Xpendable said:
Because change comes after time and circumstance, not by the act of one single person.
By helping people and being kind, you will see joy from people. Therefore, if one helps and is kind, they will see more joy and enthusiasm.
And that is more for M than you, because M has stated, quite definitively, that he will NEVER help someone unless expressly asked...and I've also seen him say that chivalry is deader than a doorknob, so he won't do anything even remotely resembling that, be it for a girl or a guy.
But, no, it really doesn't have to come after time and circumstance. By doing things that would bring about joy and enthusiasm, you WOULD see more of that in people. Simply because YOU are creating it. No, it won't be a worldwide thing, but you would be helping to make it happen. Also, by you doing so, you may inspire others to do so, as well. Kindness can sometimes spread like wildfire. Ever hear of pay it forward? A simple act can have a ripple effect, it just takes one person reading about it or seeing it to make it spread worldwide because eventually, if the act touches someone enough, they will post it on social media and will most likely inspire at least one other person to do the same.
I don't know, maybe Kamya's article explains it better than I can. I haven't read it yet.