Well, I'm sorry to say it, but women clearly have some sort of discriminating and harsh view on men with disabilities, men who are underachievers, or men who aren't good looking. Everyone comes back at me with "well so do men, so do men". The only thing men have discriminating and harsh views on towards women is physical appearance. I am not using isolated cases like you and other people are saying. I go by what happens the majority of the time. The key word here is majority. Majority proves, means, tells and speaks much more then what happens rarely, or less. Majority, realistically. So what does that tell me? It tells me one gender judges the other gender much more, then the opposite. This is not misogyny, this is truth. Pure truth. No emotion. Only truth.
I have educated myself, and debated this subject with other people for over 2 years. The TFL people say it's eugenics. I really don't know what to call it, but there is clearly a big divide in difficulty between men and women when it comes to dating and relationships. It is there. Staring us all in the face. An elephant in the room. Why deny something that is staring you in the face? The world is not a perfect place. Our societies are not perfect. Human beings are not perfect. We all sin. We all stereotype people. We all treat others unfairly in some way. Women are no exception to this. See that's what you've got to figure out right now. You are only seeing a small portion of the big picture. I may not have dated, had relationships, or became thorough friends with females before but that doesn't mean I could in no way possible not know how they percieve, and treat men.
For people to deny this, and throw a cover over this is just insane. How can you sit there and say to a person who has issues, or is considered "inferior", that every bad thing that has ever happened to them in this world, and life, is their fault and only their fault, the world is perfect, life is perfect, usually using your own life as some sort of evidence. Nope. Bologna. Everyone is different.
As far as being unemployed, or being an underachiever, and how it relates to dating and relationships and love, I do believe, no not believe, I know, women are more strict and cut throat. Women want men to be providers and have some direction in their life. I really couldn't care less if a woman judges men this way, in this particular area. But what about when you have a guy who has some kind of disability, and lives off the government because of physical or mental impairments. These guys can't really be providers, except for taking care of themselves, but women will still refuse to get involved with a guy like that. And I don't really think I am talking out of my butthole on this point either, because I've seen women admit this, to me, and other places on the internet. Ironically, I've even seen some women who had disabilities and financial hardhsips/life struggles themselves who refused to date men who were in the same situations. It's a reality. People only want something that is above or better then them. Once again, another view that the female gender has. Not men, on the majority. But women, yes, I think all do. I know they do. I've talked with a few guys like that, and they tell me they never really had any woman at all before. That is very tragic to me, and it shows me that a person could be a great person, but because of one little flaw they might have, that ruins everything for them.
But then a human being will use a person flaw against that person, when they have their own flaws. And when someone uses THEIR flaws against THEM, they don't like it. They hate it. But they have no problem using someone elses flaws against that person.
What's wrong with a man and a woman coming together, accepting who they are, and what they have, and making the best of it? If humans were like this, I know the world would be a very better place for everyone.
Our creator was right. We do sin. We do hurt each other. We do treat each other unfairly. We are not perfect.
The dangers of being a dateless man:
if you are a long-term single man and growing older, with little sign of any sort of a relationship with a woman, there is automatic suspicion placed on you. No joke. Even if you *have* dated in the past.
I think that if you are not perceived as desirable by women in this culture, you are considered broken or aborrent in some way. The misandry compounds this attitude. You are worthless somehow, and tainted. The heat and disgust towards men has become outright toxic.
In the 80s, there was a term called the “Peter Pan Syndrome” about men that would not settle down. They were deemed as irreponsible playboys and bachelors that extended their singledom. It was a slam against men in a way, but I believe it was towards men that women wanted to settle down with them. God forbid those men were looking out for themselves. And men off the radar were not always the source of that shame, but often looked down upon as losers then as well.
Now, it’s even worse. I’ve lurked on romance forums, and you read the usual blather, including the notion that men that have not been married by a certain age or gotten laid are have something seriously wrong with them. (Of course, women are supposed to be exempt from this criticism). There are hordes of women that truly believe this. Granted, I’m sure back in the day some people would speculate that a perpetual single man may be gay or “selfish,” and while families would place pressure on them to marry and have children, the nastiness exhibited towards leveled at men that are not in the loop and don’t interact with women intimately has reached caustic proportions.
And again, for the women have it easier debate, well, after seeing stuff like this, I wonder if there even is a debate.
No woman is "unable" to find a mate.
No Woman Is Unable To Find A Man
Posted by The Black Pill on January 5, 2011
When I talk about how no woman wants me there will be a chorus who say, “There are women who have the same problem.” Yet they can never produce an example of a 32 year old involuntary virgin woman, much less one who has had men do to her what women have done to me. Many men like myself can’t get a woman to piss on us if we were on fire. However, no woman is in that situation. Every woman is able to find a man and does unless she chooses to be alone. And now I have proof.
At In Mala Fide I found out Donna Simpson, an insane **** who wants to weigh over 1000 pounds. She currently weighs somewhere between 600 and 700 pounds. You would think that such a morbidly obese woman would have a lot of trouble finding a man. Nope. She is married and has two kids. Her current marriage is to her second husband. Consider how many decent, hard working, smart, at least average if not better than average looking men can’t get a woman. Yet this woman is able to find men, at least two of them and reproduce. On top of that she has a website where men pay money to see pictures of her. Anytime someone tells you that women have as hard of a time in finding men as 80% of men have in finding women, THEY ARE LIARS. Donna Simpson proves these liars are all full of ****.
Knowing that no matter what a woman can find multiple men interested in her, that explains the extreme and criminal behavior of women towards me and other inexperienced men. Women believe that men are able to be superpromiscuous because they can be. That’s not true for at least 80% of men. In other words because of female projection women don’t really see 80% of men out there. Those of us in that 80% of men are not really human in women’s minds. Thus it’s easy for women to think we should be purged as those of us who have had experience with the sexual harasssment industry, the false rape industry etc. We haven’t done anything but exist. I found this on another blog which explains it well (quoted below).
[Chuck: Exactly. As I wrote, a man that was once considered a "loser" is also now a "creep". A loser is a guy that just exists by himself - doesn't harm a soul. Women now call those same guy's creeps because *merely existing as a socially awkward guy is considered a direct attack*. I believe that it is the same phenomenon as with second-hand smoke or the domestic violence campaign where "mental abuse" conducted at the hands of a man is nothing more than him simply disagreeing with her. No longer are men only harmful if they touch a woman unprovoked; they are also harmful by their mere existence.]
This is another example of how no woman is unable to find a man and how it leads to the dehumanization of those of hated by women.
After reading that, I don't think there is a debate.
