I’m proud to be a virgin

Lonely virgin · Tuesday at 5:43 PM

I’m proud to be a virgin. I’m not ashamed to be a virgin. I will become the king of all virgins.

TheSkaFish · Tuesday at 6:05 PM

Lonely virgin said:
I’m proud to be a virgin. I’m not ashamed to be a virgin. I will become the king of all virgins.

Ehh.

It's one thing to not be ashamed of it, to not let it bother you.

But I wouldn't say it's something to be proud of, or something to be the king of.

By definition, it's not being the king.

This isn't something I would advertise, or brag about.
I don't think it's healthy or good for your self-esteem to make it a part of your identity.

0mgofhappiness · Tuesday at 9:54 PM

Lonely virgin said:
I’m proud to be a virgin. I’m not ashamed to be a virgin. I will become the king of all virgins.

You've probably just made yourself 1 grand in half an hour. Men are itching to get hold of women lie you. Good luck

ardour · Tuesday at 11:03 PM

Where's the positives in not being able to form a romantic connection with another human being, something 99% of functional adults manage?

I understand not letting it define you...but pride?

Edit: OP is a woman, i.e. it's a choice.

Minus · Tuesday at 11:28 PM

ardour said:
Edit: OP is a woman....

Lonely virgin · Wednesday at 12:07 AM

ardour said:
Where's the positives in not being able to form a romantic connection with another human being, something 99% of functional adults manage?

I understand not letting it define you...but pride?

Edit: OP is a woman, i.e. it's a choice.

Nope I’m a man.

Lonely virgin · Wednesday at 12:08 AM

ardour said:
Where's the positives in not being able to form a romantic connection with another human being, something 99% of functional adults manage?

I understand not letting it define you...but pride?

Edit: OP is a woman, i.e. it's a choice.

Also as man being a virgin I don’t have to pay child support and alimony. I also don’t have to worry about STDs as male virgin.

ardour · Wednesday at 12:21 AM

Lonely virgin said:
Also as man being a virgin I don’t have to pay child support and alimony. I also don’t have to worry about STDs as male virgin.

You can add to that, no baggage from broken relationships and a mostly clear conscience.

It's all cope though. It's like telling ourselves we never wanted to go to all those parties we weren't invited to. This isn't a choice.

TheSkaFish · Wednesday at 1:17 AM

ardour said:
Where's the positives in not being able to form a romantic connection with another human being, something 99% of functional adults manage?

Spoken perfectly.

That's the sh*t that hurts the most. It's like an insult and a punch at the same time.

Or like a scarlet letter, come to think of it.

Lonely virgin · Wednesday at 11:05 AM

0mgofhappiness said:
You've probably just made yourself 1 grand in half an hour. Men are itching to get hold of women lie you. Good luck

I’m a male virgin not a female virgin.

insecure · Friday at 6:44 AM

Lonely virgin said:
I’m proud to be a virgin. I’m not ashamed to be a virgin. I will become the king of all virgins.

Proud, but lonely, as your nickname indicates?
Not sure why one would have to be proud to be a virgin.
Would you like to die as a virgin too?
If not, then why are you proud of it?

Murakami_1 · Friday at 3:21 PM

insecure said:
Proud, but lonely, as your nickname indicates?
Not sure why one would have to be proud to be a virgin.
Would you like to die as a virgin too?
If not, then why are you proud of it?

maybe they are, loney and a virgin

insecure · 2025-03-08T16:31:28-0500

Murakami_1 said:
maybe they are, loney and a virgin

It's the proud part that seems strange to me.
If it's something to be proud of, that would mean the ideal is that at the end of your life you are still a virgin.
I wonder how many people see that as an ideal.
Regular sex is healthy, so I don't get a reason to propose virginhood as an ideal.
Besides, being a virgin makes him feel lonely.

TheSkaFish · 2025-03-08T16:59:24-0500

I think this is just telling yourself a story.

I think you have to go like hell to get out of virginity, out of sign-holder jobs, out of all of this stuff that you know is depressing you and causing this web of co-morbidities.

Telling yourself you're OK with things you're really not, is a surefire way to drive yourself crazy and lead to regrets.

For what it's worth I'm saying this to myself at the same time.

Lonely virgin · 2025-03-08T17:33:47-0500

insecure said:
It's the proud part that seems strange to me.
If it's something to be proud of, that would mean the ideal is that at the end of your life you are still a virgin.
I wonder how many people see that as an ideal.
Regular sex is healthy, so I don't get a reason to propose virginhood as an ideal.
Besides, being a virgin makes him feel lonely.

The upside of being a virgin is not worrying about STDs and not worrying about child support and alimony how some non virgins have to worry about all those stuff.

Lonely virgin · 2025-03-08T17:34:30-0500

TheSkaFish said:
I think this is just telling yourself a story.

I think you have to go like hell to get out of virginity, out of sign-holder jobs, out of all of this stuff that you know is depressing you and causing this web of co-morbidities.

Telling yourself you're OK with things you're really not, is a surefire way to drive yourself crazy and lead to regrets.

For what it's worth I'm saying this to myself at the same time.

Yep your right but I’m thankful for my sign holder job because it’s not easy getting a job these days and I’m good at sign holder jobs.

Lonely virgin · 2025-03-08T17:35:18-0500

Murakami_1 said:
maybe they are, loney and a virgin

Yes that’s why it’s my name in this forum because I’m a virgin and I’m lonely since I have no friends. I’m not proud of the lonely part.

TheSkaFish · 2025-03-08T17:48:42-0500

Lonely virgin said:
Yep your right but I’m thankful for my sign holder job because it’s not easy getting a job these days and I’m good at sign holder jobs.

I don't mean to make you feel bad about yourself. I'm sorry if you took it that way.

I just meant to say, I feel like it's important to not settle for a life that makes you unhappy, is all.
And to really go for it like you mean it.

Abstamyous · 2025-03-08T17:59:32-0500

So, obviously there's something I don't understand. Not with you, but with others.

I say good for you. Take whatever pride you wish for your life.

Lonely virgin · 2025-03-08T18:00:14-0500

TheSkaFish said:
I don't mean to make you feel bad about yourself. I'm sorry if you took it that way.

I just meant to say, I feel like it's important to not settle for a life that makes you unhappy, is all.
And to really go for it like you mean it.

Thanks. Hey I see you in the mental health forum too with the name TheSkaFish.

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