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Haha hey bud. :D

My style of advice giving is to state my two cents in a polite, albeit blunt tone; what you get out of me is how I feel, although I do phrase it in a non-confrontational way. If you don't accept my advice, or argue against it, I'm not going to spend a great deal of time debating it with you...

I used to overthink everything. I still do, but I used to as well.

You are absolutely putting too much thought into a very minor issue. I worked in the service field when I was a teen, and I can tell you from experience that you don't spend a lot of time memorizing each individual customer- you put a trait in your head to try to remember who was who, and you...

Welcome :) I am certainly an over-thinker. I think it's probably better to be to be an over-thinker than an under-thinker.

Welcome to the site, Husky Mama. :) Edit: I read that back and it sounded weird, but I'm going to roll with it.

Probably not.  :P Eventually I'll hear something else that makes me giggle and I'll focus on that instead lol

Nice hat.

Our stubborn sense of perseverance.

At this point in my life, I'm very adept at making acquaintances but not so fantastic at making real friends... I have a few people that I text with, a few people that I *OCCASIONALLY* go do something with, but even that is rare. I think that part of the problem is that I just haven't met many...

Thanks for the responses. :) There are definitely worse circles to run in, I think haha. As far as the childhood business goes... it's not really all that easy to talk about, I totally understand where you're coming from. I'm finally to the point that I'm comfortable saying that it happened...

60 degrees. It's almost always 60 degrees here. Almost no humidity, too.

Don't get me wrong, I'm on at least semi-friendly terms with anyone I've dated, but I'm not looking to go walking down that same old road, which is filled with memories and, ultimately, sadness, by periodically wishing them a happy/merry______. I've only had a couple of relationships end on a...

I could have finished many of the sentences that you typed, and inserted my own life situations into them. The parts about how you've made a lot of friends, but realized that they became simply acquaintances really rang true for me. What I've realized about friendly relationships is that we...

"I find it easier opening up to the people here than I do to my own close relatives, my family isn't judging, but 2 of them are non-understanding of my issues, the 3rd is just like me but doesn't want to talk about it, she doesn't want to venture out just yet and maybe never will." I've been...

MisterLonely Hey Hoarse, thanks for the comment, as always experiences will differ :), you'll find emotional support if you go looking for it, spilling your heart is ofcourse one way for others to engage with you and get to know you, still your wrong to think everyone is experiencing the same...

When my fiance and I broke up, I had one DVD for a brief window that I left on as background noise- The Holiday, a romantic comedy. It had pleasant musical undertones with soft dialogue, so it served as the perfect elevator music for my life at the time. It really starts wearing on you...

The hardest thing to come to terms with when you deal with trauma is the fact that it isn't going to just go away gracefully. It can take some time for memories of horrific events to ease their way out of your mind- the biggest thing is to find ways to distract yourself rather than allowing...

That's exactly how I'm feeling one day in. I don't remember what I was searching for when I found ALL, but I'm glad that I stumbled into this place.

When I imagine the "perfect partner", she's quiet and sweet; she takes pride in who she is, and doesn't feel the need to spend an hour applying make-up and such to herself to "get pretty" (I understand the desire to make yourself feel prettier, but if I'm dating you, it's not because of your...