putter65 said:
Yes your right (that she was always seeing other men) and I took our relationship too seriously. I should have let her get on with fake xmas holiday. It wasn't like I was in love with her or anything. And we didn't sleep together. I'm learning about dating in my 40's. How crazy is that ?
I know Crow is saying this is all part of the dating game but at best this chick is really immature if she is playing this game at her age. If a chick likes you she won't lie to you and say she went on holiday when she is out with another guy. She can also be making up for lost time because of her marriage ending and this is a really volatile point in her life. I had a friend who had gotten divorced and once that happen he just became a man whore.
putter65 said:
I was always in two minds with her anyway. Questioning whether I wanted to see her. I'm like that now. I do like texts though, just makes me happy someone is thinking about me.
She just seems to want attention and when you don't give it she plays nice with you. If you want to continue with her "cat and mouse" the best luck to you.