I’m proud to be a virgin

[TheRealCallie]

You can be lonely because you're a virgin, because you miss the intimacy.

You can get intimacy without having sex. You can be having sex and still feel lonely. So yes you can be proud of being a virgin and still be lonely.

Don't put words in my mouth in case of hypothetical cases, just so that they fit your purpose.

It's not a hypothetical, it happens here all the time.

And finally, whether I respond to a topic or not is none of your business.

The same applies to you when I reply to a topic, does it not? You didn't have to respond to me. It works both ways.

But there is no sex after marriage

No, there is no sex after the honeymoon.

 

[Zak]

No, there is no sex after the honeymoon.

 

[Lonely virgin]

When you accept something it is something that is beyond your control.
When you are proud of something it is a choice you made, so it was within your control.
The two contradict each other.

For example: "I accept that my wife left me."
does not combine with "I am proud that my wife left me."
It's as simple as that.
If you really mean to say that being a virgin is a deliberate decision, then it would be correct if you would say:

I'm proud to be a virgin, and I chose to be one. But that means that it really is a deliberate choice.
In other words, there are regular opportunities where girls indicate they would want to have sex with you, but you keep on refusing them.
If not, then that is not a choice.

No women approached me in for dating and sex and marriage. So I knew I would be a virgin for life and accepted it.

 

[Zak]

No women approached me in for dating and sex and marriage. So I knew I would be a virgin for life and accepted it.

I just went through your introduction post to know about you. Honestly, I feel bad. I understand that you are trying. But I hope by now you have come to realize that reality isn't really all colorful as they show in TVs and movies. It is harsh. Some get lucky. Some will go down the abyss. This may have been suggested to you by others but my subjective opinion with my limited knowledge on you is that you probably need to make a big change. Maybe move to a new city, try to change career, try to engage in something more. Join a dance class maybe? It'll give a chance to talk to others. I understand it can be hard to take that first step. But once you take it, a whole new world of possibilities open up. But you have to do the initial push yourself. Be it in relationship or life.

 

[Lonely virgin]

I just went through your introduction post to know about you. Honestly, I feel bad. I understand that you are trying. But I hope by now you have come to realize that reality isn't really all colorful as they show in TVs and movies. It is harsh. Some get lucky. Some will go down the abyss. This may have been suggested to you by others but my subjective opinion with my limited knowledge on you is that you probably need to make a big change. Maybe move to a new city, try to change career, try to engage in something more. Join a dance class maybe? It'll give a chance to talk to others. I understand it can be hard to take that first step. But once you take it, a whole new world of possibilities open up. But you have to do the initial push yourself. Be it in relationship or life.

Thanks I will try.