Questions for the Men

[Finished]

Yeahh I was thinking it could be pink, fluffy throws on some pretty chairs lool maybe a lava lamp for nostalgia

I'm guessing fruity wine coolers in the mini-fridge too?

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I'm guessing fruity wine coolers in the mini-fridge too?

I loveeee this idea lol

 

[roses4all]

I'm guessing fruity wine coolers in the mini-fridge too?

you better get working on that

cause I didn't see anywhere you could plug a fridge in

I'll watch

 

[Finished]

you better get working on that

cause I didn't see anywhere you could plug a fridge in

I'll watch

You be watching on the other side of the broom. No free lunches in Finish's barn.

 

[Xpendable]

Hmm I still have men in my yes i would section but im not friends with them at all, i dont talk to them unless im single. My never section that im usually friends with can give me an ego boost by telling me how dumb my ex is and how any guy would be lucky to have me blah blah if they wish but thats as far as any of that would go.

That sounds like larping to be honest, but you have 1400 comments and no one is that committed.

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

Did I miss this? Not like me hmm how could I do such a thing, naughty Ceno.

Sometimes I think men give us tooo much credit or not enough lol I think on the most part we are both as confused, fragile, and vulnerable buttt I wont lie, not all women but deffo me expects men to handle how they feel completely opposite to how I do, if they dont it gets weird fast.

I think the issue is, some women feed off being the apple to a guys eye, in the past I’d feel offended if a guy wasnt willing to leave his wife for me, I’d get it into my head that im this amazing person for being nice enough to let her keep her husband not a total ***** for trying to steal him in the first place lol its that warped psychology behind a lot of women I feel some men are complaining about and women who arent like that are sick of getting painted with the same brush, although im no longer like that, I also have to keep myself in check because being like that, life was way easier than this exsistence Im living… so I always wanna go back to that subconsciously, its only through hearing men say how much women like that have hurt them, is how i figured out it was wrong.

I've gotten to where I have no expectations of other people.
I keep it that way on purpose, makes life easier for me to manage.
I don't carry the baggage of my former relationships with me emotionally, I've dealt with that already. My quality of life is actually better since I stopped gambling with the idea of the dating pool. I do however find it kind of ironic, that opting out has a higher probability for quality of life perks. It's ironic because as a kid and a teenager my whole life hinged on the idea of love. But as an adult and especially now that I'm over my physical prime I'm kind of just like: Meh. My mind is on other stuff.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

That sounds like larping to be honest, but you have 1400 comments and no one is that committed.

Dont make me google please im gonna get stuck on larping what is that? Whats your take? Wanna give me a peek inside your mind?

edit- too late I googled and now am I laughing sooo much because of the first pic that came up. Honestly this site is too much, if I said yes i’d date my friendzoned guys you’d all say im a liar if I say no I wont but may expect some ego inflating then you’d all say im a liar but my girls do it too, I do it, if my girl is dumped omg you dont wanna hear what i call her fella and when they get back together I just… smile lol its life.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I've gotten to where I have no expectations of other people.
I keep it that way on purpose, makes life easier for me to manage.
I don't carry the baggage of my former relationships with me emotionally, I've dealt with that already. My quality of life is actually better since I stopped gambling with the idea of the dating pool. I do however find it kind of ironic, that opting out has a higher probability for quality of life perks. It's ironic because as a kid and a teenager my whole life hinged on the idea of love. But as an adult and especially now that I'm over my physical prime I'm kind of just like: Meh. My mind is on other stuff.

I feel like you’re gonna get married one day, I feel it in my waters as my mum would say loool no idea what that means but I wanna come, as much as I love causing controversy I wont wear white… or black or red omfg my sis lost a friendship over wearing red! But you seem like a nice guy I bet love will find ya

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Okay men, I’ve done an amazing job with my battle for equality I think I deserve some flowers but… Im just happy im making a real difference! 166 vs 181 we are nearly there! Lol im joking but your question for the day is as follows….

