is really my last post outside the games section

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

and my apologies to everyone I may have offended ... this is really my last post outside the games section

I don't need an apology as I'm not offended, but I doubt this is your last post. You can't help yourself from coming back and responding. Just like Callie does.

 

[kaetic]

Excuse me! I hope you are not referring to me as the bf comment , I'm open and honest with my girlfriend who reads my posts, which could create issues, I have never interfered in your personal life, if it's me it's disgusting, an apology wouldn't go a miss

Seems like an understandable mistake to make... I mean with all the joke flirting. Your gf doesn't mind that but for some reason cares what Papagenox thinks?

I'm a bit confused though, with all of the instigating you do for laughs, THIS is what makes you angry? Really? Okay then.

and my apologies to everyone I may have offended ... this is really my last post outside the games section

I don't think there's any genuine offense being taken here.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

Seems like an understandable mistake to make... I mean with all the joke flirting. Your gf doesn't mind that but for some reason cares what Papagenox thinks?

I'm a bit confused though, with all of the instigating you do for laughs, THIS is what makes you angry? Really? Okay then.



I don't think there's any genuine offense being taken here.

This is where a lot of people are wrong. I don't care what anyone thinks, I find it funny that @Papagenox is so sensitive to my posts and responses, that he gets easily offended and upset at most of them. There's a lot of drama between our posts, because of how he takes things. Half of them aren't even something to be upset over. A lot of people seem to take things the wrong way on here.

 

[Ace Face]

Seems like an understandable mistake to make... I mean with all the joke flirting. Your gf doesn't mind that but for some reason cares what Papagenox thinks?

I'm a bit confused though, with all of the instigating you do for laughs, THIS is what makes you angry? Really? Okay then.



I don't think there's any genuine offense being taken here.

I don't think you understand who assumed that Hells Little Helper was my girlfriend, here is the thing if it wasn't and it was someone else, and I was assumed to be someone else boyfriend, can you imagine how that is seen by your girlfriend

 

[kaetic]

This is where a lot of people are wrong. I don't care what anyone thinks, I find it funny that @Papagenox is so sensitive to my posts and responses, that he gets easily offended and upset at most of them. There's a lot of drama between our posts, because of how he takes things. Half of them aren't even something to be upset over. A lot of people seem to take things the wrong way on here.

Some things I would agree with you can be misconstrued because there's no tone to read, no facial cues that would ordinarily tell you if the person you're talking to is saying things to be insulting, or just saying things that happen to sound insulting.

However, there are other posts where you just have to wonder... what was the point of that if not to instigate? Is there another possible purpose? other than to attempt to bait people on a forum that is largely home to those who are lonely and depressed?

I also find it curious that a mental health professional would be so astounded by depressed people reacting so sensitively...

 

[kaetic]

I don't think you understand who assumed that Hells Little Helper was my girlfriend, here is the think if it wasn't and it was someone else, and I was assumed to be someone else boyfriend, can you imagine how that is seen by your girlfriend

Here is the thing... if my boyfriend was flirting and asking for sex with a random person on a forum (even in a joking manner, as I believe was the case with you and @HellsLittleAngel ) I would probably be more offended by that, than some random person I don't know and who doesn't actually know my boyfriend or myself thinking that said boyfriend had an online girlfriend. Because the actions of my boyfriend would matter more to me than what some stranger posts.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

I don't think you understand who assumed that Hells Little Helper was my girlfriend, here is the thing if it wasn't and it was someone else, and I was assumed to be someone else boyfriend, can you imagine how that is seen by your girlfriend

@kaetic, I never called myself a mental health professional, so not sure where you got that from.

 

[kaetic]

I joined out of curiosity, to help others with their own issues that I've dealt with & healed from, as well as to have fun. Believe it or not, but I'm a mental health advocate and have been on several mental health forums as well as Fb groups. I've since left the Fb groups, because Fb itself is very disorganized. I like forums like this, as they're well organized. I've already helped a great deal of people, and I continue to do so.

I got it from this, if I misunderstood what you meant by mental health advocate, then I suppose that clears up a few things.

 

[Ace Face]

Here is the thing... if my boyfriend was flirting and asking for sex with a random person on a forum (even in a joking manner, as I believe was the case with you and @HellsLittleAngel ) I would probably be more offended by that, than some random person I don't know and who doesn't actually know my boyfriend or myself thinking that said boyfriend had an online girlfriend. Because the actions of my boyfriend would matter more to me than what some stranger posts.

I agree but everyone has a different relationship so if its accepted by your girlfriend you do that in a joking fashion and is fine and secure about it that's fine, but planting the seeds by someone else that I have a online gf is not right, if your boyfriend saw it, even if he were ok with a joke wouldn't you just wonder if it was true, so someone else caused a rift by false information.

 

[Ace Face]

and my apologies to everyone I may have offended ... this is really my last post outside the games section

Didn't know your a gamer, what you playing?

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

I got it from this, if I misunderstood what you meant by mental health advocate, then I suppose that clears up a few things.

I'm not a professional. I speak from my own experiences in life. I advocate for those who have mental issues, because I have, and I've healed from 90% of them, but I'm also always honest about things too. Some people, especially those just like me can handle my personality and understand where I'm coming from. I've been through so much, and have been able to help others, regardless of my personality traits and flaws. Why? Because, the things that they were going through and to see me healed from it, wanted to know what I did to make that happen, and you have to be direct about it, even if they didn't want to hear it, and most did listen, and I have some friendships with these people now.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

Didn't know your a gamer, what you playing?

He's talking about the games section on here. He could be a gamer, never know.

 

[kaetic]

I'm not a professional. I speak from my own experiences in life. I advocate for those who have mental issues, because I have, and I've healed from 90% of them, but I'm also always honest about things too. Some people, especially those just like me can handle my personality and understand where I'm coming from. I've been through so much, and have been able to help others, regardless of my personality traits and flaws. Why? Because, the things that they were going through and to see me healed from it, wanted to know what I did to make that happen, and you have to be direct about it, even if they didn't want to hear it, and most did listen, and I have some friendships with these people now.

I see, thank you for explaining that.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

I see, thank you for explaining that.

You're welcome.

 

[TheRealCallie]

I don't need an apology as I'm not offended, but I doubt this is your last post. You can't help yourself from coming back and responding. Just like Callie does.

Um, sorry, but pretty damn sure it was YOU who just brought me into it. Pretty sure it is YOU who can't help coming back to respond, because heaven forbid you not have the last word. For someone who thinks they have a right to say whatever they want however they want wherever they want, you sure do complain when others do the same.

Don't insult/attack people here and I won't be a problem for you, it's really that simple. All you have to do is look at what I've responded to and you'd see it.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Excuse me! I hope you are not referring to me as the bf comment , I'm open and honest with my girlfriend who reads my posts, which could create issues, I have never interfered in your personal life, if it's me it's disgusting, an apology wouldn't go a miss

If you are open and honest with your girlfriend, she would know that you flirt with someone here and it wouldn't be a problem if someone read more into your flirting that you are claiming is not flirting. I know several people here see it as flirting, so there's that.
So no, an apology is NOT necessary, because it's your actions that caused it to be said. Don't do something wrong and you won't have a problem in your relationship. It's really that simple.