Quick review of last night...
My last night out in hometown before going back. Met up with a few of the other guys.
We were on the dancefloor and one of the other guys approached a group of three girls who were probably the most attractive around there at the time. He was talking to them for a bit and then I saw him point over to me so I took my cue to enter the interaction.
One of the girls had blonde hair, incredible body, she looked like a pornstar. Definitely not my type of girl but very sexy nonetheless. I tried talking to her. Said something and she gave me a big hug. It went reasonably well but was difficult on the loud dancefloor. And I was a bit afraid to escalate with the pornstar looking girl.
When I was talking to one of the other girls, I made a pretty sexual joke to her which I don't normally do but I was confident I could get away with it with these girls. And she thought it was pretty funny.
Me and the other guy ended up ejecting but I ended up talking to those girls later in the night.
Saw a girl near the bar who looked at me. Took my chance to approach her. Started out pretty well. We got a drink together and she seemed to want me there. Then she went with her friends back to the dancefloor and I went with her.
She was part of a fairly large group, which made it difficult to do anything in front of them. I was hoping the other guys would come along and talk to the others in the group to help me out but they didn't. I ended up leaving because it felt like it wasn't going to go anywhere. I probably needed to isolate her from her group earlier for anything to happen.
We went downstairs to another dancefloor and two girls came over very close to me. I immediately thought back to my NYE journal where I said that I have to assume girls are interested in me if they dance really close to me.
The more attractive of the two girls was getting very close to me. But I was afraid to approach. It was like I was waiting for her to approach me...which is almost never going to happen.
Eventually her and her friend left and I was so furious with myself for not approaching her while she was right in front of me. But then 10 minutes later, she and her friend were back. I was close to approaching her and then one of the other guys went in and talked to her.
Looked like it didn't go very well, she seemed to reject him pretty quickly and he left. But the two girls stayed there near us so after a few minutes I thought I'd have a go.
She instantly responded a lot better to me than my wingman. Which was a little confidence boost because he's a decent looking guy himself.
Talked to her for a few minutes, had her smiling and laughing. But then I just hit a standstill and didn't know what to do next. This is the problem with dance floors. It's so hard to talk because of the loud music, then even if you can talk, it feels weird having a discussion on the dancefloor. Need to figure out a better dance floor game plan.
Towards the end of the night I hadn't done as many approaches as I was hoping to and told myself to do two more before leaving. I saw a blonde girl, probably a bit older than me look at me near the bar. Started talking to her and once again it started well but then fizzled out after a few minutes. I did enough to probably get her number but I didn't see the point when I'd be leaving the next day.
I was sitting with my other wingman and saw the group of girls from the first interaction of the night. I told him I'd spoken to them earlier in the night and he said 'let's go talk to them again,' and we did.
This was in a much quieter spot than I'd spoken to them earlier in the night so it was much easier to talk to them. All three were fairly attractive but I really wanted to talk to the pornstar looking girl.
I was talking to one of the others for a while and then got a chance to talk to pornstar looking girl. Did a good job of getting the conversation onto sexual topics with both this girl and the other one I was talking to.
The pornstar girl soon said she was going home and gave me a hug and kiss on the cheek before she left. She said she was getting an uber home. Maybe I could've asked where she lives and offered to drive her back if she was in my direction. Holy wow she was very sexy. But definitely not the type of girl you would want to take home to your parents lol. It was still good that I has a decent interaction with a girl like that.
My last night out in hometown before going back. Met up with a few of the other guys.
We were on the dancefloor and one of the other guys approached a group of three girls who were probably the most attractive around there at the time. He was talking to them for a bit and then I saw him point over to me so I took my cue to enter the interaction.
One of the girls had blonde hair, incredible body, she looked like a pornstar. Definitely not my type of girl but very sexy nonetheless. I tried talking to her. Said something and she gave me a big hug. It went reasonably well but was difficult on the loud dancefloor. And I was a bit afraid to escalate with the pornstar looking girl.
When I was talking to one of the other girls, I made a pretty sexual joke to her which I don't normally do but I was confident I could get away with it with these girls. And she thought it was pretty funny.
Me and the other guy ended up ejecting but I ended up talking to those girls later in the night.
Saw a girl near the bar who looked at me. Took my chance to approach her. Started out pretty well. We got a drink together and she seemed to want me there. Then she went with her friends back to the dancefloor and I went with her.
She was part of a fairly large group, which made it difficult to do anything in front of them. I was hoping the other guys would come along and talk to the others in the group to help me out but they didn't. I ended up leaving because it felt like it wasn't going to go anywhere. I probably needed to isolate her from her group earlier for anything to happen.
We went downstairs to another dancefloor and two girls came over very close to me. I immediately thought back to my NYE journal where I said that I have to assume girls are interested in me if they dance really close to me.
The more attractive of the two girls was getting very close to me. But I was afraid to approach. It was like I was waiting for her to approach me...which is almost never going to happen.
Eventually her and her friend left and I was so furious with myself for not approaching her while she was right in front of me. But then 10 minutes later, she and her friend were back. I was close to approaching her and then one of the other guys went in and talked to her.
Looked like it didn't go very well, she seemed to reject him pretty quickly and he left. But the two girls stayed there near us so after a few minutes I thought I'd have a go.
She instantly responded a lot better to me than my wingman. Which was a little confidence boost because he's a decent looking guy himself.
Talked to her for a few minutes, had her smiling and laughing. But then I just hit a standstill and didn't know what to do next. This is the problem with dance floors. It's so hard to talk because of the loud music, then even if you can talk, it feels weird having a discussion on the dancefloor. Need to figure out a better dance floor game plan.
Towards the end of the night I hadn't done as many approaches as I was hoping to and told myself to do two more before leaving. I saw a blonde girl, probably a bit older than me look at me near the bar. Started talking to her and once again it started well but then fizzled out after a few minutes. I did enough to probably get her number but I didn't see the point when I'd be leaving the next day.
I was sitting with my other wingman and saw the group of girls from the first interaction of the night. I told him I'd spoken to them earlier in the night and he said 'let's go talk to them again,' and we did.
This was in a much quieter spot than I'd spoken to them earlier in the night so it was much easier to talk to them. All three were fairly attractive but I really wanted to talk to the pornstar looking girl.
I was talking to one of the others for a while and then got a chance to talk to pornstar looking girl. Did a good job of getting the conversation onto sexual topics with both this girl and the other one I was talking to.
The pornstar girl soon said she was going home and gave me a hug and kiss on the cheek before she left. She said she was getting an uber home. Maybe I could've asked where she lives and offered to drive her back if she was in my direction. Holy wow she was very sexy. But definitely not the type of girl you would want to take home to your parents lol. It was still good that I has a decent interaction with a girl like that.