looks or personality

[IgnoredOne]

Okay. You win. The world is not fair. Congratulations, we never knew that before.

 

[unlucky in life]

Okay. You win. The world is not fair. Congratulations, we never knew that before.

what do you mean by that exactly.

 

[EveWasFramed]

*choke*

 

[IgnoredOne]

what do you mean by that exactly.

"The world is not fair."

Please explain which part is confusing.

 

[unlucky in life]

what do you mean by that exactly.

"The world is not fair."

Please explain which part is confusing.

 

[IgnoredOne]

bulling the counsellors don't want me any more they can't help me and now they refuse to help me i am ****** in the head from life .i have father who won't listen to me .

We've been talking to you because we believe that you can be helped. But ultimately, no one can help you if you refuse to help yourself.

Life is not fair. Despite what you think, often models still are smart and are to an extent, expected to be 'role models.' Look at Liley Cole; if you know anything about fashion, you'd know her already. She's a British supermodel, and I believe one of the top ones at the moment. She also remains dedicated to finishing her university and education, getting A scores and is known to defer photoshoots to study.

Really, your learning disability puts you back more than your looks ever will, to be honest.

But you can make progress on what you want, at the least. None of this will change, though, as you keep breaking off and refusing to put in much effort.

Do you have any medication, or have been given any medication to take?

 

[unlucky in life]

bulling the counsellors don't want me any more they can't help me and now they refuse to help me i am ****** in the head from life .i have father who won't listen to me .

We've been talking to you because we believe that you can be helped. But ultimately, no one can help you if you refuse to help yourself.

Life is not fair. Despite what you think, often models still are smart and are to an extent, expected to be 'role models.' Look at Liley Cole; if you know anything about fashion, you'd know her already. She's a British supermodel, and I believe one of the top ones at the moment. She also remains dedicated to finishing her university and education, getting A scores and is known to defer photoshoots to study.

Really, your learning disability puts you back more than your looks ever will, to be honest.

But you can make progress on what you want, at the least. None of this will change, though, as you keep breaking off and refusing to put in much effort.

Do you have any medication, or have been given any medication to take?

 

[IgnoredOne]

its not like i don't refuse its just to hard
no i am not on medication some times i do sound like i am .

Well, if you cannot at all help yourself, then no quantity of looks will change your situation. Sadly, your issue is that you lack both appealing looks or an appealing personality - that's more or less the hard truth. You appear to have serious mental issues that goes well beyond any appearance. Men like appearance, but men also tend to avoid girls that strike them as, well, insane. Sadly, you do come off as insane. You're a little scary.

If you are not on medication, then I suggest speaking with a counselor next time about them and if they could benefit you. I do not usually recommmend them, but I believe you may be able to benefit. They can make it easier for you to help yourself.

Ultimately, nothing is that hard. Everything is possible, step by step - or almost everything. What limits us in the end is will, effort and intelligence.

 

[unlucky in life]

its not like i don't refuse its just to hard
no i am not on medication some times i do sound like i am .

Well, if you cannot at all help yourself, then no quantity of looks will change your situation. Sadly, your issue is that you lack both appealing looks or an appealing personality - that's more or less the hard truth. You appear to have serious mental issues that goes well beyond any appearance. Men like appearance, but men also tend to avoid girls that strike them as, well, insane. Sadly, you do come off as insane. You're a little scary.

If you are not on medication, then I suggest speaking with a counselor next time about them and if they could benefit you. I do not usually recommmend them, but I believe you may be able to benefit. They can make it easier for you to help yourself.

Ultimately, nothing is that hard. Everything is possible, step by step - or almost everything. What limits us in the end is will, effort and intelligence.

 

[IgnoredOne]

Well, those same Irish men apparently don't find you acceptable; and you don't seem to be finding a lot of happiness and normalcy in your "Irish" place. Something for you to think about. I also put that in quotes, since I work with Dublin, and I find your notion of your "Ireland" to be your entire nation to be a little arrogant, at the least. Additionally, I remember someone here trying to speak Irish to you and found your Irish to be as bad as your English.

And it is medicine. If you were bleeding, would you not want a bandage? If you had a disease, would you not need antibiotics? And if you have a mental issue, again, someone who is qualified may indicate such to you.

