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i think your response pre-supposes that there are always viable solutions for everyone.  my own personal experience has shown that this is not the case and some people are just too flawed to ever find contentment or happiness.

this may be good advice for some but does not apply to others for whom intimate relationships are most of what makes life worth living.  personally i have found existence to be hollow, empty & meaningless without having anyone to share it with and greatly envy those who are fortunate enough to...

no one ever claimed that anyone else knew nothing-just as i cannot speak what it's like to be a women, you have zero personal experience as a short, unattractive male. as i said previously, so called negativity can be the result of very bad circumstances rather than the cause, which is the...

your assumptions were based on the suggestion that failure is due to not trying hard enough or long enough.  giving up can be essential to retain whatever minimal self esteem one may have remaining.  there are large communites of men in the same position as i am or even worse so it's not just...

lots of assumptions here and they are also very wrong. i fought like hell" for too many years to count yet still have had zero success.  the idea that failure is always due to a lack of effort and that success comes eventually to everyone is a form of the just world fallacy.  i understand that...

not true.  people love to believe that this is always the case but a complete lack of validation over years and decades refutes your claim.  as i have stated here many times before some people are just born losers despite what they do, do not do or want. coping may work for certain people but it...

not every issue people have is based on mental illness. sometimes it's more a matter of not being able to accept extremely difficult circumstances which will never improve. depression, loneliness, low self esteem are some examples which can be due to a lifetime of failure & negative...

no comment as i think that statement requires some level of love in the first place-which does not apply to everyone.

deal makers are only relevant for those with options. i learned the hard way that what i prefer in women is meaningless since both the women i find attractive and the women whom i find unattractive are equally disinterested in my attention.

feelings can change at a whim so i tend to go with evidence instead. for example, i can feel like i am a great basbeabll player but if i cannot run, hit, throw or catch very well then the facts state otherwise. in my own case the evidence is undeniable that i am very much on the loser side of...

i have not found this to be the case-in fact the opposite is true.  every year of failure is worse than the last so there is a compounding effect.  perhaps i am able to cope better about being a loser than i was when i was younger but it is certainly no better as i ponder all of the wasted years...

this is true but often times the actions are subconcious so women are not even aware of them. there is actual science behind this which i tend to look to instead of random anecdotal examples...

TheRealCallie MANY guys....really?  I seriously doubt that.  So, you agree that guys can't read negative signals from women, but you seem to think that they CAN read positive signals, which are usually much more subtle..... on the contrary-it's actually the negative signals which are subtle...

i would agree but the problem is that many men have never had a women truly interested in them so have not seen both sides of the signals.  when they are atrtacted to a man they make it VERY obvious-just as they do when they are not attracted to him.

when a women is romantically interested in a man they make it extremely obvious from the get go. if she is not giving him choosing signals then she considers him merely a platonic friend. it is claimed that a women decides within moments of meeting a man if she finds him a suitable intimate...

i always try to be respectful of others beliefs even if i don't agree with them.  if there were any level of emperical evidence for anything supernatural then this would be a far different discussion but there is not and never has been in the history of civilization.  there would also be at the...

i can't speak for other men but my standards are not high (not that it matters since i can't remember the last time i actually had options).  as long as a women is physically fit and feminine i usually find her attractive.  personally i would much prefer a women with a very fit body & average...

it most certainly does currently work that way as i am all too well aware of from my many years of total failure & rejection.  of course not all women are like this but perhaps the vast majority are.  i thought things may get better as i got older but even older women demand men of a certain...

the vast majority of women are waiting for the second man and there is no way for the first guy to increase his height or improve his face & hair as these are the critical factors which women find attractive in men.  your market analogy may be apt but the problem is that most women would rather...

it is possible it was staged but if so they are both tremendous actors as her reaction was very genuine as was his kiss. she was even stunned for a brief moment until she decided she liked it and went with the flow. normal people don't do that but men who have had nothing but positive...