need male view on looks

[Lonesome Crow]

Love starvations sucks.

I also see a part of you
That will not settle for less.
To not be used and abused
By men. Which is very
Positive and healthy.

The pains you feel are true.

Yes, its true. All my duaghters are modles types.
They have men chasing them by the hundreds
To thousands. They do get more offers and
Opportunities thrown at fhem than you do.
Even if i tell you my daughters lives are not
easy without problems...it still wont solveu
Your challenges or troubles.

You're right life is unfair.

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I wouldn't even know where to bebin
Or solve your troubles.

I do see you trying and havnt
given up by the many threads
And reponses.

Im very sorry life have been cruel and unfair to you.
You have so much love to give and wants to come
Out of you.

 

[floffyschneeman]

I don't understand why people say they don't like stereotypes yet almost always see people by stereotypes. We're living in the real world and people are not characters in movies or books. A girl who dresses girly may not necessarily be the bitchy girl. A girl who dresses girly may sometimes be a tomboyish girl as well. If we don't want people to just see the way we dress, the things we like, the choices we make and other superficial things about us but instead see us as the persons we are, we should also stop looking at people by just the tiny things they do. We are human beings, we're not just the books/movies/songs we like, or the dress we choose to wear, but we are multi-dimensional people who are capable of being anything and everything we want to be.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

You're also right, I wouldn't even notice
You or pay attention to you if I saw you
Walking down street.
I see many women with simular features
as yours. Im not mean or criel.
My rejections of you hurts you just the same.

You're also right. I see many women
That are fat or overwight in abusive
Relationships. Your smart to not
Do that.

I also see women with features
Like yours in loving relationships.
Wish somehow you can talk or meet
Those women so that you may kearn
From them to how they found a loving
Man that chirsh them.

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I understand the desire to love and be loved.
Ive gotten myself in toxic relationships mAny times
Becusse of the desperations.
Youre not as desperate as me
thats for sure. Your more sane
than me.

Your right, im in a relationship
With a pretty woman. Shes totally insane..but
She love me very much.
Were made for each other...i suppose.

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It takes a bitch like her to love a bssturd like me.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Yes, my fiance and I are multi dimensions
people.
Renae can be the most loving, caring, understand
And nice as any loving person thst ever walked
this esrth.
Shes also capible of being a stone cold heartless
bitch.
She capotalize on her god given beauty or
I can write it like this...
Shes a shallow bitch.
Whatever your perceptions ate of her.

 

[unlucky in life]

there is other stuff too connect with how some one looks and treated as i explain here

yeah well that my problem with no solution to it .i don't even confidence because a lot of guys have destroyed my confidence even ability to try.
men go on looks i have none so i end up alone. people feel sorry for me for it because i don't know any one else in the world who has rejection problem
one counsellor it was most unusually problem very strange and for so long .it makes me cry and sad i am angry due to verbal abuse and physical abuse men have given me .but they won't do it it other women only me.

when you born ugly looking and fat it bring on hated and verbal abuse from men in ways you can not imaging and pain i feel inside its feel bit like knife stab to heart its feel real some times i be on knees in tears over the pain men have done to me with out mercy.

there one guy on Facebook he was very cruel and nasty i never meet is play head games he blocking me and unblocking for last few months on and off but never adds me which very strange behaviour

i don't what wrong me beside my physical that bring on cruel abuse and threats and lied to as well pure hated towards pure hatred i feel in there voice and words

all i get is we don't want you nor give you chance they don't either give me 2nd chance

 

[IgnoredOne]

i don't what wrong me beside my physical that bring on cruel abuse and threats and lied to as well pure hated towards pure hatred i feel in there voice and words

all i get is we don't want you nor give you chance they don't either give me 2nd chance

In all honesty, its your method of communcation more than anything. You always get angry when we bring it up, but I feel that the way you write - and possibly the way you speak, is more than slightly frustrating and anything else only aggravates the original issue. Being able to speak English fluently would do well to help you on so many levels.

