Why do people cheat?

[insecure]

Submissive is important to me.
I want the pre-1960 male/female dynamics.
I'd rather be alone than have otherwise.

OK, we obviously are looking for different types of women.
I just wonder how flexible you are in your wishes.
Does the woman you want really have to look like the one in the picture?
I hope for you that you have a fantastic body then, because she looks quite perfect.
I'm not looking for perfection, because I'm afraid I would lose her easily.

 

[4No1]

Because they can... their conscience allows them. They want this and that, 2 is better then 1, or they already have this, but that is better or can be better, but they are afraid not to get it, so why lose this. Don't put all your eggs in one basket (almost literally). Not the worst strategy in general, they can have more than if they were honest, due to what they are looking.

For me it's quite easy: if you love and respect your partner, no reason to cheat, if you don't love your partner - respect yourself, break up, if you can't choose - well you probably don't love any of them.

 

[Unsigned]

OK, we obviously are looking for different types of women.
I just wonder how flexible you are in your wishes.
Does the woman you want really have to look like the one in the picture?
I hope for you that you have a fantastic body then, because she looks quite perfect.
I'm not looking for perfection, because I'm afraid I would lose her easily.

My body is OK.
Top 85% for my age.
But I am also in the 94th percentile for net worth in the US.
So yeah...I want/expect a 9.4/10
Even at my age.
I figure males should be judged on net worth, females on youth and beauty.
But that's just me.
The rest of the world disagrees, apparently...

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Yeah... I think you understand what I do.
I want what I want and that is non-negotiable.
An "age appropriate" woman, even 25 years younger, for me, is totally unacceptable. As a "short, tan complexioned, blue collar class" bloke would be to you.
I get it.
Respect.
Total respect for honesty.
You want what you want the same way I want what I want.
Good on you that you found it.

Maybe one day I'll get this...
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Keeping my fingers crossed for you Deffo my vibe and what my standards of
Beauty align to in women. I see no reason to judge a man for wanting a good looking woman at all.

And he is faithful too?
I mean, if a guy is 'a unicorn' they often have many girls wanting them.

He deffo hasnt got a shortage of women interested in him, he is very loyal and faithful to me, I have to learn to appreciate that as I always think of a man as a greedy pig not used to a man I dont have to share in all honesty. Used to dumb other women calling me and messaging me that my man wants them and not me… and blah de blah

 

[CenotaphGirl]

My body is OK.
Top 85% for my age.
But I am also in the 94th percentile for net worth in the US.
So yeah...I want/expect a 9.4/10
Even at my age.
I figure males should be judged on net worth, females on youth and beauty.
But that's just me.
The rest of the world disagrees, apparently...

Net worth, masculinity and height for a man in my books

Youth, beauty and femininity in women… however the rest of the world disagrees with me

 

[Unsigned]

Keeping my fingers crossed for you Deffo my vibe and what my standards of
Beauty align to in women. I see no reason to judge a man for wanting a good looking woman at all.

Cool.
Because most females HATE me for violating "age appropriateness".
I mean...HATE me.
I am just not attracted to women over 30.
They repulse me.
And women DESPISE me for this.
I can't help what I am physically attracted to.


EDIT:
OK the above was very harsh and of course I was posting this while drunk.
Women over 30 are not "repulsive" to me.
Just not my preference is all.
I really need a breathalizer device for my computer.
Apologies to anyone I may have offended.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Cool.
Because most female HATE me for violating "age appropriateness".
I mean...HATE me.
I am just not attracted to women over 30.
They repulse me.
And women DESPISE me for this.
I can't help what I am physically attracted to.

Lool maybe I will too when i’m over 30, with saggy knockers, waxing my upper lip every 6 weeks
No one likes to feel unwanted… but this is life. People even try to say it’s racist if you only want to date a certain race or whatever… I just think wtf … people like what they like… simple some are more specific than others… but I will say this… the kind of man I like aren’t often single… neither is the kind of woman you like… begs to reason maybe society agrees with us more than they are allowed to say….

 

[insecure]

Net worth, masculinity and height for a man in my books

Youth, beauty and femininity in women… however the rest of the world disagrees with me

I could never feel loved if a woman loves 'me' for the money I have.
Easy, because there will always be someone who has more.
If it's for my body, I wouldn't mind, because that forms part of me.

 

[insecure]

begs to reason maybe society agrees with us more than they are allowed to say….

