WHATS WRONG WITH BEING LONELY?

[thejanitor]

it is not as bad as it sounds. honestly, how man people truly do you count as friends? i mean the real kind the lay your life down for and empty your bank account for? it takes a real special person to entrust all your secrets to. i count less than five in my life. i have hundreds of aquaintenaces and maybe that gets confused with friendship, i don't know all i can say is go with your insticts. regards an aquaintance

 

[thejanitor]

Less than 5 but more than 0?

yeah nothing wrong with that number.
seriously how many people can you really depend upon?

 

[LonelyDragon]

WHATS WRONG WITH BEING LONELY?

http://www.alonelylife.com/loneliness-kills-study-shows-t-4440.html

it is not as bad as it sounds. honestly, how man people truly do you count as friends? i mean the real kind the lay your life down for and empty your bank account for? it takes a real special person to entrust all your secrets to. i count less than five in my life. i have hundreds of aquaintenaces and maybe that gets confused with friendship, i don't know all i can say is go with your insticts. regards an aquaintance

Not one.

 

[Unacceptance]

I got one I still consider a friend. Solitude is good, loneliness is not so good.

 

[Minus]

I don't know that it always takes friends to get rid of loneliness. For some people a dog or a cat is enough. Others require some degree of human contact. Friends are probably helpful in keeping loneliness away but probably few people need someone to lay down their life for them in order to not feel lonely.

 

[SighX99]

there is nothing wrong with being lonely. i wish i could tell myself that. there is nothing wrong, but its those reminders that im lonely gets me. some people have partners or constantly going out but still claim they are lonely... me? i have absolutly nothing, no one... and i feel that been numb for too long.

AND IT FEELS GRRRRREEEAT?

*** no

 

[Lonesome Crow]

i mean...Jesus only spent 40 days and 40 nights in solitude or a spiritaul retreat. Everybody needs a time out to sort things out.

Even Budhad was out and about being around people.
Even Saint Francis came back into society after a time out from humans being in nature.

They don't use solutary confinement as a form of almost ultimate punishment for nothing. Even then...persioners find ways to try to interact with other humans. We build our own prisons without even knowing sometimes. Isolation is not a good place to be.

The line gets blurred after a while. Then you go into cabin fever and all kinds of fun stuff.lol
You'll think you're batman or sometype of alien after a while too.
After a while you'll think everybody have thier head up thier ass or it's okay to be like that...this feeds into the insanity
to keep you in the crypt...lmao You gotten comfortiable even though it's unhealty as hell.

I mean...wasn't that why GOD made Eve ?
Adam was lonely as hell even in paradize....man.
God made him a phyco bitch...
Never a dull moment after that. Life wasn't borning. lmao

 

[LonelyDragon]

I don't know that it always takes friends to get rid of loneliness. For some people a dog or a cat is enough. Others require some degree of human contact. Friends are probably helpful in keeping loneliness away but probably few people need someone to lay down their life for them in order to not feel lonely.

There are 4 dogs, 4 cats, a bird, 2 kids (for now) and the woman all here in this house. Yet I still feel the same emptiness that I did when I lived alone.

 

[Bluey]

Funny thing reading this is in my experience ppl would lay there life down for you be for they emptied there bank account for you lol.

I have my mum, dad, sister and Nana. Then I have 2 friends one of witch is really my mums friend but is an amazing person. And the other is my cousin. They are the ppl I would do this things for.

WHATS WRONG WITH BEING LONELY?

http://www.alonelylife.com/loneliness-kills-study-shows-t-4440.html

I am not totally convinced with that argument. I think that would be argued better if it said unhappy ppl die younger. There are plenty of ppl in the world that live alone and are happy. To live alone dose not necessary mean your lonely. Your only lonely if you feel lonely. That of course makes you unhappy. And obviously if your unhappy then that well have an affect on your health. As I have said be for, its all about frame of mined.