Merry Xmas from my girlfriend

[Lonesome Crow]

I know you wanna hit a home run
Or get a fucken eagle...
The damn head wind aint helping.lol

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Youre a grown man...do whatever you
Wanna do.
You don't need my permission or
Approval...

 

[TheSolitaryMan]

Putter,
You know that advice your getting
Are from kids in their 20s...that can't
Get dates, havnt been on first base,
Yet know how to steal second base.

**** they dont even swing the damn
bat...

I'm just going to cut straight to pointing out how laughable your sniping here is.

If it wasn't for situations in my private life that you have absolutely no understanding of whatsoever, I could get a date with ease. I could have sex, I could kiss. I have several options with different girls at present.

It's a conscious choice that I don't do that stuff - a choice that hurts me constantly, but a choice I make nonetheless because it's the only responsible thing to do.

Feel free to give Putter whatever advice you wish, but if you're going to insult posters like myself to inflate your ego, you can think again. Not everyone shares your shallow obsession with sex just because it's possible.

And since we're apparently taking cheap shots, I may be a "20 year old kid", but at least I type and think like an adult. Anyway, I'm done being pissed off, feel free to PM me if you want to discuss this properly.

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Putter, go with what you feel is right in your heart. It's not the decision of me, Crow, or anyone else to make but yourself.

If you genuinely, 100% feel like this woman is amazing and when you look in her eyes you see truth and sincerity, go ahead!

If you think she's manipulative, dodgy, or is not returning the emotional input you are giving, you have to decide if you're happy with the possibility that things might turn out bad.

Have confidence in yourself

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Im me....
When women plays with me
Theyre playing with fire...

Im also a switch hitter.lol
Ill hit her god damn curve balls
On her forehead.lmao

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Ill get under her skin oneway or
The other.lol

 

[putter65]

Putter,
You know that advice your getting
Are from kids in their 20s...that can't
Get dates, havnt been on first base,
Yet know how to steal second base.

**** they dont even swing the damn
bat...

I'm just going to cut straight to pointing out how laughable your sniping here is.

If it wasn't for situations in my private life that you have absolutely no understanding of whatsoever, I could get a date with ease. I could have sex, I could kiss. I have several options with different girls at present.

It's a conscious choice that I don't do that stuff - a choice that hurts me constantly, but a choice I make nonetheless because it's the only responsible thing to do.

Feel free to give Putter whatever advice you wish, but if you're going to insult posters like myself to inflate your ego, you can think again. Not everyone shares your shallow obsession with sex just because it's possible.

And since we're apparently taking cheap shots, I may be a "20 year old kid", but at least I type and think like an adult. Anyway, I'm done being pissed off, feel free to PM me if you want to discuss this properly.

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Putter, go with what you feel is right in your heart. It's not the decision of me, Crow, or anyone else to make but yourself.

If you genuinely, 100% feel like this woman is amazing and when you look in her eyes you see truth and sincerity, go ahead!

If you think she's manipulative, dodgy, or is not returning the emotional input you are giving, you have to decide if you're happy with the possibility that things might turn out bad.

Have confidence in yourself

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I am glad Monday is happening. It's a last shot at this thing. She must feel something for me because she agreed to the meeting. I have never thought she was great, I was never besotted or in love. She was always only 'allright' - lets see what happens. It can't do any harm !

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I know you wanna hit a home run
Or get a fucken eagle...
The damn head wind aint helping.lol

---

Youre a grown man...do whatever you
Wanna do.
You don't need my permission or
Approval...

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I went for coffee with this other woman on Boxing day. It just didn't feel right and it was all a bit boring. Another woman sent me a text asking me for a coffee and a catch up. I didn't bother replying, she let me down so many times last year, I have no intention of seeing her again.

I made the decision and asked my ex girlfriend to meet. She agreed and suggested a day. I know she is playing it cool (no texts etc) but I'm obviously still in the bad books. I miss the physical stuff. Having a woman in your arms is cool and I miss it.

If she's in an arsey mood then I won't bother with her again. And that includes all this texting crap.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

O rly....solitaryman.
I was minding my own
Bussiness....im always minding
My own business.lol

Out of all the seats that are available
And plenty of other dudes around...
She would just come and seat next
To me.lol
Whats interesting is...
Im wearimg shades and a baseball cap
To cover up myself so i dont draw attention to myself.

A complete stranger she was.
Drop dead gorgeous too.
I took het home to meet my parents too.lol
Then we spent two weeks together
As if we were on a honeymoon at a beach.
We had a great time...you name it.
I don't regret ot feel guilty aboit that
Why in the hell should i.
She needed me as much ss i needed her
At that time..for a while she and I
could escape whatever ******** in our lives...
HER FIANCEE AND MY WIFE....
IT WAS THE PERFECT HONEYMOON.

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Life and its twist and truns..
I can still remember her as
She remembers me....
Cuase it wasnt ordinary.
Good times for what it was.

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I SWANG AND HITTED A HOMERUN.

