Kenny
Well-known member
Sci-Fi said:
QFMFT (quoted for mother ******* truth!)
I had almost forgotten about that annoying trait that my ex had.
She would say that I never told her something if it was convenient for her to have forgotten it.
She would say that I said something that I didn't if it served her underlying purpose in the interaction.
She would say that I didn't do something that I clearly did, even when presented with evidence which she would shrug off and deflect the subject, she would still deny it happened!
W. T. F.
Sci-Fi, you want to know the truth about how this works? I'll tell you. I've had women clue me in during moments of weakness where they described their tactics to me (as friends, sisters, acquaintances, LOL).
She KNOWS that she is wrong and that what she is saying isn't true. The point is that she doesn't care. She isn't playing a LOGICAL game. She is playing a FEELINGS game. If she can upset you, or hurt you, or control/manipulate you through using methods that are clearly illogical, she will do so. Actually most of them do this, admittedly!
What you have to do when she wants to play verbal "fiction" games with your head and heart, is adopt an approach of parenting her, because she is acting like a child.
Rewards / Punishments
Now, if a women insists on playing games with me I simply deny her my attention and time. If she "behaves", she wins my attention and time. It's as simple as that. No logic. No feelings. Only control. It's beating her at her own game: control.
Sorry to blow your secret, girls.
Unfortunately, the question becomes: is it worth it to have to parent an adult to get into her vagina?
