Merry Xmas from my girlfriend

[Lonesome Crow]

It was a game of wit. A sort
Of chess game.
She was testing my intelligence.
It turn het on. She was a manipulator...that was a given.
When i make a wrong move,
she made me paid.
We she messes up...id let her have
It.

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She value my wit.
And the game we were playing.

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Just like a game of golf
But the payoff were in sexual
Matters..

Most guys would say i wss treating her bad...
Remember shes a manipulator..
I became a challenge for het.

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Even on the clothe shopping spreads...
Most people would say she was using me...

The truth of the matter is...most guys
Hate shopping, especially clothe shoping
With their woman...
She value that. She value my presence
with her...not so much the clothe
Be she dosnt even wear half of what
She purchased..shes a girl.

 

[putter65]

The mutual friend and her next door neighbour (the one who set me up with her) sent me a series of texts this morning begging me not to have anything more to do with her. I had to assure her three times in text messages that I won't be contacting her again. And I don't think she will text me because she is acting like she doesn't give a ****.

 

[jjam]

I don't know, man. I know someone who pretty much never initiates contact with me but seems happy to hear from me or see me whenever that happens. I used to think just what you're thinking, especially considering we live in the same neck of the woods and hadn't long exchanged numbers, but then I considered that maybe that's just the way she is. To be honest, I don't really enjoy phone conversations often. I can remember a woman here posting that she NEVER contacted her boyfriends, or guys looking to be involved with, by phone.

Heck, I have friends over long distances that I'm not in touch with often, though I do send messages once in a while. Does that make me a bit flaky that I don't call? Does it mean I don't give a ****? I absolutely do. I can say absolutely that there's at least one person I know that I think of frequently but might call once a year.

 

[putter65]

She used to always send me text messages and invite me places like her house. It wasn't me texting and her replying, it was never that.

Since the chat we had last Tuesday, she hasn't sent me a text, she has only replied to mine.

I could send a text a week but what would be the point ?
She hasn't made much effort winning me back, she sounds like she doesn't give a ****.

 

[Sci-Fi]

She's a bad penny that's for sure. Forget about her, she's still married, won't divorce her husband, wtf? Move on, best thing for you to do.

 

[putter65]

She's a bad penny that's for sure. Forget about her, she's still married, won't divorce her husband, wtf? Move on, best thing for you to do.

Yes thats the best thing to do.

What positives can I get from this ?

First real girlfriend at 43 and she turns out to be a lying cheat.

 

[Anten]

You let your desperation get the best of you. She also seems to still be hooked on her husband who left her and using you and that other guy to fill the void.

 

[putter65]

You let your desperation get the best of you. She also seems to still be hooked on her husband who left her and using you and that other guy to fill the void.

I've just got a long text from her. She complaining about been down. I answered out of politeness. I didn't say much, just friendly chit chat.

It's something I'm finding, you bombard women with texts and they hardly reply. If you leave it then they send you one.

It is just not in me to ignore her or be horrible to someone. (Even though they have been horrible to me)

Who's going to bet that she's inviting down to her house next week for coffee ?

 

[TheSolitaryMan]

It's something I'm finding, you bombard women with texts and they hardly reply. If you leave it then they send you one.

This is what you've got to avoid falling into - she's not like most "women". Most women give you as much in return as you put in with effort, at least in a healthy relationship.

She is, as you said, a lying cheat. She's not going to behave in a way that typical women would.

At least you see it now though, that's the positive

Using the behavioural patterns you have experienced here, you should be able to use common sense to help weed out future girls like this in future.

 

[Anten]

It is just not in me to ignore her or be horrible to someone. (Even though they have been horrible to me)

You just need to stick up for yourself. You don't have to be a **** just set boundaries and stick with them.

 

[putter65]

It is just not in me to ignore her or be horrible to someone. (Even though they have been horrible to me)

You just need to stick up for yourself. You don't have to be a **** just set boundaries and stick with them.

I swapped aload of texts with her. It was just fun stuff, banter like before. I didn't mention seeing her or anything. I did say that I'm feeling good at the moment and going to enjoy my week off playing golf and going to the cinema.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Adjusr your sails to the wind.

Pilots condtantly adjust the trim
To the air craft theyre flying...

Just keep at it PUTTER.
JUST KEEP TALKING TO HER....
LIKE I SAY...BUNT IF YOU HAVE TOO.
INTERACT WIYH HER for As long as
You want..

Stop talking to her when you want.

Its all good...if youre having fun...
its all good.

If you feel ike ****..its all good too

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I did that with Tracy for almost a year.
Then Renae called me...

