When You Send a message to people on dating sites, do you prefer they ignore you or..

[AmytheTemperamental]

This isn't your thread.

 

[Restless soul]

Yes it is. I made it. Sure it is

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You later made the poll. I remember

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

This is the poll....

 

[Restless soul]

Oh I am sorry you created the thread in regards to my thread questions hence the poll. Ok i see now. It was related to me

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That reply is the typical bitchy reply you can expect to get
On a site like okcupid where you have to send unsolicited messages to women. Which I know. But can't handle. My question was sorta for fun. Nothing negative. Do you like white guys?
" not you?" Am i overreacting here??

 

[EveWasFramed]

I'm soooo laughing right now.

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

I'm soooo laughing right now.

It's because you like grey guys, isn't it :club:

 

[Restless soul]

I ALWAYS CRACK EVE UP..DONT I?

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That's a good thing

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How can I post the screenshot of this. If you really want a laugh?

 

[EveWasFramed]

I'm soooo laughing right now.

It's because you like grey guys, isn't it :club:

Lmao, no actually. It's because I've been known to make lame-brain mistakes like RS did. 
I have an excuse though - I'm old. 

 

[Restless soul]

??? What??

 

[Xpendable]

I would prefer to be messaged first. But in that case, why would you match me if you won't be interested in what I say? What were you expectying anyway?

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

I would prefer to be messaged first. But in that case, why would you match me if you won't be interested in what I say? What were you expectying anyway?

Not every website has a "matching" platform.

 

[TheRealCallie]

I would prefer to be messaged first. But in that case, why would you match me if you won't be interested in what I say? What were you expectying anyway?

Just because a person seems interesting on a profile doesn't mean they will be interesting when they speak.  Also, can't tell if someone is an ******* or something from a profile.  Get the point?  I could think up more reasons if it's needed.

 

[Restless soul]

Off topic. Callie if I show you my photo will you say I look like
Someone else. Or refrain from saying it even if you think so?

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I would prefer to be messaged first. But in that case, why would you match me if you won't be interested in what I say? What were you expectying anyway?

What do you mean match??

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I would prefer to be messaged first. But in that case, why would you match me if you won't be interested in what I say? What were you expectying anyway?

Not every website has a "matching" platform.

Right this is where the issues i brought up arise.....sites where you can message people at will. Random you know the old style dating styles. Where women make it seem.like they are doing you a big favor by replying.  At least in my case.
That's that low self esteem talking again

 

[TheRealCallie]

Off topic. Callie if I show you my photo will you say I look like
Someone else. Or refrain from saying it even if you think so?

I would refrain, unless you want me to compare you.  lol

 

[Restless soul]

Thats a good way to scare me off this site forever.
I still have to review my old threads. How not to think you look
Exaclty like someone that someone thinks you look like.
Need to work on that

 

[TheRealCallie]

Thats a good way to scare me off this site forever.
I still have to review my old threads. How not to think you look
Exaclty like someone that someone thinks you look like.
Need to work on that

What's a good way?  Telling you I'll compare you if you want me to? 
I'm sure I could find someone you look like if I really tried, but I generally tend not to do that because regardless whether you look like someone else or not, you aren't them.   Unless it's an uncanny resemblance, I don't do that, and even then, if I know the person doesn't like it, chances are, I won't.

 

[Restless soul]

No..if you told me I look like someone even when i told you dont

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Right. See. Of course you know how disturbed I get. So i know you wouldnt how could you do that? Send me off the deep edge. After trying to help me here all these months

 

[Restless soul]

Callie - anyone ever tell you they thought that you looked like someone that A. You don't want to be compared to and dont think you look like?

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

She looks like Cousin It's mistress.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Yes, I have been told I look like people that I don't think I look like. It doesn't bother me.

And thank you, Amy, that's sweet of you to say <3