Questions for the Men

[CenotaphGirl]

Okay good. B is the right answer then.

You men really dont listen to your hearts! what about loveeeeeee?

 

[Finished]

You men really dont listen to your hearts! what about loveeeeeee?

I love food more then women. My heart is in my stomach.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I love food more then women. My heart is in my stomach.

Lol settles it, men are monsters lmao

 

[Finished]

Lol settles it, men are monsters lmao

I totally agree! I would be a lesbian if I was a woman.

 

[user 164061]

I totally agree! I would be a lesbian if I was a woman.

And not the kind you'd see in a certain kind of film

 

[user 139760]

Oh please there is always a girl C. That girl who is secretly in love with you but thinks she has no chance so she just stays in the wings hoping he will notice her.

That's the girl I'd date, to be honest. Girl A sounds like a starts with b, girl B is texting me porn. Girl C sounds like she's got her stuff together, has kids like I do. Obviously A and B enjoy the drama, C just keeps her peace. That'd be my choice.

But...I'm wired differently

Edit: If I'm in love with girl A but she's giving me zero signs of attention or intent...why the hell would I stay in love with her?

 

[CenotaphGirl]

That's the girl I'd date, to be honest. Girl A sounds like a starts with b, girl B is texting me porn. Girl C sounds like she's got her stuff together, has kids like I do. Obviously A and B enjoy the drama, C just keeps her peace. That'd be my choice.

But...I'm wired differently

Edit: If I'm in love with girl A but she's giving me zero signs of attention or intent...why the hell would I stay in love with her?

Girl A could be shy or have low self-esteem or just needs a man to bring her out of her shell, these traits are often associated with ice coldness lol but she's deffo not rude to you maybe just unsure how to progress? You guys have/had something theres love there, still there but.... well now Girl B is super into you and makes no excuses about it or effort hiding it she just throws it out there, she is deffo the chaser in this situation and sends you well a detailed description of what life would be like if you was to be with her. Girl C is has been waiting for you in the shadows, became a really good mum of 4, likes you as much as girl B but... refuses to be the chaser out of fear of rejection? and hopes one day, you will notice her.

Jesus women are a headache lool I'm stuck and I'm not even a bloke lmao you are in love with girl A but she's just started pulling away and starving you from her attention for reasons unknown and unclear.

 

[Cherubino]

This is a question for the alpha type because that's the type you are used to ... for most men is harder to think about themselves and feel like into such situation

 

[Cherubino]

The heart always deserves the first chance but things have to move naturally, unforced ... so I declare to girl A what girl B declared to me ... if she doesn't quickly reciprocate then move to the girl B, C, D, ... but only under the heart's supervision

 

[CenotaphGirl]

This is a question for the alpha type because that's the type you are used to ... for most men is harder to think about themselves and feel like into such situation

Alpha! Cherubino, do you consider yourself, like beta? Thats so interesting never looked at my question like that.

The heart always deserves the first chance but things have to move naturally, unforced ... so I declare to girl A what girl B declared to me ... if she doesn't quickly reciprocate then move to the girl B, C, D, ... but only under the heart's supervision

I like the romance! I consider the heart law, but I always feel like men ignore their feelings and go with logic

 

[Cherubino]

Alpha! Cherubino, do you consider yourself, like beta? Thats so interesting never looked at my question like that.


I like the romance! I consider the heart law, but I always feel like men ignore their feelings and go with logic

Beta is the optimistic view ... and men were always the greatest romance creators

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Beta is the optimistic view ... and men were always the greatest romance creators

Awh do you like being beta or do you wish you was more alpha?

 

[Cherubino]

I would like to have some alpha qualities (physically) but preserve my Self (soul)

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I would like to have some alpha qualities (physically) but preserve my Self (soul)

When I was super young I used to say that about being popular, like I wanted to be popular but still have a heart. Thanks for answering my weird and wonderful questions!

 

[Cherubino]

When I was super young I used to say that about being popular, like I wanted to be popular but still have a heart. Thanks for answering my weird and wonderful questions!

Men love to be approached by women on various matters like women (probably) love to have men cook for them ... so you're really welcomed

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Men love to be approached by women on various matters like women (probably) love to have men cook for them ... so you're really welcomed

Nope I am a weirdo I like trad gender roles I dont want my man in the kitchen, I want him out chopping wood lol okay not literally but figuratively. Not sure how I'd cope with a man that loves to cook and clean and be submissive to me, probably end up looking for someone I am more compatible with. However, most women have changed and prefer the new way of things.

 

[Cherubino]

Nope I am a weirdo I like trad gender roles I dont want my man in the kitchen, I want him out chopping wood lol okay not literally but figuratively. Not sure how I'd cope with a man that loves to cook and clean and be submissive to me, probably end up looking for someone I am more compatible with. However, most women have changed and prefer the new way of things.

Yeah the alpha / beta /gamma approach style varies everywhere ... well alpha and gamma are supposed to be minorities while beta is the mainstream

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Yeah the alpha / beta /gamma approach style varies everywhere ... well alpha and gamma are supposed to be minorities while beta is the mainstream

I'll tell you the truth I learnt this from my friend, its all fun and games having a submissive man, until you get pregnant, like my friend was heavy pregnant and her man was still looking to her constantly, and she was just overwhelmed, carrying his weight, her own and the weight of a complicated pregnancy. Was awful to watch her in that situation. Its okay if taking the lead is not someones default, but can they step up if you ever need them to?

 

[user 135671]

I dont wanna hear that you men on ALL dont cheat ever again this is cheating to the highest degree

What about all 3 at the same time?, at my time of life I doubt I have the stamina to be honest.

 

[Cherubino]

I'll tell you the truth I learnt this from my friend, its all fun and games having a submissive man, until you get pregnant, like my friend was heavy pregnant and her man was still looking to her constantly, and she was just overwhelmed, carrying his weight, her own and the weight of a complicated pregnancy. Was awful to watch her in that situation. Its okay if taking the lead is not someones default, but can they step up if you ever need them to?

That was an unnatural alpha-gamma pair ... why would an alpha female look at a gamma male like me and why would I suffer because of that ... I would pair someone from the same league and thus not get into situations WE can't cope with (e.g. a pregnancy) ... so the heart supplies the end but the mind must approve the means