I don't know, I don't always follow what's most popular.
Like, I don't have Netflix, and I am not much into series.
I am still convinced that if I would have the prettiest woman on Earth, but her intellect would not be very high, it would only satisfy me for a while, until I realise I am missing something in that department.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I don't know, I don't always follow what's most popular.
Like, I don't have Netflix, and I am not much into series.
I am still convinced that if I would have the prettiest woman on Earth, but her intellect would not be very high, it would only satisfy me for a while, until I realise I am missing something in that department.

Well thats the thing, why its so difficult because no one can be perfect in every way sadly, just humans lol just have to find someone who ticks your mandatory boxes

 

[donald pippin]

Did you mean to say she is NOT attracted…….

Yes

 

[Unsigned]

People even try to say it’s racist if you only want to date a certain race or whatever…

Oh this I don't even pay attention to.
I only EVER consider whites or east asians.
That "racist" cr@p I completely ignore.
People try to tell me that all the time.
But blacks/africans/hispanics/south asians/middle easterners are non-starters for me.
Not happening.

 

[okidoke]

Yes

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[CenotaphGirl]

Oh this I don't even pay attention to.
I only EVER consider whites or east asians.
That "racist" cr@p I completely ignore.
People try to tell me that all the time.
But blacks/africans/hispanics/south asians/middle easterners are non-starters for me.
Not happening.

Racist monster jk jk

Side question- So do you think if a dating site had a space to put that preference it would be morally wrong?

Okay let me stop hijacking like a good girl, I also think some people cheat to work out their insecurities.

 

[Unsigned]

Side question- So do you think if a dating site had a space to put that preference it would be morally wrong?

No it is not, IMO.
And in fact, I put that in my Seeking profile. It clearly says right up front, "white and east asian girls only".
Still does not stop the black girls and latinas from IM'ing me though. I suppose constantly hitting the "ignore" button is good cardio...

 

[okidoke]

Side question- So do you think if a dating site had a space to put that preference it would be morally wrong?

Absolutely not. How can having preferences be morally wrong? If it’s wrong then NOBODY should reject ANYONE! Dating apps would be redundant because as soon as you join you pair up with the last person who joined. All these people who go on about such things are all hypocrites themselves with all the preferences they themselves have.

 

[Unsigned]

Absolutely not. How can having preferences be morally wrong? If it’s wrong then NOBODY should reject ANYONE! Dating apps would be redundant because as soon as you join you pair up with the last person who joined. All these people who go on about such things are all hypocrites themselves with all the preferences they themselves have.

Unfortunately though, this is a thing.
I couldn't care less, but some people, mostly females, consider it.
And some racial groups try to use it to pressure females from other groups to "date" them.
Strange world in which we now live.
I think perhaps in Oz it's a little different. You haven' gotten the "woke" crap we have here in the states. Lucky you.

 

[user 190541]

Oh this I don't even pay attention to.
I only EVER consider whites or east asians.
That "racist" cr@p I completely ignore.
People try to tell me that all the time.
But blacks/africans/hispanics/south asians/middle easterners are non-starters for me.
Not happening.

Funny how in the States people from the Middle East aren't considered white.

Personally, I'd place Hispanic girls (or what you would call Hispanic, as in Brazil "Hispanic" isn't a thing) in the top tier of attractiveness, together with White and Asian girls, but being Brazilian I'm sus for saying that.



I guess this is considered Hispanic in the US.

 

[Unsigned]

Funny how in the States people from the Middle East aren't considered white.

Personally, I'd place Hispanic girls (or what you would call Hispanic, as in Brazil "Hispanic" isn't a thing) in the top tier of attractiveness, together with White and Asian girls, but being Brazilian I'm sus for saying that.

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I guess this is considered Hispanic in the US.

No it's just my own preferences.
I absolutely do not judge others on what they like.
But yeah...that indigenous looking girl, to me is a mestizo.
Not my type, but cool if that is your preference.

Here is my preference:

 

[CenotaphGirl]

No it's just my own preferences.
I absolutely do not judge others on what they like.
But yeah...that indigenous looking girl, to me is a mestizo.
Not my type, but cool if that is your preference.

Here is my preference:

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Show an Asian one for balance

Its like if I was a man I’d say this is probably what i’d want for status but a typical wife look if what i’d marry for public acceptability… hence the cheating I guess.

My Rob in his prime age is my ideal he’s aged a little passed that now but still a deffo win for me as a rich tall white guy in his prime, is unattainable for me. They typically dont like girls from my heritage until they age… so I feel fortunate he’s not aged super passed prime but makes everything a bit of a rush. I can accept reality no idea why others cant…