I am indeed not a doctor, although I have counseling training. But in the dearth of other options, I do believe that you should speak with your therapist rather than rejecting it out of hand.

At any rate, I do wish that you find some help one way or another. You have my prayers.

 

[unlucky in life]

Well, those same Irish men apparently don't find you acceptable; and you don't seem to be finding a lot of happiness and normalcy in your "Irish" place. Something for you to think about. I also put that in quotes, since I work with Dublin, and I find your notion of your "Ireland" to be your entire nation to be a little arrogant, at the least.

And it is medicine. If you were bleeding, would you not want a bandage? If you had a disease, would you not need antibiotics? And if you have a mental issue, again, someone who is qualified may indicate such to you.

I am indeed not a doctor, although I have counseling training. But in the dearth of other options, I do believe that you should speak with your therapist rather than rejecting it out of hand.

At any rate, I do wish that you find some help one way or another. You have my prayers.

.

 

[IgnoredOne]

Have a good life, UIL.

 

[unlucky in life]

UIL, what you need to realise is different men offer different things in relationships.

Yes, there are men out there though go for a partner 100% on looks. These men tend to be 100% interested in sex and not much else, so that's all that "relationship" is.

Do you think you'd be any happier with a partner who just treated you as a sex object because he likes your ****s? I think not. Temporarily maybe, long run, no. It certainly wouldn't improve how you see men.

You need to think about how you want to be treated in a relationship. Nice guys aren't hard to identify - they're quite special I guess, since there are a lot of ********* out there - but they're not hard to spot.

He'll be the guy who always holds open doors, is always polite, puts others first, doesn't laugh at people or put them down. Look up "gentleman" and you'll have an idea.

Lots of girls seem to think a guy like that is boring or stale - that's usually because they're immature and rather ill-informed. A man like that can offer sex and physical intimacy, but also compassion, companionship and actual love.

If that's the sort of relationship you want, you need to stop being so negative for starters and secondly actually look for a man like that as opposed to any "sporty" guy you see.

For the last time, if you feel your appearance is lacking IMPROVE IT. It's not like you cannot do so - work out more, eat healthily, you'll soon be slim and attractive physically

you give good advice you probably forgot me you more realistic then rest
please write again soon.
you right some comments about bad traetement its true

 

[unlucky in life]

i am tomboy i find to dress like girl and were make up keep up to most shallow male mind since no one answering me
i,ll talk to my self .i am just not tall skinny big ****ed with good looking face thats make me in the wrong
because i don't conform to sample and as described on the back doll label
i don't have genetic to be gorgeous model or pretty.

i can't understand the male mind they say it simple what's simple about it they wants some thing they saw magazine cover or pop video
i just can't compete . i,d love to gorgeous like model and great body slim and big ****s like model since men so love and i have IQ of iassc newton and be Olympic athletic guess what i was not born that way .i am short fat ugly and old
it hard to improve genetic and bad treatment

 

[Chasm]

LoLoLoLoL
ok my bad
i just couldnt hold it in nemore
Lmao

 

[Nolife Princess]

sorry i am upset over a question do men only go for good looks and body ,tall and personality doesn't matter at all just pure eye candy

does personality count at all.



how do some one find like me find a guy who has no good looks and heavy and short ,old has no idea how manage dealing with men.


most guys i know don't like because i am not good looking tall slim like model
they just don't want to know even verbal abuse me and physical abuse because i that unattractive

i don't know any thing being girly

miss universe men seem to like women like them what the likes who is compete opposite

Personality..... yes personality!

 

[floffyschneeman]

i am tomboy i find to dress like girl and were make up keep up to most shallow male mind since no one answering me
i,ll talk to my self .i am just not tall skinny big ****ed with good looking face thats make me in the wrong
because i don't conform to sample and as described on the back doll label
i don't have genetic to be gorgeous model or pretty.

i can't understand the male mind they say it simple what's simple about it they wants some thing they saw magazine cover or pop video
i just can't compete . i,d love to gorgeous like model and great body slim and big ****s like model since men so love and i have IQ of iassc newton and be Olympic athletic guess what i was not born that way .i am short fat ugly and old
it hard to improve genetic and bad treatment

There are other women who aren't tall, skinny, or your typical girly girl pretty but they have partners, husbands, boyfriends. Maybe cos their personality and how they bring themselves make them sexy and appealing to guys who just can't resist them. There are also women who are drop dead gorgeous but could never find a guy who will stick with them for a long and healthy relationship. how would you explain those kinds of situations?