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Onetime, I met a couple at church.
Complete strangers. They even invited
Me to go hang out at their house.
Their daughter was standing to the side.
They introduced me to her. She was drop
Dead gorgeous too.
After she and i chatted...i asked her out
Rigth then and there.
Her mom gave me a hug even.lol
Her parents told us to have a greattime.
I made out with her that night.
I hitted a triple and stole home plate.lol

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Evidently, i wasnt afraid of her parents.
Evidently, i wasn't afraid of asking her out.
Evidently, i wasnt afraid of just reaching over
To kiss her. Evidently she likes it by making out
With me. Evidently she likes holding my hands
As i lead ber through public places.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Face to face stuff....
In real time, in the moment.
None of that buying gifts just to getat a kiss.
None of that making a profile or pretendiing
To be someone im not.
What she saw was what shr got.
In the moment, no over thinking
Ot trying to come up with the best answers.
In the moment going with tbe flow.

 

[putter65]

Just don't let her crush you.

No she won't. I can't see what else she can do. I don't think I will feel as bad as I did. A co worker said today 'don't let her hurt you again' - people care. I must have told 10 people at work, they show an interest. Nobody defended her or said I had over reacted. They all thought it was disgusting.

Yet she is acting like I am 100% in the wrong and she did nothing wrong. She hasn't added me back onto her Facebook (I asked her too) and she hasn't sent me a text unless it's a reply to mine. I haven't contacted her today. Is she stewing over me ? Or has she forgotton about me ? I have no way of knowing.

She did agree to meet me though. She didn't have to do that. I wish I knew more women. Then this woman wouldn't be in my head at all. I send messages on facebook and people reply but if I leave it then I don't usually hear from them. People like to be polite and they send friendly messages back. But the point is it is me who sends them all the time.

Anyway I will send this woman a text tommorrow night and try and arrange Monday. If she doesn't answer then I swear to ******* god, I won't bother with her again.

What is worrying me is without this woman, my mobile won't go off. I went a year once spending £5 on topups. No messages, nobody wanted my number, I have 26 friends on facebook. Nobody sends messages. It's all pretty depressing. What I liked was 'having someone' - she would send me a text asking me about my golf or my work. I liked that and that is what I miss. For once in my life I had someone and it was a nice feeling !

 

[Anten]

If this date happens you need to just end it with her because she has all the power in the relationship and she knows it. After the date say you had a nice time and don't push for a kiss or hug then not contact her until she contacts you. It seems like a **** move but really get out while you are ahead and it shows her that you aren't going to be her lap dog.

 

[putter65]

If this date happens you need to just end it with her because she has all the power in the relationship and she knows it. After the date say you had a nice time and don't push for a kiss or hug then not contact her until she contacts you. It seems like a **** move but really get out while you are ahead and it shows her that you aren't going to be her lap dog.

I'm trying to do that. I haven't contacted her today, all those chit chat texts seem a waste of time.

It all depends on her attitude on Monday. If she is an arse then that's it. Last time I saw her she did warm up alot and saying 'take care' and all that. Her last text is so cold though and matter of fact. It says ' We can meet up by all means, maybe on Monday during the day' - Nothing else. Not heard from her since. She might think she has me wrapped around her little finger but she hasn't. If she has an attitude on Monday then that's it - I won't bother with her again. She as to be friendly.

She either couldn't care less about me or is playing hard to get back. Monday will tell me.

Ps I bloody bored so that's why I'm typing this **** ! lol

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Well...shes given to you for
What its worth.
So i don't understand what the problem
Is....other than you want mote from her.

If the text message shes sending you
turns you on...then keep texting her
and play with her.

You got your morals...
She has her VAULES.

 

[putter65]

Well...shes given to you for
What its worth.
So i don't understand what the problem
Is....other than you want mote from her.

If the text message shes sending you
turns you on...then keep texting her
and play with her.

You got your morals...
She has her VAULES.

She used to send loads of texts, all sorts of crap, feeding the kids, having a bath etc; crap like that. And we used to put X in our texts.

But it's very matter of fact now.

Anyway it's Saturday night and I'm at home bored out of my skull, no energy to do anything. Getting up at 4.45am doesn't help.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

I mean what is it that you have
In value that you have to give her.

And how are you communicate to
Her what you have is of value
To her?
Kissing her might be worth a million
Bucks to you. So you exchange a
Million bucks for her kiss.

Your companionship might be
Of value...
So how are you convincing her
how much your worth?

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See...my fiance is worth more
Than the world to me...
So i have to give up whatever
To be with her or give her whatever...

Im worth a lot to her too...
So whatever price shes willing
To pay to be with me.

 

[putter65]

I mean what is it that you have
In value that you have to give her.

And how are you communicate to
Her what you have is of value
To her?
Kissing her might be worth a million
Bucks to you. So you exchange a
Million bucks for her kiss.

Your companionship might be
Of value...
So how are you convincing her
how much your worth?

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See...my fiance is worth more
Than the world to me...
So i have to give up whatever
To be with her or give her whatever...

