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to NOT get laid?! Hear me out. Women, aged 14-50 are MORE promiscuous than ever before (a fact which is borne out by the skyrocketing # of sexual partners which the "average adult" has had). That fact combined with the advent of social media and dating websites means that "hooking up" with someone requires less effort, less patience and less $ than ever before. Don't wanna spend $$$ to "wine and dine" a girl just to get into her pants?! NO PROB. Just get a (free) account on Plenty of F8ckbuddies, send out a blitz of messages to any woman whom you find attractive, and I can pretty much guarantee you that you will get a veritable bevy of responses from girls who are looking to just "hang out" (i.e. get wasted at your place or theirs and then have no strings attached sex). So, is it REALLY possible that there are guys out there who can't get laid? Anecdotally, I routinely see cute women with fat guys, average to ugly guys, nerdy guys, old guys, crazy guys, stinky dudes, etc. all the time, so I posit that any guy who has never had a f*ckbuddy, gf or one night stand, etc. etc. etc. is not really trying.

I mean, let's be honest guys. It is 2014 (aka the age of the F*ckbuddy), not 1950. Heterosexual, white women (single and otherwise) are just like guys these days. In other words, they are just looking to guzzle as much cheap sex as possible, so you basically have to go out of your way to avoid getting laid (which is what I think a lot of the guys on these forums are doing). Just sayin'.
 
Yes, that would be me. You could say I'm not really trying, I say it's because I want what I want and not what I don't.

"Anecdotally, I routinely see cute women with fat guys, average to ugly guys, nerdy guys, old guys, stinky dudes, etc. "

You forgot mentally unstable, criminal, junkie pieces of ****. They don't want to get left off the gravy train.

I would be less mad if it had been a professional athlete, musician, artist, writer, actor, entrepreneur, etc. Or hell, even a clean-cut healthy guy with a good job. Anyone but the fat old scumbag she chose. It adds so much insult to injury.

I'm sorry. I'm really bitter about this.
 
Akagi said:
Anecdotally, I routinely see cute women with fat guys, average to ugly guys, nerdy guys, old guys, stinky dudes, etc. all the time, so I posit that any guy who has never had a f*ckbuddy, gf or one night stand, etc. etc. etc. is not really trying.

I have dated VERY few good looking guys. Most of the men I have dated (and the one I married) have mostly been either "fat, ugly, or nerdy" as you put it. A good friend of mine is married to a man twice her age.
How the hell does ANY of that matter? People place WAY too much importance on looks. It's not about how someone looks. Just because someone looks good, doesn't mean they are a good person or that any respectable girl would want anything to do with him.

As for the "mentally unstable, criminal, junkie pieces of ****" comment. Well, perhaps when they meant said piece of ****, they weren't like they are now. True story, happened to me.

Stop judging people simply by how they look.
 
TheRealCallie said:
As for the "mentally unstable, criminal, junkie pieces of ****" comment. Well, perhaps when they meant said piece of ****, they weren't like they are now. True story, happened to me.

Stop judging people simply by how they look.

No, actually they were exactly like they are now.

Stop being a wise-*** and pretending you know the circumstances of my life.
 
TheSkaFish said:
TheRealCallie said:
As for the "mentally unstable, criminal, junkie pieces of ****" comment. Well, perhaps when they meant said piece of ****, they weren't like they are now. True story, happened to me.

Stop judging people simply by how they look.

No, actually they were exactly like they are now.

Stop being a wise-*** and pretending you know the circumstances of my life.

Oh gee, I'm sorry. I missed where it said this thread was all about YOUR life.
When I decide to be a "WISE ***," believe me, you'll know it.

I responded to the OPs post and decided to take it one step further and make it known that just because YOU see. something occasionally, that doesn't make it true all the time.


Oh and btw, I don't pretend to know anything about your life, so stop making it out like I do. I know nothing of YOUR life, just like you know nothing of MINE, so perhaps you should stop thinking you know what I mean by what I say.
 
My reply was an answer to the original post. This thread isn't about mine or anyone's lives in particular. It asks a question, to which I presume people will reply with experiences from their own lives, such as the one I mentioned. You replied specifically to something I said, in a contrary way at that. What do you expect me to think when you respond to the things I say with snarky replies?
 
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