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We self deprecating lapsed Catholics aren't supposed to like ourselves too much. Having said that, I cook a great spaghetti Bolognese, have a wicked sense of humour and play a mean D7 chord on the guitar!
 
I like too much about myself to give a real answer. I'm just abiding by this threads rule in that I must say something before I can leave it. I'm fricking hawt babe
 
What I hear the most from others is that I'm genuine & kind. That means a lot to me. I pretty much know that myself, but sometimes I don't think that well of myself. I went through abuse as a child & when I was married. One thing that was done was gaslighting. I still have self doubts & get that negative voice sometimes.
 
The fact that I have a million and one ways to counter people when they ask me about why I have no friends or why I do not have a girlfriend or stuff like that. I like that I can make these people squirm as they try to look me in the eye and say "Just take a chance" or "You just need to find the right person"
 
That I am myself (I am not on my own yet so kinda I hide myself for safety from family) in a way that I have strong beliefs and I follow my rules like I am very respectful and I take people INDIVIDUALLY, anti-racist (for example I hate when medias say "Ukrainian has done this", "Arabian has done this", no it wasn't Arabian or Ukrainian if censore didn't exist, it would be Mr X Y Z born this year in a city.. exact person, not whole nationality), that I found my religion years ago (I was born as a Pagan but I wasn't aware of my real identity), that if someone has done something irl what I don't like, something against to me, I can look at them and be like "wtf bro?" or just hit their face, go full in fight, that I am protecting and caring, that overall I am more unique (like some skills in a spiritual way + in general from human side like intuition, seeing pattern in things, human behavior etc etc)... This type of things.

From physical side: only my thick hair
 
That I can look at something from various perspectives and don't feel this need to have one, and one only, standpoint be right.

On a related note, I've matured enough to not argue/fight opinions anymore. I see people do this, and it's ridiculous to me. No one is going to change anyone's opinion on something just by arguing about it to the death. Just accept that someone feels differently about it and go on with your day.
 

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