 

[unlucky in life]

i don't what wrong me beside my physical that bring on cruel abuse and threats and lied to as well pure hated towards pure hatred i feel in there voice and words

all i get is we don't want you nor give you chance they don't either give me 2nd chance

In all honesty, its your method of communcation more than anything. You always get angry when we bring it up, but I feel that the way you write - and possibly the way you speak, is more than slightly frustrating and anything else only aggravates the original issue. Being able to speak English fluently would do well to help you on so many levels.

my englisih fluent right !

 

[IgnoredOne]

Is not.

 

[unlucky in life]

Is not.

i am NOT arguing with over trivial ********. because i am NOT intertsed i am talking about serious problem you like to talk language find linguist to talk to,

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can one else help me with problem some are no help only talking crap with has nothing with my ever current problem

 

[Lonesome Crow]

I can comprehend you fine. You write or phrase as if you are speaking. Youll leave out words every so often. Your past tense, ptesent tense, and future tense are incorrect
Sometimes. English is backwards to many other languages.

You are right. We're not an English class.
My girls text me usimg vsroous method
And codes. I simply pnly have to slow down
and decifer their messages.
In this day amd age, if anyone dosnt
Comprehend you, they are a bit slow.

You are right, people will use your way
Of cummunicating to bully you.

The bullyimg is what you want to
Discuss not proper grammar.

I also believe you have many other skill
And talent you wish to share with people.
No one listens or actailly really hear you.

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You ate correct.

A pretty girl with improper grammar
Wont get treated as badly or poorly
As you have been treated.

 

[unlucky in life]

I can comprehend you fine. You write or phrase as if you are speaking. Youll leave out words every so often. Your past tense, ptesent tense, and future tense are incorrect
Sometimes. English is backwards to many other languages.

You are right. We're not an English class.
My girls text me usimg vsroous method
And codes. I simply pnly have to slow down
and decifer their messages.
In this day amd age, if anyone dosnt
Comprehend you, they are a bit slow.

You are right, people will use your way
Of cummunicating to bully you.

The bullyimg is what you want to
Discuss not proper grammar.

I also believe you have many other skill
And talent you wish to share with people.
No one listens or actailly really hear you.

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You ate correct.

A pretty girl with improper grammar
Wont get treated as badly or poorly
As you have been treated.

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yes its not English class but some times i miss words in sentence when people talk to me i only hear the 1st part or the last part of sentence
i can't really help it.

but does not help me with my orgainl problem in page 6 or else 7

 

[Lonesome Crow]

I can only share with you my experience
Of being bullied,hated,and discriminated.
I'll try to take gender out of the equation.

I had to start loving myself.
Accept and love my body.
Focus on my positive qualities or talents.
Captilize on my assets.
Shift my focus to what is good about me.
Some of the things i had to do.

I also started to have positive dialog
With myself.
I stopped beating up on myself, pleny
Of people standing in line to put me
Down....i need not be one of them too.

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I understand. Some people on this site
Throws it in my face...

Im getting better at telling slow ass *******
To **** off in a nice way.hahahaaa

 

[unlucky in life]

ok has any one has more views on it. there is guys who only after good looking women for sex i am not know i am not woman
do they get better treatment because there looks ,is uglier you are the worse you get treated since more too shallow

ugly looking = bad treatment
good looking =very good treatment

 

[kamya]

Yeah good looking people get treated better than ugly people. It's not even a conscious thing for most people. It sucks but you either make yourself more attractive or figure out how to deal with it.

 

[unlucky in life]

Yeah good looking people get treated better than ugly people. It's not even a conscious thing for most people. It sucks but you either make yourself more attractive or figure out how to deal with it.

little help please just small bit

i have dealing with since i was 6 years and getting no better it worse it getting. when you ugly looking and fat and no body is bother is interested you'd very alone isolated unwanted and unloved even insulted in the cruelest way . i meet on a web site he was incredible shallow he think women are only sex objects for pleasure nothing more ,so i told him i would no longer talk to him any more i had enough his shallow hard boiled out look to women no more then play things for him .what do think of that type of guy waste of space yes i think so


men are so shallow if you don't look like model or movie star they not intersted full stop how i look and my age and weight have inflect some pretty harsh abuse that i have ended in number counsellors over even suicidal over it that i am such reject have suffered because i how look id be in my room crying my eyes feeling very low i have very slow esteem due to cruel harsh abuse both physical and verbal abuse

i know looks are important but i don't have any all i have being abused by males they harsh cruel remarks have made serious impact on me on how deal with men if they hostile so will i .

