Apology, once again

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

I really should stop discussing DSLR, until I actually get a girlfriend. I'm terrible at giving advice, and I'm terrible at receiving it.

Guys, I'm really sorry for generalizing all women again in the relationships section. Once again, I've gotten into a fight over going down that path.

I don't know when I got into this loop, of generalizing relationships based on stereotypical views, but it's a sickness. Probably part of my generalized anxiety, but I recognize I'm sick, and I'm working on it in therapy. I don't want to be this way, is what I'm trying to say. I want to be happy, in a loving relationship, and not have to rely on porn to satisfy me.

Anyway, please don't hate me! I always feel terrible whenever I get into a fight on here over this.

 

[SophiaGrace]

what does DSLR stand for?

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

Dating Sex Love Relationships

DSLR

 

[PrinceOfPeace]

Im still new here & dnt know what your talking of, but I do know a genuine apology when I hear/see one, it takes a humble man to admit, identify & aknowledge the things we do wrong, I appreciate your honesty

 

[VanillaCreme]

I don't think you're generalizing as much as it is you think lowly of yourself, which you shouldn't, because even though we've disagreed, I think you're a cool dude. Don't be so harsh on yourself.

 

[ladyforsaken]

Yeah, what VC said. Don't be too hard on yourself, dude.

 

[Rosebolt]

I want to be happy, in a loving relationship

There's your problem. The tunnel vision that seems to disregard alot in life and focus on that one precious thing. Listen, it's very courageous of you to put your energy in something like this, a public apology, it's a tough thing to do. But i feel i have to say this: If your attitude remains the same, your focus on women will remain the same as well, and this will reflect in the posts you make here, unless you start putting up a mask of lies, which i don't think is something you'd do.

Thanks def. Out of all the responses, that was the only one that was helpful, and didn't make me feel like ****.

This saddens me a bit. I'm glad one of the replies made you feel better, but i was trying to help you best i could. I'm not here to make you feel like ****. I don't hate you, not at all. As i said before, i think you're a really great guy, i mean that. I think it's time that you yourself see that as well. I think i can speak for at least 90% of the community here when i say that we are all here to help you. I could do that, but i won't, i hate it when people do that to me as well. I speak for only myself when i say that i'm here to help you find happiness in your life, wathever the means might be.

You say you've been in therapy since you were fourteen, this is good. However if in those sixteen years your life hasn't been turned into something that makes you truly happy, then either your therapist is **** (this is the most likely, since 95% of them are pure ****) or you haven't worked hard enough to make it count. Considering you say you've improved alot, the second option seems very unlikely to me. It is good that you have improved as much as you did, it's a big accomplishment, changing yourself is probably one of the hardest things to do, but you did that. Use that momentum, Muse, you deserve a much happier life.

It's time for you to stop running, in the preceding 3 days i think, you've said you'd leave this forum. There's nothing wrong with being impulsive, i think, but please realise we are here to help you. It may not always be happy sunny rose colored days, but when you get there, it will be hell of alot better.

I'm here for you man.

 

[LoneKiller]

You are ok in my books. Nobody is perfect.

 

[SophiaGrace]

Dating Sex Love Relationships

DSLR

Where'd you get the acronym?

 

[Poguesy]

Whatever you say or do I will always love you

 

[Cavey]

I don't necessarily agree with your message, but it didn't offend me either. I kind of like your honesty regardless of my own opinions.

 

[Moe'sTavern]

Dating Sex Love Relationships

DSLR

Where'd you get the acronym?

I've seen this acronym a couple times prior to this. Honestly, sometimes it's just easier to write these things out so no one will have to ask; and you end up writing it out anyway.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

I actually think it is something like D;SLR or something like that.

Or maybe DS;LR.

Either way, it's geekspeak. I see it all the time on forums that discuss relationships.