Do You Think That Watching Porn Makes You Less Of A Person?

[Skorian]

Ok, if your going to claim there are benifits in not. Here are some benifits from it. https://www.google.com/#sclient=psy....,cf.osb&fp=dba0c5f41b137973&biw=1920&bih=953


I would say that it is easier to deal with women when not actually loaded. So would argue that a lack of orgasms can actually make it harder to socialize. It is also safer then safe sex.

 

[Falling-Slowly]

I totally agree that is a lot safer then safe sex and that is a plus to this. I think its true that at times a lack of orgasams can affect socializing because I know that at times that's all I need and i'd be in a way better mood for the day.

 

[Skorian]

I totally agree that is a lot safer then safe sex and that is a plus to this. I think its true that at times a lack of orgasams can affect socializing because I know that at times that's all I need and i'd be in a way better mood for the day.

It is easier to talk to women when not thinking about sex.... Being loaded can make that harder.

 

[Falling-Slowly]

I totally agree that is a lot safer then safe sex and that is a plus to this. I think its true that at times a lack of orgasams can affect socializing because I know that at times that's all I need and i'd be in a way better mood for the day.

It is easier to talk to women when not thinking about sex.... Being loaded can make that harder.

Ture, but if your talking to an attractive female and say she's wearing something revealing whether your loaded or not your mind is subject to think about sex

 

[Doubt The Rabbit]

No, it doesn't make me less of a person. Everything else about me does.

 

[nerdygirl]

I hope it doesn't. There are some people out there who watch the stuff so much that they'd have to stop existing because there isn't enough of them to be "less". Scary!

Huh?

You know. You're 100% of a person in the first place. Then, you watch porn and become less of a person. Maybe 90%. Then you watch even more and become less of a person. Say 75%. Eventually, you run out of person. You might even become... negative amounts of person. Maybe watching too much porn turns you into a black hole.

 

[mintymint]

I hope it doesn't. There are some people out there who watch the stuff so much that they'd have to stop existing because there isn't enough of them to be "less". Scary!

Huh?

You know. You're 100% of a person in the first place. Then, you watch porn and become less of a person. Maybe 90%. Then you watch even more and become less of a person. Say 75%. Eventually, you run out of person. You might even become... negative amounts of person. Maybe watching too much porn turns you into a black hole.

Porn leads to sucking. I knew it.

 

[Sci-Fi]

Minty...ROFLMAO!!

You are all a bunch of sicko's, you are all going to hell. Enjoy your eternal damnation for watching such filth.

Now if you'll excuse me I'm going to watch more videos on porntube...I mean youtube.

 

[Skorian]

Minty...ROFLMAO!!

You are all a bunch of sicko's, you are all going to hell. Enjoy your eternal damnation for watching such filth.

Now if you'll excuse me I'm going to watch more videos on porntube...I mean youtube.

If hell is where all the pornstars go, then I want to go there. Something about confident women is really hot. Why would I want to be where people are to scared to express themself?

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More thoughts. Porn is simply filmed human sexuality. It is not dirty. It is beautiful. It is filmed intimacy. Why would finding that attractive make anyone bad?

Because when you think about it, it is not filmed intimacy in the genuine sense, it is a mass-market, shallow facade of intimacy created to be popular with a target audience and make money.

I don't think that is attractive either.

Do you think any of the performers actually love each other? Of course not. They just do what a director tells them to and collect a pay cheque and possibly some sexual satisfaction.

Some love each other, some just like each other. Maybe you haven't noticed but some are addicted to intimacy and are excessively loving. That is one reason some choose the job. It is why you see some of the same people together again and again. They more then like working with those people and the producers are more then happy to put it on film and make money off it.

To me, equating pornography with what I believe intimacy should entail is like saying some mass produced food taken mouldy from a bin is quality gourmet sustenance.

What are you watching?

Sometimes you can see it in the faces of the "actors". That they're either not happy, or they're just bored, or it's even just that they're faking their excitement completely. And I find that tremendously sad.

Ya sometimes not happy, more often sometimes bored, but there are many who are not either of those. Some are downright giddy and bubbling over with enthusiasm. I don't think fake is attractive either.

