looks or personality

[unlucky in life]

no.

nothing is simple when it comes to people.
i wish it was.
but mostely it just doesnt make much sense.

men are hostile towards some times for no reason because how i look and how i act .i get very hostile towards them because i don't trust them enough to not abuse mental or physical abuse it has happen to me offer i have never boyfriend and never had my 1st kiss .i am unattractive i act this because i am afraid they rotten to like Argentinian and men my pass have all really cruel i end up counselling over it for last 10 years .

men still hate me they very shallow i can compete with type competiton
men want younger women at age so i have no choice to be single now !
guys my age want younger women teens and 20s that me finished

 

[IgnoredOne]

So what were you doing in your teens and twenties?

 

[unlucky in life]

So what were you doing in your teens and twenties?

struggling to grades at collage i have only one friend in collage avoid more abuse from males since guys have rotten to me since i was 13 years old from there its all i have been getting i had no social life because i had no friends my entire life guys prefer my only friend to me she was blonde and skinny i was the fat brunette.guys did not like me at school or in collage.i did no actives out side collage becasue i get more abuse from males
i try nice to lot them to be told **** off .

the usually lines

any woman in this room but you

don't get wrong i like women just not you

i have better thing to do then to bother with like if you

do you what i mean

 

[paulo]

maybe you should stop looking for a man and start doing things that could make you happy.
there is more in life than dating and all that stuff.

 

[unlucky in life]

maybe you should stop looking for a man and start doing things that could make you happy.
there is more in life than dating and all that stuff.

i am tired of being single my entire life and it always good looking and fit women get boyfriend i end up on my own because i am not like
its not fair i did nothing yet they rejected me just leave me there like rubbish bag and told i was waste of time my entire after while a while its hard bare

 

[paulo]

yeah im tired of being single too.
and it may not be fair that it comes easy for others but thats not gonne stop me from living my life, finding things i like to do, learn stuff, try stuff.
improve myself where ever i can.

just sitting around bitching about it is onely gonne make people not like me.
and push them away.

some things are just not fair.

 

[IgnoredOne]

struggling to grades at collage i have only one friend in collage avoid more abuse from males since guys have rotten to me since i was 13 years old from there its all i have been getting i had no social life because i had no friends my entire life guys prefer my only friend to me she was blonde and skinny i was the fat brunette.guys did not like me at school or in collage.i did no actives out side collage becasue i get more abuse from males

So believing as you did that you weren't attractive because of your weight, did you do anything about it?

 

[unlucky in life]

struggling to grades at collage i have only one friend in collage avoid more abuse from males since guys have rotten to me since i was 13 years old from there its all i have been getting i had no social life because i had no friends my entire life guys prefer my only friend to me she was blonde and skinny i was the fat brunette.guys did not like me at school or in collage.i did no actives out side collage becasue i get more abuse from males

So believing as you did that you weren't attractive because of your weight, did you do anything about it?

its more then my weight it also my fat face its round and heavy .it also my bad experiences with men both young and older .i have no good experiences with men not one in my entire life .

i try losing weight i don't have motivation to do it any more like i used
its not like i don't care i just too many bad experiences lead to me to be sad and suicidal and deep depression .i end up trying to kill my self at 24 years old because i was alone and rejected nothing has changed for me
god hate me i never get lucky break never not once other people do who don't deserve it i have tried to make my life better believe i have i have end up in tears on ground crying my heart out with my eyes blood red from crying for days .

 

[TheSolitaryMan]

UIL, forget yourself for a moment.

What kind of guys are you looking at or trying to get with? Physical characteristics of them?

What sort of guy do you want? Be honest.

I think your answers may reveal a lot of the problem.

 

[unlucky in life]

UIL, forget yourself for a moment.

What kind of guys are you looking at or trying to get with? Physical characteristics of them?

What sort of guy do you want? Be honest.

I think your answers may reveal a lot of the problem.

well i can get on with who is a bit craic who is nice sweet GENUINE.
who in to sports who is easy going things in common with .have chemistry with .who not very shallow has level which realistic of real women and not made up dolly like model who does nothing.who makes me laugh and puts smile on my face. who listen to me ask my opinion won't tell take what to do what to were like most have guys done i don't buy in macho act at all.

i could few actors but most of them are to model i am real person not model or actress .i don't get paid to be magazines or runways or movies
i don't go vip parties i ,d be lucky to get invited to any party

does that help . because i am lost

 

[Bones]

...

its more then my weight it also my fat face its round and heavy .it also my bad experiences with men both young and older .i have no good experiences with men not one in my entire life .

i try losing weight i don't have motivation to do it any more like i used
its not like i don't care i just too many bad experiences lead to me to be sad and suicidal and deep depression .i end up trying to kill my self at 24 years old because i was alone and rejected nothing has changed for me
god hate me i never get lucky break never not once other people do who don't deserve it i have tried to make my life better believe i have i have end up in tears on ground crying my heart out with my eyes blood red from crying for days .

 

[zaphodity]

Personally it's a bit of both, looks and personality I prefer.

 

[unlucky in life]

i was wondering do men like this type of women and tell what you think of these women are acting well or bad so on
do men find these women attractive yee probably do but what about the personality is that attractive or off putting


i mostly talking about personality what do you think of there personality clever smart funny little airhead do you think rock rocket scientist
just tell what think of personality are type women would date give me idea

 

[Syber Tiger]

how i see it

looks is waht get the girl/boy, to you

the personality is that make the girl/boy, stay with you

 

[unlucky in life]

how i see it

looks is waht get the girl/boy, to you

the personality is that make the girl/boy, stay with you

but tell me do you think these exact women attracted you personality was and tell what you think of there personality are attractive or off puttng

 

[Syber Tiger]

well somegirls only go for men cuz the "hot"
some go for the prsonality cuz they want a meaning full relationship or something

and yes personality can over grown looks

well if your presonality is good and not a jerk
the girls will go for you...

i dont have looks or personality tho

 

[unlucky in life]

well somegirls only go for men cuz the "hot"
some go for the prsonality cuz they want a meaning full relationship or something

and yes personality can over grown looks

well if your presonality is good and not a jerk
the girls will go for you...

i dont have looks or personality tho

i am female and straight

i am wondering are these women men go for .

no matter what personality i have men don't like me then again i have been like treated like dirt by men entire life including my own father

 

[unlucky in life]

i am she and straight do men like sleazy women like this and who this stuff for money

 

[revanushka]

well somegirls only go for men cuz the "hot"
some go for the prsonality cuz they want a meaning full relationship or something

and yes personality can over grown looks

well if your presonality is good and not a jerk
the girls will go for you...

i dont have looks or personality tho

i am female and straight

i am wondering are these women men go for .

no matter what personality i have men don't like me then again i have been like treated like dirt by men entire life including my own father

Im sorry to hear that .Why dont you go out more, meet new people and try to be as friendly as possible.Both with men and women.Im sure not everyone will treat you as you say,dont be so negative..

 

[unlucky in life]

well somegirls only go for men cuz the "hot"
some go for the prsonality cuz they want a meaning full relationship or something

and yes personality can over grown looks

well if your presonality is good and not a jerk
the girls will go for you...

i dont have looks or personality tho

i am female and straight

i am wondering are these women men go for .

no matter what personality i have men don't like me then again i have been like treated like dirt by men entire life including my own father

Im sorry to hear that .Why dont you go out more, meet new people and try to be as friendly as possible.Both with men and women.Im sure not everyone will treat you as you say,dont be so negative..

sorry to hear what ?