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IgnoredOne said:
unlucky in life said:
so the actor added her friend does that he has more interested in her then friend i am just .i d say he fancies her what do you think

Assuming that he has a working set of balls, he fancies every single female he finds attractive in the frikking world.

oh .so he go after certain type well i know tall about 5ft6" to 5ft9" slim fit build attractive face long leg and its seem nice ass model face mus not forget the big ****s some how i am describing barbie
 
EveWasFramed said:
unlucky in life said:
nice ass model face ..

lol, Im sorry - I had to quote that. :p I laughed out loud, thanks Lucky! :D

good looking face and nice backside he seem to like to view there not much he doesn't like about women unless heavy and unattractive
 
UIL, please take what I say here to heart. I want to help you.

Men like physically attractive women, yes. HOWEVER...this does NOT mean that men expect their girlfriend or wife to be a photoshopped beauty queen like all those girls you keep linking.

There is a girl I fancied years ago who was considerably heavier than any of those "perfect" girls. She was not "fat", she was just a nice (and different) build to these skinny girls.

To be frank, she had a deliciously curvaceous chest and rear and a face that was really pretty to match. She once winked at me (I really should have asked her out :rolleyes: ) and I pretty much melted.

That's not to say another guy would have found her so pretty or attractive - different men have different tastes.

Now, this is the good part: if you're not happy with your physical image change it!

Your body is an organic form you can shape to your liking. It reflects your activities and what you do in your spare time. If you want to be slim and athletic like these girls you seem to consider so desirable, look into working out.

Within 8-9 months of hard work your body type will have changed or will be changing and you'll start to look "hot" to a lot of guys. I guarantee you that if you get a good plan and stick to it.

As a guy, I respect that women don't like men to have big spare tyres round their waists, so I've spent 8 months dropping several stone permanently.

I'm now training my muscles and hoping to drop another stone at least before I'm done. In the end, I should have a "hunky" body. It's something to aim for and improve on! I want to be physically desirable, and that requires hard work.

My body is mine to sculpt as I wish, which is something I'm only just realising. You should realise this too, and convert your negative opinions of your own appearance into a strength.

Please think about what I have to say before you reply in such a negative fashion. Thank you.
 
TheSolitaryMan said:
UIL, please take what I say here to heart. I want to help you.

Men like physically attractive women, yes. HOWEVER...this does NOT mean that men expect their girlfriend or wife to be a photoshopped beauty queen like all those girls you keep linking.

There is a girl I fancied years ago who was considerably heavier than any of those "perfect" girls. She was not "fat", she was just a nice (and different) build to these skinny girls.

To be frank, she had a deliciously curvaceous chest and rear and a face that was really pretty to match. She once winked at me (I really should have asked her out :rolleyes: ) and I pretty much melted.

That's not to say another guy would have found her so pretty or attractive - different men have different tastes.

Now, this is the good part: if you're not happy with your physical image change it!

Your body is an organic form you can shape to your liking. It reflects your activities and what you do in your spare time. If you want to be slim and athletic like these girls you seem to consider so desirable, look into working out.

Within 8-9 months of hard work your body type will have changed or will be changing and you'll start to look "hot" to a lot of guys. I guarantee you that if you get a good plan and stick to it.

As a guy, I respect that women don't like men to have big spare tyres round their waists, so I've spent 8 months dropping several stone permanently.

I'm now training my muscles and hoping to drop another stone at least before I'm done. In the end, I should have a "hunky" body. It's something to aim for and improve on! I want to be physically desirable, and that requires hard work.

My body is mine to sculpt as I wish, which is something I'm only just realising. You should realise this too, and convert your negative opinions of your own appearance into a strength.

Please think about what I have to say before you reply in such a negative fashion. Thank you.
weather i lose weight or not i am going to be abused any way .
the model she 5ft9" 24" waist 38c ****s with blonde hair blue eye actor saw her added her as friend because how she looked .went to trouble of it . i have trying to get boyfriend because all the guys i like were cruel verbal abused me even threading me . i choose guys who hate me that not going to change .like you man no matter what i look like i,ll get abused any way
 
Breakthrough!

You like "bad boys", even now you admit it. They're tall, muscular, and confident, which equals every girl's dream. And you complain that they prefer "swimsuit models", well duh, they're using you while they admire other women.

I find this thread quite ironic.
 
Ak5 said:
Breakthrough!

You like "bad boys", even now you admit it. They're tall, muscular, and confident, which equals every girl's dream. And you complain that they prefer "swimsuit models", well duh, they're using you while they admire other women.

I find this thread quite ironic.

I'm really not sure why girls seem to like them so much seeing as half the time they don't even seem to have those traits!

There is one in my class - quite short, really skinny (no muscles), crooked teeth. The only thing he has going is that he's really forward/crude and shouts a lot.

He always has a cute girl in his bed at the weekend...don't ask me why, I'm beyond understanding now XD

UIL>> the breakthrough is that you're going for the wrong guys. If you're trying to be attractive to shallow, horrible men they're not going to like you.

It's like going to a fast food joint and complaining that they don't serve hors d'oeuvres!

You say you want a guy who respects you - so why don't you go for a guy who has a nice personality? I'm talking about caring, loving, decent. You cannot expect to go for a guy on a purely physical basis and expect him to be a nice person.

And you can change your physique - you cannot change your personality without huge effort. So think about what is more important in a guy.

I get depressed at threads like these. It kinda proves I'd have more success with ladies just shedding another stone and being a **** as opposed to being myself as I am now :(
 
I imagine it's been mentioned before in this thread, but I'm going to beat the dead horse. Though, you're the one beating the dead horse. You have made how many threads about this EXACT same thing?

