Do You Think That Watching Porn Makes You Less Of A Person?

[passage]

No. Porn is cool. Its simply a matter of moderation and being realistic about sex in real life.

 

[Arsenic Queen]

do guys lose touch so much with real sex if they watch too much porn? I never confused the two, and am not sure why everyone makes sure to mention "moderation" and "being realistic about real life". is the line so thin and easy to cross for a guy? do guys tend to expect porn-movies type of things?

 

[Masson]

Just like anything else it depends on how much you let it influence you , if you are a susceptible person then there is a high chance that you might start thinking that sex is/should be like porn and yes allot of men see porn as the way sex should be.

 

[Syber Tiger]

who dont do that stuff (wary)

 

[Equinox]

Only if it's disgusting porn, like animals, brothers and sisters or really old people.

 

[SophiaGrace]

Most porn makes me go "ew" 5% of it I am in awe.

Stupid porn industry.

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do guys lose touch so much with real sex if they watch too much porn? I never confused the two, and am not sure why everyone makes sure to mention "moderation" and "being realistic about real life". is the line so thin and easy to cross for a guy? do guys tend to expect porn-movies type of things?

They do lose touch. They want to do stuff they see in porn that isn't pleasurable for a woman. Its kinda gross.

 

[Badjedidude]

They do lose touch. They want to do stuff they see in porn that isn't pleasurable for a woman. Its kinda gross.

It's mostly porn addicts who end up doing/thinking that way.

There are a shitload of guys who just use porn to jack off every now and then, or to release frustration, or whatever. And they don't ever expect their girlfriends/lovers to emulate the porn stars at all.

 

[SophiaGrace]

no, guys don't have to be porn addicts to think that way IMO

 

[Arsenic Queen]

There are a shitload of guys who just use porn to jack off every now and then, or to release frustration, or whatever. And they don't ever expect their girlfriends/lovers to emulate the porn stars at all.

Glad to read that. No one ever asked me to emulate anything, but then again I've only been with a small pocket of bf's in my life, and had very little casual sex.

no, guys don't have to be porn addicts to think that way IMO

This is probably true. Alot of naive ignorants out there, not just on the questions of sex.

I think you misunderstood me, SophiaGrace. By "naive" and "ignorant" I did not mean you, I meant the guys who think the way you describe. w/e, block me if you want, I was complimenting you and approving what you said. :/

 

[Legato]

You cant be judged as less of a person for it.

It's your choice at the end of the day.

I'm not really a fan myself, but wouldnt judge someone for being into it

 

[passage]

do guys lose touch so much with real sex if they watch too much porn? I never confused the two, and am not sure why everyone makes sure to mention "moderation" and "being realistic about real life". is the line so thin and easy to cross for a guy? do guys tend to expect porn-movies type of things?

I don't. But I'm sure some people do. For example, if you're not willing to have sex with the lights on sometimes that would be a (small) problem for me , but thats not from watching porn. The girl I first slept with, didn't want to receive oral sex (fine with me, but it would've been nice). Was I influenced by porn to want to give girls oral sex? I dont know. It seems fairly normal to me. You can't really draw a line as to what is normal and what isn't. If you're not comfortable doing it, don't do it. Another example would be anal sex (common in porn). Some guys want to do it, others (like me) find it slightly repulsive.

The same could be asked about women, "do women really expect a guy to be a prince, and swoon them over like a romantic novel?" I'm sure some do.

In both cases, those who have these expectations should lay off the crack (and porn and disney crap).

Finally, I'll say porno style sex would be great. So would a prince charming and living happily ever after.

 

[PurpleDays]

Finally, I'll say porno style sex would be great. So would a prince charming and living happily ever after.

This.

 

[Arsenic Queen]

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[Gutted]

The big P makes me more of a person! By a few inches lol. Sorry x]

I think different people are effected in different ways, based on their age, exp and lifestyle. For me personally, it doesn't effect me or make me feel any less of a person if I watch any. Although I like Girls, I think I lean quite close to the Asexual side of things. So being single doesn't bother me much. I don't need the big P to satisfy any urges~

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

Wow. Absolutely not!

It just makes me a sexual person. Obviously it's something done in private, unless with a partner as part of foreplay, but it's certainly nothing to be ashamed of (well, at least MOST porn!)