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So in the long term it did not work out then. It does not matter what I may think of myself, it does not matter what other men may think of me-when it comes to dating the only thing that matters is what the women I am attracted to think of me and they have made that clearly obvious.

This is just one example and I have seen a bunch of stories about women who are extremely shocked about how they are treated when they take the role of a man. Despite the modern narrative, men & women are very different in many ways and though we do share some struggles, others are quite...

Physical attractiveness is far more objective than most people are willing to admit. If you give photo's of 100 men and women to people, they are generally going to rate them very similarly. There will likely be some minor variances in order of attractiveness but the no one is going to rate the...

That was not what the person in the video experienced though so there is a distinct dichotomy in this area between men & women. As a women she never had an issue finding friends and connections while as a man, it became a virtually impossible task.

I often dwell on the past & all of the mistakes which have so profoundly ruined my life but I don't allow it to effect my exercise routine or yoga practice. In fact, since these are the few times that I am able to put the past out of my mind, I find that they are critical in making it from day...

From someone who has personally experienced both sides of the fence:

The wealthy can never relate to the impoverished; the well fed will never understand the chronically hungry.

Just another cope to try and make those of us who are unfortunate feel better about our miserable circumstances. Sometimes one is a loser simply because they have lost in life despite having put in tremendous effort & self improvement. The best anyone can do is to make the most of what they...

If you are attractive then there is no way you could understand the curse of being an undesirable male. I work out a lot too and am in prime physical shape but this in no way makes up for being too short or my below average face. Perhaps France is far different than the US but here, for women...

Your weight issues are self induced though while being short is just a matter of unfortunate genetics and outside of very expensive, painful and extremely risky surgical procedures, nothing can be done to change height. It's likely that the short men with nice wives whom you mentioned were...

Being a short guy is by far the MOST overlooked social taboo. —~1.7% women are open to shorter men, 3-6" gap preferred —<=5'6" is 10%ile in the US, with ~0 prospects —6' is 90%ile, but the majority preference Very short men are subject to ridicule and often depressed. As a result.. —~80% of men...

My entire so called "dating" life has been a huge joke, though not one which I find funny in the least having been the butt of the joke and unlike Richard, I regret pretty much everything.

It does seem to matter quite a bit to most women though & just like baseball, many things in life come down to a game of inches as far as success or failure. A few inches in length & width, a few inches of height, a few millimeters of bone in regards to facial structure-they can make all the...

Penis size is one of the 4 parts of the minimum requirements that women have for men-i.e. 6+ foot tall, 6+ figure income, 6+ inch penis and 6 pack abs. Of course, if a man is not tall and good looking enough, the size of his penis is never going to be an issue anyway.

I think the issues you mention are a seperate discussion. Most attractive people who fail do so because they continuously make poor decisions and some unattractive people are better at coping than others which is why I said potential quality of life. It is when a man is too unattractive to...

I think being a truly ugly man must be personally experienced to be understoode so I can realte to & empathize with men who like me are also in the sub 5 catagoery. It's pretty much impossible for average looking men, above average looking men or women to relate to how little valued below...

I agree-rather than somehow being positive, constant rejection & failure is extremely painful and demoralizing. This is especially true because a large part of how people treat you is based on your level of physical attractiveness. Even when attractive people are young, thery receive huge...

I was very surprised when I realized their age too as I had never seen such a blatent display of public affection by a couple their age. It is soul crushing when you understand what you have missed out on in life. Regardless of their acutal relationship, just having an attractive women even...

I work a part time job for a local public entity and today in the course of my duties I noticed a simply stunning women who was there. I don't usually like giving ratings but she was breath taking, at minimum a 9 out of 10. I though about how even on my so called best days (which are long...

In that case I guess nothing. I have always been very self sufficient so it has never been an issue. I would worry more about my dog if I were not able to care for her.