TheRealCallie
Princess Pink Love
Richard_39 said:I think y'all are nuts.
In the meantime, I'm starving. Bring me some tacos.
OH OH OH, can I be a COCOnut? :O
Get your own damn tacos :club:
Richard_39 said:I think y'all are nuts.
In the meantime, I'm starving. Bring me some tacos.
kamya said:I think it's more a lack of empathy and "choosing" to not understand =p You forgot that reason.
Xpendable said:get hit by a car and can't walk again, being positive is the same as using your legs like before.
Xpendable said:The power of the things you can't control is greater than how you react to them.
Xpendable said:The power of the things you can't control is greater than how you react to them.
kaetic said:Xpendable said:The power of the things you can't control is greater than how you react to them.
I don't know your life. It probably does feel this way to you. But this statement kind of makes me worried for you. Not about dating... Bc who knows anything for sure about that? But if you feel like your efforts are all wasted, like hitting up against a brick wall... Then you probably don't just feel that way about dating. I hope you have someone irl you can talk to about this.
TheRealCallie said:Xpendable said:get hit by a car and can't walk again, being positive is the same as using your legs like before.
I know someone who was blown up in war. He lost a leg. It hasn't stopped him from doing anything he wants to do. And now he helps others who are hurt in the armed forces. Yes, his entire life changed, but he made and is still making the most of it.
IT IS A CHOICE.
Xpendable said:You're not supposed to put "but" after a period.
Xpendable said:kaetic said:Xpendable said:The power of the things you can't control is greater than how you react to them.
I don't know your life. It probably does feel this way to you. But this statement kind of makes me worried for you. Not about dating... Bc who knows anything for sure about that? But if you feel like your efforts are all wasted, like hitting up against a brick wall... Then you probably don't just feel that way about dating. I hope you have someone irl you can talk to about this.
You're not supposed to put "but" after a period.
TheRealCallie said:Xpendable said:get hit by a car and can't walk again, being positive is the same as using your legs like before.
I know someone who was blown up in war. He lost a leg. It hasn't stopped him from doing anything he wants to do. And now he helps others who are hurt in the armed forces. Yes, his entire life changed, but he made and is still making the most of it.
IT IS A CHOICE.
But can he choose to do this?
TheRealCallie said:Who said it can be switched off that easily? WHY do you (generalized you) always jump to "oh they said that, they think it's easy, they're ******* morons"? NO ONE said it was easy. NO ONE said anything was easy. It's not. But it is a choice. You can always choose how you let your emotions take hold of you. You don't have to be bitter, you could remain at least a little bit positive or if that's too far for you, just not negative.
It's on YOU how your life turns out. It's on YOU if you let bad **** stop you or hold you down/back. Sure, wallow it in for a while, if you feel you must, but let it the **** go and move on from it. Stop letting life hold you back just because you didn't get what you wanted. You will NEVER get what you want if you let yourself become and stay bitter and negative. I don't care who wants to dispute this or call me ignorant or even a dumbfuck, people CAN see that ****, it turns people off.
So yes, it is a choice, everything is a choice. Not all choices are good, not all choices want to be made, not all choices are going to make your life better.
If you are mugged, it's your choice to be scared and paranoid or not. You could take self defense classes and learn how to protect yourself, you can go to therapy or whatever to get over the paranoia or fear.
If you are rejected (even if it's a million times), it's your CHOICE to let that make you bitter. You could simply accept that maybe you're asking the wrong people out or maybe your standards are too high or maybe your coming off in a way you don't mean to. You could regroup, find out what you're doing wrong and keep trying.
Almost everything in life is a choice, even if it doesn't seem like a choice at all.
Red_Wedding_Casualty said:or if you've just got no patience for male tears
ardour said:Yup, it's the way you've dealt with things, so it has to be shouted at everyone else.
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