I'm not saying it's "wrong" or having a dig (just see my above post), merely that I can see why people object to it and I think there is some reason behind that argument.

I know that I for one don't like what it represents, even if I may feel obliged to use it to fill what's missing in my life at present.

Sound like you subscribe to the myth that all women find it disgusting. I used to think that. It is totally untrue.

 

[sentiententity]

Naw. Although if a person gets all obsessed with it and doesn't view women as people, then it's creepy.

Now that I think about it, lots of cultures throughout history have viewed women as lesser beings without porn. Especially in strict conservative cultures.

 

[Skorian]

Naw. Although if a person gets all obsessed with it and doesn't view women as people, then it's creepy.

Is it creepy to find a woman that has forgotten the world and on the path to orgasm beautiful and amazing? There is something alluring about the wildness and just sheer abandon that is awsome. I guess if I was going to be addicted to anything that would be what I would choose.

Now that I think about it, lots of cultures throughout history have viewed women as lesser beings without porn. Especially in strict conservative cultures.

Ya, but not all. I have heard that several european cultures, before christianity, actually revered women.

It is weird that porn is sort of the reverse of the muslim culture. Many in porn are seeking to empower women through it, but are seen as the reverse.

 

[sentiententity]

Is it creepy to find a woman that has forgotten the world and on the path to orgasm beautiful and amazing?

Not in my book.

Ya, but not all. I have heard that several european cultures, before christianity, actually revered women.

I think a lot of discrimination in western culture goes back to the original creation myth, where woman was created FOR man. I'm not too fond of Abrahamic religions anymore.

 

[sylvestris lybica]

I have watched a huge amount of porn in my short life time and I must say, it is a very useless thing to be addicted to. However, I don't feel like less of a person for watching it. Actually, no one who hasn't utterly destroyed another human life is ever truly less of a person in my eyes.

 

[Nolife Princess]

....... only if you let it be the driving force in your daily life!

Everything in moderation is ok, I suppose... cept for sex.... THE MORE THE BETTER!!!
He He He!!

 

[Lost Drifter]

 

[JamaisVu]

No, not at all, I like people who are comfortable with their sexuality. It's one of life's little pleasures, we may as well enjoy it in moderation and accept that it's a natural part of being human. None of us would be here if it weren't for sexual desire.

 

[Arsenic Queen]

None of us would be here if it weren't for sexual desire.

Really? I wonder. I think I disagree with you. I think loneliness is about a much deeper pull than just sexual desire. What about emotional connections? What about mind-to-mind connections? Feeling safe/understood/happy with someone has little to do with sex, and it's also part of what a lonely person is lacking, no?



As for porn, it depends on the kind of porn, I guess. I wouldn't want to associate with someone who watches brutal porn (rapes, people getting hurt and treated badly in a sexual context).

But I like nudity and watching normal sexual acts. Or even mildly deviant sexual acts. I consider sexual creativity as "fun" to do or watch, as long as both partners are human, adult, consenting and don't hurt each other.

I even contemplated the idea of working on a non-sick, non-brutal hentai movie (as artist).

 

[JamaisVu]

^^hehe sorry, I worded that badly, I meant "here" as in alive and existing (because our parents conceived us) not here on the forum ALL.

 

[Masson]

I think its one thing to be addicted to porn and another to masturbation , getting addicted to porn can change the way you see sex and even women and not in a positive way. Like someone said use it for a session or with your partner to learn new positions.
Around here people see watching porn as something funny in a way , we do allot of jokes about it like me and my flat mate when one of us leaves home you tell to the other guy , finally your going to be able to spend some alone time and so on.
Now to answer the topic yes it can take away your dignity , depends on the person really , I don't feel bad or shameful when I do it , the only way I can see it as something to be ashamed of if its you start watching animal porn or other stuff of the sorts. I wouldn't judge people that do that because everyone sees the world in their own way and so watch whatever you like.

 

[Arsenic Queen]

^^hehe sorry, I worded that badly, I meant "here" as in alive and existing (because our parents conceived us) not here on the forum ALL.

OMG, LOL sorry I misunderstood you. I thought you meant here on the forum. LOL, yeah I hear you now. And now I agree with you.