I’m proud to be a virgin

[TheSkaFish]

Thanks. Hey I see you in the mental health forum too with the name TheSkaFish.

That's my name, don't wear it out

 

[TheRealCallie]

I'd say all of you who are virgins are proud. Too proud to go out and do something about it. Which means that it likely means more to you than just getting a quick roll in the hay from whoever. That says something. Any one of you could end your virginity at any time. You choose not to, which means you're not as ashamed of it as you make it out to be.
I'm sure someone will come in complaining that I said this, but if you REALLY think about it, it's true.

Good on you, OP.

 

[ardour]

I'd say all of you who are virgins are proud. Too proud to go out and do something about it. Which means that it likely means more to you than just getting a quick roll in the hay from whoever. That says something. Any one of you could end your virginity at any time. You choose not to, which means you're not as ashamed of it as you make it out to be.
I'm sure someone will come in complaining that I said this, but if you REALLY think about it, it's true.

Good on you, OP.

Ah yes, the swimming in attention / full inbox perspective. What a cult classic.

 

[Unsigned]

The upside of being a virgin is not worrying about STDs and not worrying about child support and alimony how some non virgins have to worry about all those stuff.

This is true.
It is good to avoid those things.
I've had a lot of problems because of the way I live my life.

But...if you met one girl and were monogamous with her and had total trust with each other, you would not have the problems you mentioned.
Honestly it seems to me to be the ideal way to live - monogamy.
But then again I am idealizing something that I have never had.
I see couples arguing, putting each other down, and just generally making each other miserable all the time.
So who knows?

 

[TheSkaFish]

I'd say all of you who are virgins are proud. Too proud to go out and do something about it. Which means that it likely means more to you than just getting a quick roll in the hay from whoever. That says something. Any one of you could end your virginity at any time. You choose not to, which means you're not as ashamed of it as you make it out to be.
I'm sure someone will come in complaining that I said this, but if you REALLY think about it, it's true.

Good on you, OP.

I have thought about it, and I think I kind of get what you mean. You're not wrong.

I do think it's still a complicated issue but I also wanted to voice my support because I feel you get a lot of grief on here and it can really wear a person down.