Do you think exs can be friends or is there no going back after the line is crossed?

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

I feel like you’re gonna get married one day, I feel it in my waters as my mum would say loool no idea what that means but I wanna come, as much as I love causing controversy I wont wear white… or black or red omfg my sis lost a friendship over wearing red! But you seem like a nice guy I bet love will find ya

If I get married it'll be like when I'm 60 or 70.
Preferably to someone no younger than their middle 40s or early 50s.
Reason being is to epically hurtle over all of the trivial factors about the dating pool that aren't strictly about what love and relationships should be about: Love.

Okay men, I’ve done an amazing job with my battle for equality I think I deserve some flowers but… Im just happy im making a real difference! 166 vs 181 we are nearly there! Lol im joking but your question for the day is as follows….

Do you think exs can be friends or is there no going back after the line is crossed?

I'm platonic friends with a couple of my exes, but they're actually still hung up on me and I keep rejecting them because I don't do the back and forth thing because I believe it isn't healthy. When I'm done, I'm done. When it's over it's over. I can have a platonic friendship with them and I try to maintain one but sometimes they'll say or do some **** that just irks me and makes me think "yeah see, this is why I'm not with you still..." but I'm not going to forwardly say that, I don't actively try to hurt people.

 

[Xpendable]

Dont make me google please im gonna get stuck on larping what is that? Whats your take? Wanna give me a peek inside your mind?

edit- too late I googled and now am I laughing sooo much because of the first pic that came up. Honestly this site is too much, if I said yes i’d date my friendzoned guys you’d all say im a liar if I say no I wont but may expect some ego inflating then you’d all say im a liar but my girls do it too, I do it, if my girl is dumped omg you dont wanna hear what i call her fella and when they get back together I just… smile lol its life.

Not at all. It's not one position over the other, but the fact you use the same type of language and actually use the same words a man would use to describe that type of behavior simply doesn't exist in the female point of view. Girls don't say they use those ego-busts, they don't say they have a strictly defined friendzone... they simply don`t say these things; online or irl. And you can say your friends do but that's not even close to being a general rule. So, I don't say you're a liar, but if you only had a few dozen comments and just be in this site for a month, then I would definitely believe you're larping.

 

[ardour]

It does sounds like CenotaphGirl might be repeating the ideas of lonely bitter men on the internet, maybe ironically.

Of course, women claim to be offended at the friendzone thing because it implies men only value their company if there's a possibility of romance/***. It is funny enough to see it turned around with a women consciously putting guys in a 'nice but not dateable' category.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Not at all. It's not one position over the other, but the fact you use the same type of language and actually use the same words a man would use to describe that type of behavior simply doesn't exist in the female point of view. Girls don't say they use those ego-busts, they don't say they have a strictly defined friendzone... they simply don`t say these things; online or irl. And you can say your friends do but that's not even close to being a general rule. So, I don't say you're a liar, but if you only had a few dozen comments and just be in this site for a month, then I would definitely believe you're larping.

And this is why…. I dont like to google definitions okay okay waittt some of what I say is to add a little humour its not meant to be taken like I walk around talking like chad this and uh I really need an ego boost today… which I dooo, tell me im pretty?

But I am on the dark side of research of the incel community. My theory about every group is… it cant be all lies, I can admit the things I do because if I dont then it gaslights when im trying to find out more. Also I am male focused for various reasons sooo I like to hear what guys have to say that dont particularly follow the community.


Anyway… nice to hear what you think on what most women will and will not admit, I agree with ya on that. Keep ya eyes peeled for more questions from the darkside

 

[CenotaphGirl]

It does sounds like CenotaphGirl might be repeating the ideas of lonely bitter men on the internet, maybe ironically.

Of course, women claim to be offended at the friendzone thing because it implies men only value their company if there's a possibility of romance/***. It is funny enough to see it turned around with a women consciously putting guys in a 'nice but not dateable' category.

