Questions for the Men

[TheRealCallie]

So helping someone carry something means you have to touch them? Um, no....Also, if you have to touch her to help, you could just simply ASK AND GET CONSENT. Not even sure why that post is even relevant.

 

[user 139760]

Well, I just have to point out I haven't been harassed in over a decade.

I mean, call me a masochist, but I could do with some right about now, especially if she's single and looking for a long-term stable relationship.

SO harass away

 

[kamya]

Well, I just have to point out I haven't been harassed in over a decade.

I mean, call me a masochist, but I could do with some right about now, especially if she's single and looking for a long-term stable relationship.

SO harass away

What if its some Large Marge type character doing the harassing?

[youtube]uzolCu-QLw0[/youtube]

 

[user 139760]

Well, I just have to point out I haven't been harassed in over a decade.

I mean, call me a masochist, but I could do with some right about now, especially if she's single and looking for a long-term stable relationship.

SO harass away

What if its some Large Marge type character doing the harassing?

[youtube]uzolCu-QLw0[/youtube]

I'LL TAKE IT!


I know. I'm a weak, weak man...

 

[ardour]

A woman at the cash register recklessly brushed her hand against mine this morning whilst giving change for a soy flat white.

No consent sought. Can you believe that?!

 

[TheRealCallie]

A woman at the cash register recklessly brushed her hand against mine this morning whilst giving change for a soy flat white.

No consent sought. Can you believe that?!

You gonna sue? :O

 

[ardour]

A good doxing should suffice.

 

[Serenia]

It's not okay to touch anyone without consent.

Exactly my original point. Why try to be a white knight to save a person in trouble only to end up "harassing" or "molesting" them?   Let them fall if they are falling, or ask for their permission. do you really want to do inappropriate things by touching them without consent?  No, offcourse no. 
This is the reason why I said I would help a random woman on the street. Who knows if I end up touching them or casually looking at them while helping them.!!!
"Being a woman doesn't mean it's any more serious than when a guy is harassed."

THEORETICALLY, yes.

Jeez all I wanted was another 'person' male or female to help me carry a very large, heavy piece of wood.  No need to over think it.

 

[TheRealCallie]

It has nothing to do with chivalry.  It has to do with seeing a human being struggling and being a decent person about it.  If you like them enough to say hi, you should help.... doesn't matter what gender the other person is.  But yeah, I suppose HUMANITY is dead too in 2017

No. I am just preventing a harassment from happening. Its very humane to do so.


[img=600x500]https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachme...006219041701895/IMG_20171220_171559.jpg[/img]

Try reading and/or posting the actual article.  THIS was an inappropriate situation, it was not warranted in any way, so of course he should be arrested.  The guy wasn't trying to help her, he just wanted to cop a **** feel.  
https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/pune/man-touches-widow-booked/articleshow/61871485.cms

 

[M_also_lonely]

Try reading and/or posting the actual article.  THIS was an inappropriate situation, it was not warranted in any way, so of course he should be arrested.  The guy wasn't trying to help her, he just wanted to cop a **** feel.  
https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/pune/man-touches-widow-booked/articleshow/61871485.cms

I never talked about that article. I am quoting what the cops say. 

I don't think you read what the cops said. Let me post it again:

"A casual touch, a casual remark, a casual stare. NO, none of these are casual and can have serious consequences. Spread the word, we are watching."

 

[M_also_lonely]

So helping someone carry something means you have to touch them?  

Ugh, seems like I have to dumb everything down these days. Ok:
No. You don't HAVE to touch her. But if you end up touching her, no matter whether your intentions are bad or not, if she accuses him, there is no way he can get out. For example: where a man is asleep and his foot touches the shoulder = sexual molestation of a minor. Also, simply based on accusation. This is why you don't help a woman in need.  Or if you are really a white knight, and a woman is falling, ask for her consent before you can help her, but that seems to be a long procedure and there is still no evidence that she gave you the consent to help her.
http://www.news18.com/amp/news/movi...light-fir-against-unknown-person-1599691.html

 

[TheRealCallie]

Why the fresia is a grown ass man in the same bed as a minor?

Do you just "speak" to hear yourself? Maybe to appear like you are smart about these things? I don't know, but this isn't the first time you took something EXTREMELY out of context to try to argue with me or someone else....maybe you just like trying to make others feel dumb, I don't know, I don't care. Won't work with me, though, so you might as well stop trying.
I like how you just completely ignore everything else I say and only focus on the parts you can twist around. lol

 

[M_also_lonely]

Why the fresia is a grown ass man in the same bed as a minor?
LMAO he wasn't. It happened in a ******* plane, both being on different seats.


Maybe to appear like you are smart about these things?
I think everyone has the right here to discuss and question things, unlike you might believe.


I don't know, but this isn't the first time you took something EXTREMELY out of context to try to argue with me or someone else.., I don't know, I don't care.

Saying something in capital letters doesn't affect its meaning, just saying.
Anyways. no it not EXTREMELY out of context. Both involves communication between a man and a woman and what the consequences of that might be.
These issues really need to be brought forward, if you don't want to discuss, you don't have to. Remember, everything is a choice.

i don't care
Then you wouldn't respond.


ike how you just completely ignore everything else I say and only focus on the parts you can twist around. lol
Like saying that child support should be mandatory based on your experience? Lol right. Hahaha try again.

Anyways I don't ignore, all I can present is my points of view. They don't have to agree with yours.

Won't work with me, though, so you might as well stop trying.
Trying what? I was told that this is a public forum and people have the right to post on a public thread or post, and I will. If you don't want to respond or don't care then don't! Simple. Its your freedom. Seems like you want to respond to people and don't want people to question it. You pointed out at my original response, and this is a public forum, I will respond.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Why are men so embarrassed of tampons? If you buy them, it's a pretty fair chance everyone will know that you aren't getting them for yourself.

 

[bleed_the_freak]

Why are men so embarrassed of tampons?  If you buy them, it's a pretty fair chance everyone will know that you aren't getting them for yourself.

I had to buy feminine hygiene products once. It was one of the most terrifying experiences of my life. Because no man belongs in the Vagina Aisle.

 

[VanillaCreme]

Why are men so embarrassed of tampons?  If you buy them, it's a pretty fair chance everyone will know that you aren't getting them for yourself.

I had to buy feminine hygiene products once. It was one of the most terrifying experiences of my life. Because no man belongs in the Vagina Aisle.

I don't see the big deal myself, but I can understand the embarrassment. Plenty of times, though, I bought Speed Stick and Right Guard deodorant for ******* and it was just another shopping trip. Even if guys were using tampons themselves for whatever reason, it's just another item that's being bought.

 

[Xpendable]

It's like if a girl went to buy viagra for her bf.

 

[TheRealCallie]

It's like if a girl went to buy viagra for her bf.

I'd have no problem with that

 

[beautiful loser]

Why are men so embarrassed of tampons?  If you buy them, it's a pretty fair chance everyone will know that you aren't getting them for yourself.

I don't get it, either.  I've done it several times in the past and would do it again.  Just like holding her purse while she looks at clothing.  I've seen some guys freak out about that.  Grow a pair and stop thinking it's emasculating.

 

[kamya]

Why are men so embarrassed of tampons?  If you buy them, it's a pretty fair chance everyone will know that you aren't getting them for yourself.

I don't get it, either.  I've done it several times in the past and would do it again.  Just like holding her purse while she looks at clothing.  I've seen some guys freak out about that.  Grow a pair and stop thinking it's emasculating.

I was with you until you mentioned the purse thing. =P