i hate my self i so hate my self i always will.guy the called me cougar i saw him kissing blonde girl in photo he not one bit shy not one bit .he did n't care one bit he called me names drop me like rock

 

[unlucky in life]

please anwer me please help me i am so very upset men hate me very guys who hate all have women who like them i am hated
my entire life i am hated i am hated i will always be hated and treated badly

 

[unlucky in life]

no body wanst to talk to me i am used to that .

 

[kamya]

Yeah good looking people get treated better than ugly people. It's not even a conscious thing for most people. It sucks but you either make yourself more attractive or figure out how to deal with it.

little help please just small bit

i have dealing with since i was 6 years and getting no better it worse it getting. when you ugly looking and fat and no body is bother is interested you'd very alone isolated unwanted and unloved even insulted in the cruelest way . i meet on a web site he was incredible shallow he think women are only sex objects for pleasure nothing more ,so i told him i would no longer talk to him any more i had enough his shallow hard boiled out look to women no more then play things for him .what do think of that type of guy waste of space yes i think so


men are so shallow if you don't look like model or movie star they not intersted full stop how i look and my age and weight have inflect some pretty harsh abuse that i have ended in number counsellors over even suicidal over it that i am such reject have suffered because i how look id be in my room crying my eyes feeling very low i have very slow esteem due to cruel harsh abuse both physical and verbal abuse

i know looks are important but i don't have any all i have being abused by males they harsh cruel remarks have made serious impact on me on how deal with men if they hostile so will i .

i hate my self i so hate my self i always will.guy the called me cougar i saw him kissing blonde girl in photo he not one bit shy not one bit .he did n't care one bit he called me names drop me like rock

If you are tired of dealing with it then make yourself more attractive :/

 

[unlucky in life]

Yeah good looking people get treated better than ugly people. It's not even a conscious thing for most people. It sucks but you either make yourself more attractive or figure out how to deal with it.

little help please just small bit

i have dealing with since i was 6 years and getting no better it worse it getting. when you ugly looking and fat and no body is bother is interested you'd very alone isolated unwanted and unloved even insulted in the cruelest way . i meet on a web site he was incredible shallow he think women are only sex objects for pleasure nothing more ,so i told him i would no longer talk to him any more i had enough his shallow hard boiled out look to women no more then play things for him .what do think of that type of guy waste of space yes i think so


men are so shallow if you don't look like model or movie star they not intersted full stop how i look and my age and weight have inflect some pretty harsh abuse that i have ended in number counsellors over even suicidal over it that i am such reject have suffered because i how look id be in my room crying my eyes feeling very low i have very slow esteem due to cruel harsh abuse both physical and verbal abuse

i know looks are important but i don't have any all i have being abused by males they harsh cruel remarks have made serious impact on me on how deal with men if they hostile so will i .

i hate my self i so hate my self i always will.guy the called me cougar i saw him kissing blonde girl in photo he not one bit shy not one bit .he did n't care one bit he called me names drop me like rock

If you are tired of dealing with it then make yourself more attractive :/

i try but will it make any different? men hate me any way
one guy to me year ago this
"don't get me wrong i like women just not you" he said to me

women love becasue good looking tall fit tanned pearl white teeth

 

[TheSolitaryMan]

UIL, don't use other people to judge yourself.

You stick to what you think is right and what you want.

What do you want from a man? Companionship? Sexual intimacy? I'm interested, because I think your desires may be shaping your views.

Also, physical attributes have absolutely no bearing on what someone is like as a person. Pearly teeth, tall, fit...it doesn't mean someone isn't an unpleasant S.O.B. that isn't worth knowing.