Lool you men are too much, I’d prefer to read how im too intellectual to be a woman, not this crap lmao. At least kiss me before you slap me. Thats.. how i like it. But anyway, I dont even think I grasp the concept of a friendzone… is it simply I have guys I just see as friends because its true… did I know having a guy friend could hurt him… no I really didnt… I thought guys loved having me as a friend but they didnt for the most part I cant understand why other than attraction blurring lines.

 

[Xpendable]

It does sounds like CenotaphGirl might be repeating the ideas of lonely bitter men on the internet, maybe ironically.

Of course, women claim to be offended at the friendzone thing because it implies men only value their company if there's a possibility of romance/***. It is funny enough to see it turned around with a women consciously putting guys in a 'nice but not dateable' category.

I think they actually get offended because it implies women use men for ego-busts and have a very utilitarian view of male relationships. Women don't want to be perceived as immoral, so it's easier to pretend everything is male imagination.

 

[ardour]

Lool you men are too much, I’d prefer to read how im too intellectual to be a woman, not this crap lmao. At least kiss me before you slap me. Thats.. how i like it. But anyway, I dont even think I grasp the concept of a friendzone… is it simply I have guys I just see as friends because its true… did I know having a guy friend could hurt him… no I really didnt… I thought guys loved having me as a friend but they didnt for the most part I cant understand why other than attraction blurring lines.

Probably better not to use the term friendzone if you don't want to be misunderstood. From a bitter male perspective it means "women who use men they know have a crush on them in order to get favours/support".

If you just have male friends then, fine..?

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Probably better not to use the term friendzone if you don't want to be misunderstood. From a bitter male perspective it means "women who use men they know have a crush on them in order to get favours/support".

If you just have male friends then, fine..?

Okay okay nooo then I don't have a friendzone at all I have guy friends but I dont use them for anything… I dont even accept Christmas gifts from them lmao but I do notice more often than not my guy friends end up wanting to be more when that happens i’d end it as I just think …. Wtf…

okay so if thats the “friendzone” what is the zone when guys only see you as a sexual option? Like you’ll never be girlfriend material?

 

[Finished]

Dont make me google please im gonna get stuck on larping what is that? Whats your take? Wanna give me a peek inside your mind?

edit- too late I googled and now am I laughing sooo much because of the first pic that came up. Honestly this site is too much, if I said yes i’d date my friendzoned guys you’d all say im a liar if I say no I wont but may expect some ego inflating then you’d all say im a liar but my girls do it too, I do it, if my girl is dumped omg you dont wanna hear what i call her fella and when they get back together I just… smile lol its life.

So.......... No matter what you are the victim? Ha! ha! Just kidding!

There are people on one side or the other. Then there are people on both sides. Then there are people that are on the opposite side of the op just because. Then I try to come afterwards and make a joke out of it. Ha! ha!

 

[CenotaphGirl]

So.......... No matter what you are the victim? Ha! ha! Just kidding!

There are people on one side or the other. Then there are people on both sides. Then there are people that are on the opposite side of the op just because. Then I try to come afterwards and make a joke out of it. Ha! ha!

Lool I like… no wait loveeee that you mentioned opposite “just because”

 

[Finished]

Okay okay nooo then I don't have a friendzone at all I have guy friends but I dont use them for anything… I dont even accept Christmas gifts from them lmao but I do notice more often than not my guy friends end up wanting to be more when that happens i’d end it as I just think …. Wtf…

okay so if thats the “friendzone” what is the zone when guys only see you as a sexual option? Like you’ll never be girlfriend material?

I think, but I could be wrong, the slutzone?

As in, she's too hot, probably has lots of BFs. So into the slutzone she goes! Sure, I'll bang her. But, no relationship for her. She's not the marrying type. She's the cheating type. Ha! ha!