ladyforsaken
Well-known member
bodafuko said:You fixate on your exes because people always want what they can't have. If you can't learn to appreciate what is right in front of you instead of obsessing over what has come-and-gone, you will keep adding things (people) to the gone-bye-bye category. Careful. Learn humility, learn appreciation, learn acceptance, learn to live in the moment.
And also learn to let go of what's gone.. and move on.
It's not fair to this current girlfriend of yours. Try to think more about your girlfriend. Find out things about her that you haven't and make little simple gestures to let her know she's appreciated. I'm sure she does the same to you? If not, maybe that's why you keep thinking about your ex. *shrugs*