You seem to want a stereotypical and attractive man. Therefore, he is going to want the same in a woman. That apparently is not you. So quit trying.
Open your eyes to more people. Everyone wants someone, and there is sure to be someone out that that will like you IF: YOU CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE.
Stop whining that no one likes you. No one likes a whiner.
Men aren't just attracted to a woman physically or attracted to their personality. They're attracted to their outlook in life and their confidence. If you walk around thinking "I'm the ugliest turd that ever lived" then everyone will see the ugliest turd that ever lived.
Get some books on confidence and dating, get a therapist, and get over it.
 
TheSolitaryMan said:
Ak5 said:
Breakthrough!

You like "bad boys", even now you admit it. They're tall, muscular, and confident, which equals every girl's dream. And you complain that they prefer "swimsuit models", well duh, they're using you while they admire other women.

I find this thread quite ironic.

I'm really not sure why girls seem to like them so much seeing as half the time they don't even seem to have those traits!

There is one in my class - quite short, really skinny (no muscles), crooked teeth. The only thing he has going is that he's really forward/crude and shouts a lot.

He always has a cute girl in his bed at the weekend...don't ask me why, I'm beyond understanding now XD

UIL>> the breakthrough is that you're going for the wrong guys. If you're trying to be attractive to shallow, horrible men they're not going to like you.

It's like going to a fast food joint and complaining that they don't serve hors d'oeuvres!

You say you want a guy who respects you - so why don't you go for a guy who has a nice personality? I'm talking about caring, loving, decent. You cannot expect to go for a guy on a purely physical basis and expect him to be a nice person.

And you can change your physique - you cannot change your personality without huge effort. So think about what is more important in a guy.

I get depressed at threads like these. It kinda proves I'd have more success with ladies just shedding another stone and being a **** as opposed to being myself as I am now :(
what the guy who only model type what opinion of him i gave you his vital static about kind of woman he never mentioned personalty , intelligence interest in hobbies just vital stats he wanted woman
he got woman he wanted found added her got accepted he click her facebook like page so has only interested by the looks of it

title model carries seriously weight among s you lads
 
unlucky in life said:
what the guy who only model type what opinion of him i gave you his vital static about kind of woman he never mentioned personalty , intelligence interest in hobbies just vital stats he wanted woman
he got woman he wanted found added her got accepted he click her facebook like page so has only interested by the looks of it

title model carries seriously weight among s you lads

So what does this tell you about that guy? He's shallow and goes only for looks.

Do you want a guy like that? No? You should feel sorry for your friend instead of admire her, she's in a meaningless relationship based solely on physical attraction!

No, model does not carry weight with all of us. I would never date a girl just because she was a "model". Some maybe, but so what?

I'm sure some girls would trip over themselves to date a male model, what does that prove? Nothing.
 
TheSolitaryMan said:
unlucky in life said:
what the guy who only model type what opinion of him i gave you his vital static about kind of woman he never mentioned personalty , intelligence interest in hobbies just vital stats he wanted woman
he got woman he wanted found added her got accepted he click her facebook like page so has only interested by the looks of it

title model carries seriously weight among s you lads

So what does this tell you about that guy? He's shallow and goes only for looks.

Do you want a guy like that? No? You should feel sorry for your friend instead of admire her, she's in a meaningless relationship based solely on physical attraction!

No, model does not carry weight with all of us. I would never date a girl just because she was a "model". Some maybe, but so what?

I'm sure some girls would trip over themselves to date a male model, what does that prove? Nothing.
then he very physical guy but she still accepted him and he inch shorter then her .still its weird he never mention personality or smarts just physical traits ! he said sporty but i think he meant sporty physical
well he said movavted model are not movated only to make money they face and body
other then that nothing else very cut and dry
 
Maybe you haven't noticed but..

We don't care about this male model or his girlfriend, and neither should you. Nor do we care about his 'girlfriend' or what he finds attractive. I honestly don't give a damn. Neither should you.

I don't particularly care about whether a girl is a model or not, to be honest. Honestly, I liked J more for being a nursing student than for the occasionally modeling she did. Nurse carries far more weight :p

 
IgnoredOne said:
Maybe you haven't noticed but..

We don't care about this male model or his girlfriend, and neither should you. Nor do we care about his 'girlfriend' or what he finds attractive. I honestly don't give a damn. Neither should you.

i know but i am just wondering about him i don't think she is his girlfriend not that i have heard .he liked her enough to find her in net and add her as friend . one of photo she looks exactly like barbie skin tone every thing in similar clothes make up hair she like real life barbie

i don't know any thing about her there nothing mention in background where she was born and educated, collage uni ,hobbies , interests nothing but photos her age that about it .
 
For all you know, that might be the classic case of a guy getting interested in a girl initially because she's pretty. And maybe he is shallow. So what? He's not me, and I don't see how he either benefits me or harms you.

Likewise, he doesn't benefit you but he is harming you by your obsession with him. So stop hurting yourself and ignore him utterly. Do you care if blackbirds like someone or not?
 
IgnoredOne said:
Do you care if blackbirds like someone or not?

Soddin' blackbirds, always eyein' up my wimmin! It's a bird conspiracy I tells ya! :D
 
TheSolitaryMan said:
IgnoredOne said:
Do you care if blackbirds like someone or not?

Soddin' blackbirds, always eyein' up my wimmin! It's a bird conspiracy I tells ya! :D

how do i stop being abused then
counsellor told the reason i am being abused by guys is the fact i exist that i born so i am problem i do nothing guys there for i should treated like dirt
because i exist

any one
 
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