I don't hate anyone except terrorists and people that have done and still do horrendous crimes. If I woke up as one of them, knowing what I know now, I'd run to the closest therapist and sign up for sessions and then the nearest to Church to repent and change my ways, right quick!
What would you do if you weren't married and had no significant other, and your high school "sweetheart" rang your bell or knocked on your door?