Tracy wasnt angery at me...
I kicked to the curb.lol
She ****** the living **** out me
And pull out all her moves trying
To change my mind..
She also told me, if i could put up with her, i could put up with anyone.

Errr...Renae is a hundred times
Bettet in bed than Tracy...
Renae drives me a hundred times
Crazier than Tracy too. Hahaaa

 

[putter65]

Adjusr your sails to the wind.

Pilots condtantly adjust the trim
To the air craft theyre flying...

Just keep at it PUTTER.
JUST KEEP TALKING TO HER....
LIKE I SAY...BUNT IF YOU HAVE TOO.
INTERACT WIYH HER for As long as
You want..

Stop talking to her when you want.

Its all good...if youre having fun...
its all good.

If you feel ike ****..its all good too

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I did that with Tracy for almost a year.
Then Renae called me...

Tracy wasnt angery at me...
I kicked to the curb.lol
She ****** the living **** out me
And pull out all her moves trying
To change my mind..
She also told me, if i could put up with her, i could put up with anyone.

Errr...Renae is a hundred times
Bettet in bed than Tracy...
Renae drives me a hundred times
Crazier than Tracy too. Hahaaa

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what is a bunt ?

Is it a block in baseball ?

It is getting more fun, doesn't seem such a big deal to me. I am getting back to my normal self which is happy.

 

[Anten]

Bunt: instead of swinging the bat at the ball you just kinda stick it out and let the ball bounce off the bat.

 

[Sci-Fi]

...hmm...I'm not going to touch that one, I don't think there is any need to.

 

[putter65]

Bunt: instead of swinging the bat at the ball you just kinda stick it out and let the ball bounce off the bat.

We play cricket in England.

A bunt sounds like a forward defensive shot !

 

[TheSolitaryMan]

Bunt: instead of swinging the bat at the ball you just kinda stick it out and let the ball bounce off the bat.

We play cricket in England.

A bunt sounds like a forward defensive shot !

I have to say, as a fellow Brit I find all these bizarre sporting euphemisms and slang terms so odd!

I mean, why not just say "I kissed a girl" instead of "I got to first base last night and spoke to the coach, but he told me chewing gum was bad for my sporting career. I also gotta get new running shoes. Catch me drift, guv'nor?"

(Okay, Americans don't talk in London Cockney accents and it isn't that confusing, but I still don't see why people seem to use that sort of analogy so widely when it's not really clear and easy to relate to...)

 

[putter65]

Bunt: instead of swinging the bat at the ball you just kinda stick it out and let the ball bounce off the bat.

We play cricket in England.

A bunt sounds like a forward defensive shot !

I have to say, as a fellow Brit I find all these bizarre sporting euphemisms and slang terms so odd!

I mean, why not just say "I kissed a girl" instead of "I got to first base last night and spoke to the coach, but he told me chewing gum was bad for my sporting career. I also gotta get new running shoes. Catch me drift, guv'nor?"

(Okay, Americans don't talk in London Cockney accents and it isn't that confusing, but I still don't see why people seem to use that sort of analogy so widely when it's not really clear and easy to relate to...)

You've just told me what 'getting to first base' means. I had no idea. lol !

Not heard from her today, quite pleased to be honest.

I know a few women on my facebook (I used to work with one in particular, always thought she was nice) - but she never bothers with me. I sometimes send her messages and she replies but not heard from her for awhile. It's a gut instinct I have that women aren't interested in me. And I am usually right.

 

[Anten]

putter65, crow is from the states so I assumed he was talking about baseball.

TheSolitaryMan, Americans just love their sports euphemisms because it makes you sound witty.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

I tolerate alot of my fiancee stuff
Is because i love her.
Sometimes shes a bit extreem,
Shes not walking all over me.
Theres really no boundaries between
Her and i. We live together. We have
Sex all the time and more than most
Couples. She never use sex as a weapon
Towards me.

At sametime our relationship and lives
Are from most people.

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Most guys would have ran from her
Brcuase of the negatives impacs
Of the things dhat she dose.
She dosnt hurt me on purposes or with intent.
She actually hurts herself morr than anyone.

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Plenty of people had given me their
Two cents...Most people would adviceed
Me not to be with her.

Im 45 yrs old.
Im going to do what im going to do.
Im in love with her, infatuated with
her,iin lust witj her...etc etc.
It still remains....i do what i am going to
Do...
This is how i can relate to putter.

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Im different from putter in this way.
I left 3 different women to be with
My fiancee. JUST within this past
Year.
Most people would think im crazy
Becuase some people in my life
Knkws the women i left to be with
My fiancee are prettier, nicer and
With less problems then my fiancee.

I dont love those three other women.
I love Renae.Her name is also SASSY.