Im worth a lot to her too...
So whatever price shes willing
To pay to be with me.

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I'm not going to jump thru hoops to be with her. She isn't worth it. She said I was too possesive anyway. I said everything I wanted in a text, I've deleted it because it's embarrassing. It stunk of ********, she lied to me remember ?

All I get back is 'yeah we can meet on Monday' - any other bloke would have ****** off ages ago. I have been so patient with her. This is the final straw, her last chance.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Evidently she still have some value for you.
So you pay with patients...

Evidently i vaule my fiance very much.
I tolerate her flaws in exchange for her love for
Me.

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My payoff is out of this world....
Grandslamm payoffs.lol

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She also value my love for her very much.
Im not a rich man...so theres many
things i have as a person that is of
Value to her...its not all about me.

 

[putter65]

Not seeing her tommorrow. I sent a text asking her and she replied. She said her mother in law is in hospital so she hasn't got time. I sent her a text and said I understood, told her to get in touch if she ever wants to see me and let me know if she wants me to stop contacting her.

I will put her on the back burner now. Maybe send her a text a week or something like that. Let her come to me.

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Not seeing her tommorrow. I sent a text asking her and she replied. She said her mother in law is in hospital so she hasn't got time. I sent her a text and said I understood, told her to get in touch if she ever wants to see me and let me know if she wants me to stop contacting her.

I will put her on the back burner now. Maybe send her a text a week or something like that. Let her come to me.

She's on about keeping in touch and seemed quite apologetic about not seeing me on Monday.

I suppose I should get on with things now and try and make new friends.

 

[Anten]

Not saying she is lying but she has told you a lie to get you out of her hair. Why does she care so much about a mother in law that isn't hers, unless that is a term for step mom?

 

[kamya]

She's on about keeping in touch because she's an attention whore. Plain and simple. Don't plan on ever having her follow up about "meeting". She just wants to see if you are still interested in her. That's all it is dood. Nothing but an ego boost for her. :/

And like Anten said, how does she have a "mother in-law"? She's not married right?

 

[putter65]

She's on about keeping in touch because she's an attention whore. Plain and simple. Don't plan on ever having her follow up about "meeting". She just wants to see if you are still interested in her. That's all it is dood. Nothing but an ego boost for her. :/

And like Anten said, how does she have a "mother in-law"? She's not married right?

Yes she is married still, her husband walked out on her in the summer and she wont divorce him.

The penny has finally dropped, thats the trouble with me, I cling on to people. I sent her texts yesterday and wrote crap about how much I liked her blah, I was testing to see if I got anything back from her. Got texts back but no warmth, cold as ice, very matter of fact. 'by all means we will keep in touch' - that's what I get.

Well **** it and **** her. I wont be sending her anymore texts. Balls to it ! - time to move on.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Putter,
U no im 45...
Tracy was 29. A lot worst than this women.
We had an all out fight for 3 days. I told her off and all kinds
Of stuff. She kept calling me back.hahahaaa
For 3 days....she had to be right.lmao( hint)
I totally pissef het off and then some.
But she would always text me back...

I actually made her walk a mile.lol
She actaully started buying dinner.
No matter how pissed off she was at
Me. She actually got off work. Came
To see me....didnt say a word.
Looked me in the eyes for a sec.
then walked away, just so she can
See me.
I uesed to tell her " youre in chr

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Ur in check...
It was like a chess game for us.
It turned her on...because she
Wanted to have me around her
Fingers...but she was also attached to me...
Every 72 hours or sooner, i tapped her.
Id take het clothe shoping all
The time.25 dallors outfits
here and there, not a big deal.
She would actually play dress up
Or give me a fashion show.
Shes a girl.lol
but she had to see me everyday
No matter what after a while,
No mattet how angery she was at me..

 

[putter65]

Putter,
U no im 45...
Tracy was 29. A lot worst than this women.
We had an all out fight for 3 days. I told her off and all kinds
Of stuff. She kept calling me back.hahahaaa
For 3 days....she had to be right.lmao( hint)
I totally pissef het off and then some.
But she would always text me back...

I actually made her walk a mile.lol
She actaully started buying dinner.
No matter how pissed off she was at
Me. She actually got off work. Came
To see me....didnt say a word.
Looked me in the eyes for a sec.
then walked away, just so she can
See me.
I uesed to tell her " youre in chr

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Ur in check...
It was like a chess game for us.
It turned her on...because she
Wanted to have me around her
Fingers...but she was also attached to me...
Every 72 hours or sooner, i tapped her.
Id take het clothe shoping all
The time.25 dallors outfits
here and there, not a big deal.
She would actually play dress up
Or give me a fashion show.
Shes a girl.lol
but she had to see me everyday
No matter what after a while,
No mattet how angery she was at me..

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I'm not sure I get what you mean.

I've showered this woman with compliments in the last few days and she is still cold and not bothered. I'm not going to carry on. I will not text her this week (or ever).

If she comes back then I will decide what to do.