Why don't ALonelyLife members all date each other?

[Bluey]

I'm surprised because no one ever says another person is ugly or unattractive. It's all "oh you look lovely, so cool, can't see any problems whatsoever".

Everyone here is single and horny, yes? All the virgin threads and where's a nice guy threads?

Surely the cost of petrol for a tryst would still be less than say an hr from an escort who do outcalls.

Why hasn't ALonelyLife evolved into a massive free for all sex fest?

Well there is 2 lots of ppl that did get together from this place that I know of. They may be moor who knows.
One lot actually got marred

I think probably what stops most ppl is distance though. That and a lot here are shy and have problems with getting close to ppl as easily as they should hence why there lonely.

 

[eris]

There are 2 people i kind of wish would meet because I think they would be great together, but my lips are sealed about that

*eagerly pulls up chair and sits down*
WHO? WHO?????
WHOOOOOOOO IIIIIISSS IIIIT????


Teresa

Haha, eris are you just trying to tease us all???

do tell

well, Im sorry but I wont THese 2 people are friends, and apparantly have been friends a few years, and i dont think they even flirt with each other . Its just their personality, IDK, i think they are right for each other.

im not going to say because it is total conjecture and it is all in my head and these people might not even like each other.

sorry

 

[njlonelydude]

To answer the thread, and not the sexirrific post, most people here probably don't live close enough to want to meet, let alone date. Look at all the threads in the "Networking" forum and very few people live that close to each other.

 

[tangerinedream]

*necrobump*

lol another good thread from the past

The-One was always good for some amusing posts.

 

[beans]

*necrobump*

lol another good thread from the past

The-One was always good for some amusing posts.

Maybe its good news that he is no longer around anymore.

 

[SophiaGrace]

I would but most members live too far away to date. I hope I am not repeating myself.

 

[bootlegspm]

Sex is great, but spending your life with someone you love and trust, who loves and trusts you in return, (and getting to have sex with them) is as good as it gets. It's about a real connection, true commitment...knowing that you can count on each other no matter what. It's knowing that you both actually meant what you promised in the marriage vows. Unfortunately for me, that feeling of security turned out to be false, but I have to believe it's possible or what's the point?

As for meeting someone on here, I don't care where I meet someone, as long as it turns into the real deal.

 

[AFrozenSoul]

-_- Reason number one, distance. I have yet to meet someone with 200 miles of me. In my book Internet dating is just a lie. If you don't live close enough for me to want to make the round trip. Then you are too far away.

Reason number 2, my sex drive. I have yet to meet a woman on here who considers sex a good fun thing. You all say it is nice, but really that means you think you might be in the mood once a quarter, yes quarter 3 months. Otherwise you want all the commitment and time a relationship offers without the sex. Of course giving off the excuse sex is not everything. It is a part of life, and it is something I enjoy. Relationships are about giving, that is what all you ladies say. Yet you are unwilling to give the cheapest easiest quickest gift of them all.

Those are the two main reasons I can think of.

 

[SophiaGrace]

-_- Reason number one, distance. I have yet to meet someone with 200 miles of me. In my book Internet dating is just a lie. If you don't live close enough for me to want to make the round trip. Then you are too far away.

Reason number 2, my sex drive. I have yet to meet a woman on here who considers sex a good fun thing. You all say it is nice, but really that means you think you might be in the mood once a quarter, yes quarter 3 months. Otherwise you want all the commitment and time a relationship offers without the sex. Of course giving off the excuse sex is not everything. It is a part of life, and it is something I enjoy. Relationships are about giving, that is what all you ladies say. Yet you are unwilling to give the cheapest easiest quickest gift of them all.

Those are the two main reasons I can think of.

That's just the thing, because it is easy and cheap, why give it? I am so tired of meeting guys who think they are entitled to sex. They aren't. It's like a disease of the male gender which ties into patriarchy and even the concept of rape.

Yes I just went there.

In reality you are no different than 98% of guys out there.

Women are treated like sex objects by guys like you.

This is why I am still a virgin and not ashamed of it.

 

[beans]

Yet you are unwilling to give the cheapest easiest quickest gift of them all.

Wow.

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[Dessa]

I have yet to meet a woman on here who considers sex a good fun thing.

Hi nice to meet you.

 

[AFrozenSoul]

just the thing, because it is easy and cheap, why give it? I am so tired of meeting guys who think they are entitled to sex. They aren't. It's like a disease of the male gender which ties into patriarchy and even the concept of rape.

Yes I just went there.

In reality you are no different than 98% of guys out there.

