Its gone too far Robin

[EveWasFramed]

Besides, I'm the one that's no longer welcome here. I'm the one that no one wants. I'm the one who has become nothing but an unwanted troll.

NOT true. You are both liked and respected here. You shouldn't feel this way, Qui.

 

[Bluey]

So, You're wrong Qui, simply put. The majority has spoken again, and i can prove it if needed.

Actually mate I don't think she is wrong.

Like all the others who think they know so much but really don't, You've misunderstood. The moderator work here that we need least of is monitoring, because something that actually needs to be taken care of very rarely happens. We need moderators that are good at everything but the no-brainer work of simply monitoring. This isn't the forum of a movie codec website, is it?

All I do here is delete spam and porn and if anyone encourager's suicide or something as silly as that then I bane. My job as a moderator is just simple monitoring. Your job may be different but that is all I do. Plus move the odd thread to a better place.

The rest of the stuff like giving advice any member can do.

I am a member first and a mod second and always well be here.

I recommend that You stay out of the topics that You apparently know nothing about, for Your own good.

That mate is out of order talking to a well respected member like Qui. She has been here long enough to have her say about anything she likes. She appoligised and retracted her statement about telling you to leave. I would hope you do the same here.

I know you have only said them things cos your defending yourself.

I think your only fault may be that your trying to hard here. I don't question your hart being in the right place. But I do get concerned when an admin starts talking to members like this. And respected members that have been here as long as me and you and it comes across as your trying to belittle them.

I actually agreed with most of what Qui said and thought she put everything in this thread in the best way I have seen yet.

Of course she stuck up for Hijacc, She's he's friend.

Robin mate I respect you for the way your trying to live your life. Its very Honorable. Sometimes you can try to hard with things.
End of the day there is only so much you can do with an on line forum. I do agree with Qui in why most ppl come here. I come here cos I was and am lonely. So this place for me is a place I can read other peoples posts and hopefully other ppl feeling like I do well make me feel better. Then I come here to have some fun as well. And hopefully fined friends that I can talk to about fun stuff but also about our feelings.

I think sometimes to take a step break is a good thing. What would your advice be to your self if you was reading your posts as a different person? If your getting this eatin up about a on line forum then I think you should take a break for a few days then reassess it. And I mean that with the best intention possible.

 

[ClosetGeek]

It takes a LOT, and I mean a LOT for me to get angry. I am pretty tolerant, not because I accept things but because I find it unnecessary to get myself upset over things. However I think it has hit that point right about NOW!!!!!

Being a moderator is both a privilege and a huge responsibility, it isn't just about reading threads, or do you all just think we're a bunch of drones here?

Right. Let me ask you something. Do you think we the people who sign up for this forum are loser *********s simply because we are lonely?

But what I cannot fathom, what I find so whole-heartedly disillusioning is the way so many of you have attacked one person here; Robin. And before any of you accuse me of being biased, perhaps I am, but I will not just stand back and see someone I know for a fact truly cares for each and every one of you more than you'll ever know, be verbally abused, and wrongly accused for trying to make this forum a better, safer place for all of YOU..

You are biased. The things that have been said to certain people are NOT pleasant.

But what so many of you fail to know, fail to see is that we do get very many troubled people here, we get people who are on the verge of suicide, who are desperate and lonely, and do we just ignore them? No. Robin, me and Bluey the three of us spend hours here trying to help, trying to lend a shoulder to cry on, because we care, maybe the problem is we care too much..

Apropos people who are very troubled. There are people who are really lonely and need to talk and inteact with others and by bottlenecking chat, you are ignoring them. This is WHY I opened up the alternative chat. I did not and do not want my chat to be affiliated with this forum. I never asked for something like this.

Because if you did, you'd have given him the benefit of doubt instead of listening to mean gossip and rumors which can be so easily started in a place like the alternative chat.

I have opened this chat cause I felt that people on here needed the chat and the lack of chat exposed a problem. People felt depressed and misplaced.
And truly, I am not friends with him and I do not care about him to start gossips about him.
My goal is to chat with people, interact, listen to them, help them when possible.

He's helped you, and given you all support and this is how you treat him?

And how are we being treated?

It was just the idea of change I think got you all so riled up.. And that's a pity because there's always going to be change in life, nothing stays the same..

No, you are wrong. It was the idea that things were being implemented without majority vote. Just because people are lonely here that does not mean that they will accept everyting.

And now, this thread... I am appalled by what I've seen here so much so that I feel it will never be the same here.. The baiting, the nonsense of people behaving like children when you're better people than that, and you know it..

Children? Hello? I am a grown up. I am 33.

But you let your emotions take over.. And the positivity that was once here, the good feeling I got when I came here knowing that we were like a little family here is gone.. Now you can all bash me, or pick apart this post I've made, frankly I'm not sure it matters, because surely someone will find something here to pick apart, or accuse me of being wrong about..

I've seen some crap here being thrown at people in the time I've been on this board, but I have yet to see another more detrimental thread then this one... The damage is done and you all need to maybe step back for a wee bit and ask yourselves, why... ? Why are so many of you so angry?? This isn't a game of divide and conquer, we're supposed to be a little family here, or we were.. but even after all this nonsense here, and the foolish statements I've read from those of you who have little idea what you're talking about, I still care about you all very much.. But it's never going to be the same for me here.. And that is what I cannot reconcile myself with...

At this moment in time, it's more like a dysfunctional family.

P.S. People who have called others losers need to reevalute their own lives. What have you accomplished in your own life? Is your personal life balanced? People living in glass houses should not throw stones.

Have a wonderful day!!!!

 

[Gem]

i think we just need to put everything into perspective now,there is some terrible stuff going on in peoples lives and yet we are here argueing over this? there are posts in here which i really agree with,and others which i think have overstepped the mark,despite the best of intentions.
hopefully we can move on from this pretty soon,im sure everyones getting tired of seeing the same thing,which unfortunately ive now added to aswell sorry lol lets get back to making this a fun and helpful place not destructive

 

[Scott]

Robin I have a hard time here fathoming why you feel you're superior to everyone else here just because you have been given a position on an internet site.

The sheer arrogance that exudes from your recent posts and comments to certain people both on the forum and also in chatroom really let you down - and I hate to break it you, to the point that an awful lot of people really have lost a heck of a lot of respect towards you.

It's quite interesting the masses of modding work behind the scenes that you tell people they don't see and know nothing about so cannot comment on, is revealed as pretty standard post editing by Bluey. He is actually a very humble and admirable person and not looking for any personal credit. That is probably one of the main reasons he is so loved around here, because he is not after personal glory at every turn, he just does what he has been given the privilage and responsibility of doing, with a smile and sense of humour.

I don't know if your 'Detractor' list is bigger than your 'Supporter' list that you seem to have or not. I really don't care. But maybe that this list exists at all is something you need to address. I don't see anyone else round here with a list like that.

 

[Hijacc]

Hold up!


NOOOOOO!


This whent wrong way wrong

Lock this thread ban me do anything just dont leave robin these people here DO need you.

I myself need you.

 

[Hijacc]

Im so sorry

 

[ClosetGeek]

Why don't you answer posts appropiately without deleting them?
I do not gossip about you and actually about no one. Cause generally I do not gossip. I do not care for your life and for other's people's private stories too. I have my own life to deal with, and I am way too busy with my own life.
Oh and if it makes you happy to throw insults, make my day. Whatever.

Hijacc: I am not sorry.

 

[sleepflower]

This is some of the funniest stuff i've ever read. And you all called me childish and immature, you've all bypased my immaturity by millions of miles.

 

[keeper]

Nothing new under the sun.