I think there is more to you than meets the eyes. You may not even be as ugly as you think. But if you can't see your beautiful sides and just focus on the things you think you lack, people can't see you for what you have either but for what you don't have. At the end of the day, no one can look like that girl on the magazine, even that girl on the magazine has her share of bad hair day, pimple days, oily skin, insecurities and all that **** which make all of us feel ugly. People know that and not everyone is shallow as you think. So just take care of yourself as best as you can and handle yourself as best as you can and people will start to see your own unique beauty.

 

[Bones]

personality > looks but i normally ended up with looks without the personality - only one person around 1990 had the looks and personality (and brains), but we broke up over religion; because at the time, I went to church on Saturday and she went on Sunday.

 

[unlucky in life]

i am tomboy i find to dress like girl and were make up keep up to most shallow male mind since no one answering me
i,ll talk to my self .i am just not tall skinny big ****ed with good looking face thats make me in the wrong
because i don't conform to sample and as described on the back doll label
i don't have genetic to be gorgeous model or pretty.

i can't understand the male mind they say it simple what's simple about it they wants some thing they saw magazine cover or pop video
i just can't compete . i,d love to gorgeous like model and great body slim and big ****s like model since men so love and i have IQ of iassc newton and be Olympic athletic guess what i was not born that way .i am short fat ugly and old
it hard to improve genetic and bad treatment

There are other women who aren't tall, skinny, or your typical girly girl pretty but they have partners, husbands, boyfriends. Maybe cos their personality and how they bring themselves make the sexy and appealing to guys who just can't resist them. There are also women who are drop dead gorgeous but could never find a guy who will stick with them for a long and healthy relationship. how would you explain those kinds of situations?

I think there is more to you than meets the eyes. You may not even be as ugly as you think. But if you can't see your beautiful sides and just focus on the things you think you lack, people can't see you for what you have either but for what you don't have. At the end of the day, no one can look like that girl on the magazine, even that girl on the magazine has her share of bad hair day, pimple days, oily skin, insecurities and all that **** which make all of us feel ugly. People know that and not everyone are shallow as you think. So just take care of yourself as best as you can and handle yourself as best as you can and people will start to see your own unique beauty.

there is some truth to that.but i know there some are that shallow and worse .the again models do get dumbed for normal girl am i right saying that . because they lack personality interests and sence of adventures out doors only some models are this some pure adventures.

when i look the mirror al i saw grey skin ,greasy hair ,dull eye,small lips
uneven cheeks one side is fatter then other i look like puffed out fish
size 18 non existent waist short chunky legs not much to look at even my personality rubbish .told so by one guy said my personalty sucked
kept abusing me by everu thing about me said old and cougar .that i was not worth knowing .
he said he like other women and not me it true he has no probably getting women to like i was old hag


There are other women who aren't tall, skinny, or your typical girly girl pretty but they have partners, husbands, boyfriends. Maybe cos their personality and how they bring themselves make the sexy and appealing to guys who just can't resist them. There are also women who are drop dead gorgeous but could never find a guy who will stick with them for a long and healthy relationship. how would you explain those kinds of situations?-But men wants these type of women who spend the day painting and filling there nails ,looking at the mirror.love acting sexy and get men attention is there mission in life even doing sexy videos and soft **** ,its like i don't know what them.weather acting airhead is being extremely smart we get fooled by this act men eat up like ice cream
Hollywood love these type of men because they know men will buy it
some men are extremely sexual minded that all they ever think in round of day is sexy women in the nude acting sexy its like they only one brain its not above the shoulders.they go after certain woman is very sexy and always acting sexy airhead that type of woman he wants only intertsed in do you see what i mean by theses type of men

 

[Badjedidude]

I find it amusing that this thread is still going.