Women are treated like sex objects by guys like you.

This is why I am still a virgin and not ashamed of it.

Funny, because I find women feel entitled to love. It is what makes them use sex as a weapon. Oh yeah I went there . Let me guess, if you ever meet Mr. Right. You two will only exchange affection in words. You will never touch not so much as even brushing your hands against each other. You will always have an arms length between each other right?

I would be fine with a woman who doesn't really like sex. Well that is of course if she does not mind me having sex with other women. After all, it is a biological need. Sex is so empty and meaningless it would have no affect on my love for said woman right?

Another reason I would not like to date women here is because most of them have issues with men. Most have been heart broken or have always been the fat/ugly friend. So they tend to hate guys for natural things that we have no control over.

@beans:When I said cheapest, I meant as far as money is concerned. At the end of the day sex is free, between consenting adults. I said easiest because all humans have a sex drive at some level. And I said quickest because men achieve orgasm faster than women.

I have not hit the bars and clubs yet. I need to finish reading a book and get my money under control first. The question was why don't the netizens of this forum date each other. Not why don't you date.

Hi nice to meet you.

Hello, please excuse my skepticism. given the way I worded that sentence.

 

[beans]

Another reason I would not like to date women here is because most of them have issues with men.

And you have no issues with women?

So they tend to hate guys for natural things that we have no control over.

No control over? How old are you?

 

[AFrozenSoul]

@beans: I cannot say that I do not have issues with women. However, I am willing to put aside my issues to try and find someone. The ladies on this forum have yet to prove to me that they are willing to comprise.

Yes as a male I have no control over when my libido fires up. She aside men have a much higher sex drive then women. Just because a man represses his desires do not make them any less real.

Funny how you do not reply to my answers specifically to you.

 

[beans]

@beans: I cannot say that I do not have issues with women. However, I am willing to put aside my issues to try and find someone. The ladies on this forum have yet to prove to me that they are willing to comprise.

Yes as a male I have no control over when my libido fires up. She aside men have a much higher sex drive then women. Just because a man represses his desires do not make them any less real.

Funny how you do not reply to my answers specifically to you.

Because I was trying to find a solution to your high sex drive and I was thinking about bars and brothels (since you say you don't like anyone on this forum). I know its not about why don't people date.

 

[AFrozenSoul]

@beans: I do not see it as a problem really. The only time it is a problem is when the female in question has issues with intimacy.

 

[rivermaze]

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[tangerinedream]

I would be fine with a woman who doesn't really like sex. Well that is of course if she does not mind me having sex with other women. After all, it is a biological need.

Every time some guy brings up the argument that guys have to have sex because it's a biological NEED on par with, like, breathing, I like to remind them that the same "biological needs" are at work making women choosy about who they ****. After all, only the best of the gene pool will do for our eggs.

Oh, you didn't make the cut? Well, "the biological needs" argument is a tough bitch, I guess. Cuts hard both ways.

*eye roll*

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Reason number 2, my sex drive. I have yet to meet a woman on here who considers sex a good fun thing.

Seriously? What a dumb thing to say.

 

[AFrozenSoul]

@tangerinedream: You won't see me arguing about the fact that women need to be choosy. After all, why do you think that men are capable of sleeping with large numbers of women. After all, he is the most capable mate. However, keep in mind that the point of declaring someone a mate is to have kids. So if you are not having sex with your husband whenever you guys get the chance, in order to produce a child, he is clearly not the best mate and you are leading him on while lying to yourself.

Feel free to remember that there is a difference between being choosy and being a prude. Being choosy shows that you enjoy and accept sex as part of life. Being a prude is what girls on this forum do. That comes from the phrase There is more to life than just sex It shows you are pretending you are above nature. Yet expect all the natural things that come with being a mate. Namely a companion, resources, status, and protection. All the women.... No all the females on this forum have proven they are prides.

As for my other statement. At least I am honest. Not saying it doesn't make it any less true.

 

[PoWer2tHePeOpLE]

"there is more to life than just sex" - makes you a prude? and shows you are pretending to be above nature? lol

does that mean chaste nuns are faking their true natures? idk, i never got the impression that the ladies on this site were committed to iron underpants barred with unbreakable locks.. but jeez

the blokes just keepin it real eh? maybe some ppl get easily swept up in the tide of 'natural' urges more so than others, maybe your experience of it all colours your perception of other peoples' experience?

you can be a dick-thinking **** regardless of gender i reckon.. who knows? maybe your candid attitude will some day attract to you a complementary soul with a similar attitude. good luck.